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writes:Hey everyone. I need your opinions. A year ago i started *asturbating on gay porn, I wasnt really attracted to guys, I just wanted to see it. And me, stupid idiot, kept doing it, cos I thought "Ah So what, I can stop anytime". I also did it on some of my friends than :S . Anyway later I realized I cant get turned on by girls anymore! First I want to say, that im attracted sexually only by muscular guys, not any other. And i am also NOT attracted by guys emotionally, never been , never was, I dont want to insult, but just thought of me being in relationship, emotionally connected to a guy makes me disgusted and awful. But also, my mind is trying to convince me that I am, but I know I am not. Anyway a month ago I started to look at girls again, look at their boobs, buts, and their hot body. Oh and also, I am not turned on by penises, only by muscular chest and back. And i love vaginas, im not disgusted by it. And I even like thoughts of me having sex with girls, I think its awesome! Since a month ago I can finally get erection by thinking of me having sex with woman, if i concentrate haha xD But its a bit harder to *asturbate it completely by thinking only about woman. But its getting better and better since last month. Btw. im 16, never kissed a girl or anyone else, or had sex. Idk..maybe its HOCD, which would make me happy cos I would just keep ignoring gay thought and watch only straight porn, until im straight haha, or im bi-curious and in a phase, but is it possible that phase can last for so long? Or am I bisexual? Or just in denial? I dont think im in denial, because I really am disgusted by thought of being in relationship with guy, holding hands etc, its just awful. One day I will have wife ( Im sure in that cos I am emotionally conected with girls, love them etc.) kids ( dont tell me that I can adopt kids, I would rather be alone than be with a guy) and 5 houses, BWM , mercedes, and a lot more...I hope so hahaha xD And this doesnt have to do with anything about bible, cos tbh, I didnt even know that somewhere in Bible it says its not good to be gay, so thats not a reason for anything lol. and Ill never visit psychiatrist lol, im not that stupid to give money to someone who will try to convince me that im not gay, when im saying that to myself already haha. Anyway thats it. After you answer, also tell me, even if i would be gay, which I hope im not, would I still be able to have sex with a woman, im afraid i wouldnt be able to get erection before sex. and i repeat, if your gonna just try to convince me that Im gay, remember that Im just attracted to some muscular chests, and emtionally attracted to girls, not guys. Oh and btw. no one will ever be able to convince me that Im gay, cos I know I am NOT. Im just here for some opinions lol. And for all of you who got the same problem good luck on becoming straight :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): The safest way is to try girls first, see how you like it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): If gay thas fine, if straight also fine, if bi again fine. There is nothing wrong with being any of these things ad if you like gay porn also fine!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011): Only YOU will work this out once you start getting into a relationship with a woman or a man. Now if you find out you do like having sex with men, do not get into a marriage with a woman just because you want the whole picket white fence thing. It would be wrong and unfair to the woman,.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (19 January 2011):
 I don't think you have to pin yourself to one sexuality right now. This is the time to experiment and see what you're attracted to. You might be straight, gay, bi, or pansexual. The thing is, we can't define what you are. You get to do that. I say date who appeals to you, practice safer sex, and have fun.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (19 January 2011):
 porn is porn you're fine, Watchjing men have sex on the computer is erotic even for straight guys-no sweat!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011): I forgot to mention, Im only on a straight porn for a week by now, and Im more relaxed, happier, and Im enjoying it. And I repeat, ill never experiment by having sex with a guy, but ONLY and ONLY with a girl :P I just did it on a straight porn woo! XD
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011): Dude porn and attraction are not good indicators of your sexuality. I mean what your basically doing is the same as looking at two flavours of ice cream, that you've never tried before and trying to judge which one you'd like based on the packaging. That makes no sense does it?
How do you resolve the ice cream issue? Easy isn't it? You just try one and see if you like it and if you don;t really like ti you try the other flavour. That's that OP. Until you start experimenting with girls and boys then you're not going to know for sure. So get out there and start getting with people. The safest way is to try girls first, see how you like it.
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