How do I tell this girl that I am not interested without coming out of the closet? And what should I do about my crush?

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am a gay guy and my problem is that theres this really beautiful girl who goes to high school with me has been crushing on me like a real major crush. im closeted and i wish to remain closeted so she doesnt know that im gay.Well this girl is like the hottest babe in school and any straight guy would die for her but i dont know how to tell her im not interested and still remain closeted.She comes for all my games especially my soccer matches and she keeps staring at me through out the game.Her friend told me she's madly in love with me and i cant stop feeling bad for her to go drooling over me when im not remotely interested in girls.and theres this guy who has a crush on her and he is bi.He has come out as bi for a while now.i have a major crush on this dude,he isnt very good looking but he is attractive and has a toned body.And i know i cant get over this crush cuz this isnt just a crush but i know im badly in love with him.In the gym i got an erection seeing him shirtless,he saw me and smiled.But he didnt say he was interested or anything.What to do i want him bad and help the girl out?

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