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writes:I'm a 17 year old lesbian and a couple of weeks ago met this gorgeous woman at a bar. We really hit it off, kissed, exchanged numbers and haven't seen other since. We've been texting since that night, but the only problem is I told her I was in university...Just a couple of days I ago I received a friend request from her on Facebook. I'm DYING to accept but am afraid if I do she will find out that I lied about my age. I could always put her on an extremely limited profile option (i.e. she can't see my photo albums, can't see what other people write on my wall)--but I feel like she would become suspicious of that. Last night I texted her and she never responded...I'm afraid she's offended perhaps that I haven't responded to her request (I haven't rejected it, just not accepted it yet). Should I accept her, or just not respond and if she asks me tell her I never use Facebook? I really want to accept but I feel like it might become tedious monitoring myself.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (27 January 2011):
 tell her the truth, say you were afraid your age would scare her away.
add her as a friend but send a message to her really quickly. have it written in ms word so you can copy and paste it for extra efficiency.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, I really appreciate. To answer the first person's question, she is 39...So quite a bit older.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): Dont worry hun.just tell her the truth and apologise for lying.Besides,you only lied about your age.There are a lot worse things people lie about !.Good luck,and i wish you all the best with this girl.
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reader, maverick494  +, writes (27 January 2011):
I'm guessing the reason you lied was because you wanted to impress her and because she's older. Well, the truth will come out somehow, so I would just be honest with her if I were you. Better sooner than later, if you still want to have a shot at this that is.
Just call her up and tell her. But most of all, tell her why.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): uhhhhh this is a tough one!!! man..comine from a lesbian & an experienced lier.. i would say lie & deny til you die honestly. but I just got caught doing that.. and it was a bad mistake.. =/ all you can do is just be honest. think about it.. say you hide it for now.. if you guys did become serious..shed find out later anyways & be more upset then & prob not ever trust you again or want to look past it. itll be hard but just be honest. expect her request & tell her that u lied bc you were into her & you didnt know what shed think and that u hope she can look past it & still talk to you.. just curious though.. how old is she??
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