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writes: Okay heres how it goes.I am a fifteen year old gay guy and i have a crush on a fellow guy who goes to school with me and i am more than sure that he is gay.Well he is really shy,and all and he easily blushes around hot guys.So no doubt there.But the problem is that does he like me? Well we havent talked to each other once and aren't friends,but theres something about him that makes me feel he does like me.We're in the same class and i've seen him staring at me at times but maybe thats becuz i stare at him at times too so maybe he's just looking.And this other we were having our movie day so the class was watching a movie,him and i were sitting like close together in a position like he was just infront of me.Okay during the movie,he kept looking back.I Dont knw if he was looking at me or the noise the other kids were making at the back.He probably does try to talk to me but he's too shy to say something and when we confront he kinda looks down at goes away.This is really confusing.He does look at me around 2-4 times a class but they're like short glances not like when ure in love with someone.What Should i do to find out if he likes me or not!!! and plzzz something thats acceptable not something that'll make me embarassed if he isnt in to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011): I would say if he's glancing at you several times per class, he's interested. I think you just need to break the ice with him. He probably just isn't sure that you like him since you haven't talked to him.
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (19 January 2011):
Just from your short description... it sounds like he DOES like you. Given his shyness YOU are the one who's going to have to make the first move.
See if he wants to go see a movie with you... just you and him.
If that's a little too direct... then find out if he wants to work on some homework assignment... or just study after school together. You can then use these study sessions to get to know him better - as you can essentially get him alone (if possible) and just chit-chat with him... while studying.
Rinse and Repeat as necessary.
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