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male
age
30-35,
*aturelover
writes:I'm sixteen years old and I'm homosexual. I've never had any kind of relationship, it's harder because I have a very specific taste on guys. Currently, I have two crushes and I was never that positive about my chances. There's this one year younger lad who studies in my school. He's kinda shy and I love that. I wrote a lot of poetry and other texts about him which I wish I can show for him someday. I'm awaiting for the moment when classes begin but I'd like to be confident, because I want to be liked back this time. Though, I don't feel comfortable with my, it's like the outside doesn't match with what's inside. I want to be more feminine, to wax my leg hair, to use not-so-masculine but discreet outfits, to find some easier way other than pluck my beard (ouch!) so I don't stay with those dark spots or fuller beard. I'd definetly need my parents' help to do such things, however, I didn't come out to them yet because they're not really open-minded about it (I want to do that soon, even though it will be tough). And then there's this little (literally, btw I'm 5'8") bitc# who made me jealous when I went to the internet and saw the messages she sent to him in which she told him that she liked his way and asked for his msn. It makes me so angry because she laughed at me once and she is pretty and has a hot female body. Maybe I'm making it up in my mind because I'm really afraid that someone will steal the ppl that I love, while they are just friends, but maybe she's a potential rival which would make things even tougher.I also have a second crush, it's a nice 22 yr old guy, it's been a long time that I don't see him (since he smiled at me cause I said something funny, I guess it was the 1st time a guy noticed some brilliance in me). I imagine that he's like a 2nd option (since he's really older) and that I could ask him out someday...All this long introduction to such a brief question: what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): Im sixteen very soon and im bi but have more attraction to men and i also like someone who is a year younger than me and i think he may be bi/gay! He is also one of my friends so that also can help so try to befriend this boy and hope for the best!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 January 2011):
 I think you should just follow what your head is telling you to do.
Ok crush number 1. Is he gay? You need to find that out, ok yes there is a female that sounds like she fancies him therefore you need to be sure that he is gay first off because if he is not gay then he is not going to be with you as you cannot turn somebody else gay therefore try and find this information out first before you tell him you like him.
crush number 2. Age shouldnt matter but it sounds to me like you dont really know this man very well. So maybe try and get to know him better before you make up your mind.
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