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writes:Im only 17 and i dont know if im Straight, Bi or Gay.this can sound weird but i enjoy watching Gay porn, but i wouldnt want to do it in real life, i would only do it if something changes my mind,for years now I've loved this girl and i still like her, but i get turned on by some girls not all, and i get turned on by few guys!how do i know what i am!, because i wouldnt want to be gay, i want to have a kid and get married in the future, i have days when i like both sex and days when i like only girls!Please could you help me Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): Well, i feel almost the same. I've only loved one girl, i even think i still do but i get turned on by men. Gay porn gets me aroused, lesbian porn only sometimes. I do get aroused when im with a girl thou, kissin her or touchin her (still a virgin here) dont know about guys, never got the chance to be with one. The only solution i see, for myself at least, is experimenting, but idk if i wanna do that with a guy so i guess time will tell. Sorry for rambling and not helping you one bit haha.
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reader, Blod +, writes (31 January 2011):
 Don't worry about it. There's no need to label yourself as straight, bi or gay. It's not that simple. There's a lot of grey area when it comes to sexuality. You could be straight but find members of the same sex attractive, but that doesn't have to mean you want to be in a relationship with them. I know it sounds odd, but I think you need to stop putting pressure on yourself. Just go with what feels right. It can take ages to work out how you really feel, so don't worry! Everything will work out in the end.
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reader, empty-1  +, writes (31 January 2011):
What are you? Easy... YOU'RE HUMAN!!!Take pride in the fact that you are not so homophobic that you admit to being aroused by men enjoying themselves.You may well be what is sometimes called 'bi-curious'. That can take many forms, but you can basically think of it as a straight guy that wouldn't necessarily mind being semi-sexual with another man, but wouldn't likely fall in love with one.I've known guys that would go down on another guy, would let another guy go down on them, but anal play was simply out of the question. Most of those guys would not have a 'romantic' relationship with another guy, but have no problem falling in love with a chick. I know at least one man who considers himself (his words, not mine) as a complete flaming faggot. He is easily one of the most flamboyantly effeminate men I've ever met (and has a killer sense of humor about it - making him a lot of fujn at parties!) and he's had sex with at least one female that I know of.don't worry so much about putting a label to your preferences. The truth is, there is no catagory or series of catagories that everyone will fit into. People aren't straight, gay, or bi. People are people, and they have emotional and sexual preferences and urges that span an incredibly diverse specturm. The names, labels, and catagories are convenient ways to classify large numbers for statistical purposes, but there are limits to how useful those labels can be when speaking on an individual level.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): Hey..I can totally relate..but I'm a girl, I'm 19 years old. I actually have no solution to this or why, but I'm the same way. Like, I can't find myself being in love with a girl but I get turned on by girls and sometimes I want to get sexual with them, but I'm in love with my boyfriend. I think you're just attracted to both forms of genders but can only become emotionally bonded with females. So I'd say you're bi curious. Like me. If it becomes a total issue in the future..maybe you should explore those things.
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