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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

My story of how karma really can bite you. And why empathy is important in relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Well basically I am 14 years old and i would like to share a story which really really changed my way that I view the world and why you shouldn't take people for granted. All names included in this stroy are made up ones. I had a friend n...

In love with my friend, but I'm not a lesbian! How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I would like your opinions on this one and if possible some advice you could give... I am in love with a close friend of mine. We are always together every time and we always talk about topics related to crushes and love. I've loved her for al...

Why did he do a disappearing trick on me. How would you have handled this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I met a guy a month back in a business meeting and we exchanged numbers then added eaach other on blackberry. we hit it off instantly given the strong chemistry between us! He lives an hour drive away from me, so we were in touch on a...

He's cheated on me over 12 times and gave me a STD. How do I cope with my hurt and the feeling he's going to do it again and soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I've been with the same guy for 4 years we have a baby together but in the past 2 years he cheated on me over 12 times. One of the times he gave me an std I found out from his sisters friend because he gave it to her as well. Another time a girl ...

Can someone give me some techniques to just accept compliments with good grace and not feel so undeserving and overwhelmed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I have a really difficult time accepting compliments, and people think I'm stuck up because of it or I seek attention - but really with anything, grades, comments from a professor regarding a great paper I wrote - it all overwhelms me so much and ...

My pattern of preferring much older men is starting to bother me. But are men in their 30s discounting me for dating older men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I'm a 31 year old woman. I live alone and have a career that I love. I'm fairly attractive. I would say I'm an 8 out of 10 on most days. I don't have a desire to get married. I have a healthy fear of getting pregnant or catching a disease. I ...

Should I Kiss him or wait for him to kiss me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - My best friend is just under 3 years older than me. Her boyfriend's best friend has feelings for me and tries to get up close and personal all the time. I find this very sweet but extremely annoying at the same time. I do think he is hot though and ...

Shall I forget all this or start from the beginning?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4768 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Topic started when I saw a girl in the university about a year ago .. From the first moment I felt it was a different girl .. We did not talk a lot just to say hello as colleagues .. She had a lot of friends and was very popular within the unive...

How do I get peace of mind about my friendships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I realize that this question might be dificult to asnwer but thanks if you can. I am really a caring person and don't ever want anyone to feel the way I feel, but sometimes I feel all alone in the world. A series of people who I really liked a...

Is there hope for these things or am I just in denial?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - This is a tough question, I know. Thank you if you can give me an honest answer. I can accept an answer that I don't want to hear, even though it will kill me. I have had my heart broken before, and I always got up again when I didn't know if I ...

Met two people in a bar, now the guy wants to meet up again. Should I meet him alone or with his friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I met a guy and his female friend in a bar on Sunday and I have their phone numbers. The guy said he wants to meet up with me again, but I'm not sure whether to meet him on his own, or meet him and his female friend together. He fancies me, so I'm ...

How can I stop comparing myself to other women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - How can I stop comparing myself to other women, especially my friends? I have a friend who is gorgeous. She is older than me but it's as if she doesn't age. She is shorter than me, and plumper, but she is lucky in that she just looks thick, not fat ...

How long should someone shall wait to date again once being dumped and heartbroken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - It's not me. Is a guy I like, his long time GF dumped him 7 months ago and he is deeply heartbroken. As a result, he's always been a womanizer and now that she dumped him he's again on the loose fooling around girls. B/C he is being like that he saw ...

What's more important; being loved unconditionally by a good man, or being single but popular earning a good salary?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I would consider myself to be a social outcast. I have a very few select number of friends, people reject me and I'm just not all that popular. I'm not part of the clique at work, and recently missed out on a promotion because of this. The girl that ...

I'm secretly dating my best friends brother...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I'm confused on quite a few levels. I've been secretly seeing my best friends brother for 4 months now. She knows I like him and that he likes me, yet has no idea we have been seeing each other. I have poked fun at the idea of dating him, and it s...

Why is my friend avoiding me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Im very confused about my friend. The thing is I'm 100% in love with him, but he talks about how much he hates gays and doesn't like being around them. I'm not really sure though, I've sat next to him and layed on his shoulder and vice versa, I've ...

How do I avoid becoming single and friendless?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Two years ago, I ended an unhealthy relationship. My ex and I had been together for four years, but we fought a lot and our interactions got ugly, so I haven't looked back. My problem is that since that time, I haven't been able to meet any men. ...

My girlfriend dresses attractively when she goes out with her friends but when she's with me,its always the usual t-shirt and jeans

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Well, I've always noticed that my girlfriend dresses attractively when she goes out with her friends(of course,this includes guy friends),but when she's with me,its always t-shirt and jeans,in fact she only wears the same 3 or 4 t-shirts over and ...

I like him but he has a (cheating) girlfriend! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - There's this guy I like I have known him for a while. Even his parents and three sisters know me(cause I spent some nights with his lil sister cause we r best friends), but I don't know what to do. I'm in 7th grade but he's in 6th and has a ...

My "best friend" flirts with this guy I am completely head over heels for, behind my back!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - My "bestfriend" flirts with this guy i am completely head over heels for behind my back. Now he likes her he told her about a month ago and she barely told me today i feel she betrayed me just by not telling me something and am afraid other things ...

Is my friend hinting that we should date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - So here's the deal. I've been this girls friend since school started (18 August). About a month after that we got extremely close,like,we ate lunch together,took the buss ride to school and from school together (we live close to each other),s...

Am I embarrassing him, and how do I find out if I am?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I have a problem with maintaining heat, so I get cold very easily. My friend is of the opposite sex and 2 years older than me, but he is the warmest one of my friends, and when I get cold it is important that I try to stay as warm as I can so I ...

Why has she not run off screaming yet? What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I don't know how but Whenever I've tried dating girls before I've somehow always ballsed things up. They tend to like me, then they get to know me a bit and then suddenly I've lost all appeal. Probably because I'm myself, I don't try to be ...

Help me interpret these men!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - My bf broke up with me about two months ago, he said that he thinks we are just better off as friends. He recently starting talking to me again and told me that he still really wants to be my friend and so we started hanging out more. Last time i ...

How do I get through this date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I haven't dated for a while and I impulsively agreed to a date with my brother-in-laws brother. The thing is, I'm extremely nervous whole thing. I don't think we've actually spoken in the 4+ years that my sister has been married to his brother. He ...

Why can’t they just accept him for the person he is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little more than a year now. I’m going to be 20 and he’s going to be 21 next year. The problem is all about my boyfriend and what people think about him. He was working with my cousin at home depot before he got ...

My friends have replaced me with a girl they just met

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - My group of 3 friends has replaced me with the new girl. I have been away sick for a few weeks and they tell me how amazing this girl is and I feel left out, then they say they are all best friends now. It makes me really sad because they have kno...

Does she see me as more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - Hi, I would really appreciate some feedback. I've been really good friends with this girl for a while now, I've always known who she was, but in the last couple of months, I've really gotten to know her. We have a couple classes together, so I s...

Why am I the bad guy for leaving? She lies and cshe heated on me 5 times.How do I get her to leave me alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - I have ended my 4 year relationship after catching her cheating for the 5th time. She still tries to contact me, bitterly and never mentions or changes the subject, when i try to tell her why we have broke up. She used to blame me for driving her ...

How do I make it clear that I'm there for her as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - last year at college i met this girl who i have become friends with we both left college to do something different and we hadn't spoken for a while then we caught up abit through texting and then a few brief times on facebook but the other day she ...

I don't know if this guy is being a kind friend or likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a while back. I don't he is capable of being faithful to anyone. When we were breaking up I talked to a couple of mutual friends (then a couple) to try to understand what was happening. Anyway since then this couple h...

What is my friend's problem? She seems to behave like she's competing with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - hi. my best friend thinks she's all that. she is 27 and works at a pharmacy with no real certificate while im 24 and a teacher at a high school. so she earns like a third of my salary and does not have a place of her own. she comes to my place every ...

I'm the opposite of his type, but should I still go for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Hi I've been through alot in my life when it comes to men. I've just gotten over a tough 7 year relationship and spent the yr after breaking up being overly promiscuous and making alot of mistakes. I've mended my ways now and am ready to settle down ...

Does it ever work out when the love interest has an overprotective, platonic friend of the opposite sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I have been in this situation more times than I would have liked. I like a shy guy who is controlled by his overprotective friend who is a girl. She swears that there is no attraction between them and he will always be like her little brother, but ...

Family keep pushing us together. Yet I suspect he's Gay. Why does he say he'll ask me out when I'm "Free"? I am single.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - So there's this guy right. He's such a great guy, we met actually a year ago yesterday, but I've only seen him a couple of times.. I get really nervous around him.. Why I don't know but I do.. His mom and my sister are friends. Since the first ti...

Will I be single forever? Or are some men ok with a girl being good looking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Hi this is a question for the men. All my friends amd family tell me how good looking I am, but I don't think I am. Men always seem to have a problem with my supposed good looks. Every man I've been out with has broken it off with me. What is it...

Is he worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - Hey... Basically, I've liked this guy for about a year now, and he knows I like him. At first, i thought my infatuation would go away, but it hasn't. I don't want to like him, because he is really perverted, and asks me to send him pictures and ...

Does he like me or not? If anyone could give any suggestions please feel free, as I'm stumped

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I havent used this site in a while now but here goes, i started a new job in september and everything is going good. I have made some new friends which is always a bonus :) but there is this one guy we'll call R, he's really shy but he's good loo...

I have hero worshipped him for years.Shall I just give up before making a fool of myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I have always been friendly with a man 10 years older than me. I really wish he would see me as more than a friend. He is a single parent with a mixed race son. That is not be a problem to me. When I first got to talk proper with him, he did say ...

Inside, I identify myself as a woman-I'm confused! How can I find someone who understands me as I really am?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

26 November 2011 (M) - Ok so new at this. Not sure if this question qualifies for this site but here goes anyways. Basically I'm 34 years old and on the inside I Identify as female. So transgender I guess. When I was younger I ad lots of accepting friends. Long blond hair ...

I wanted to ask his advice on getting a tattoo. But he didn't want to know. Is he just being mean to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - So I've been talking to this guy and everything seemed Like it was going good until today . I texted him and told him I was watching this movie and he said lol I have fun and then I told him it's weird and I need his help he said wish I could ...

Am I wasting my time? I really love him and I don't want to get over him!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4774 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - Hi So I like this guy and I've liked him nearly all year and I asked him out about 4 weeks ago.. He said no because he wasn't ready for a girlfriend but he liked me as well.. Liked me more than any other girl.. My bestfriend asked him if he ...

I see myself as a good guy-but is it possible that I'm a "ladies's man"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

26 November 2011 (M) - Do I sound like a "Ladies Man" to you? I'm very attracted to girls, I know how to treat a girl, are my best friends. I'm a sweetheart and get along with everyone. I never had a girlfriend before and I believe I can make a girl feel comforta...

I'm not good at showing my feelings. I thought we had a connection Did I give him the impression I didn’t want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I met this man out in a bar in the city (5 hours from where I live) one night 5 months ago and we exchanged numbers after really hitting it off. He had to leave at one stage to go to a works party for a few hours but we agreed to meet up again an...

I cut off all contact with my best friend, but I still miss him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4774 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I know this may seem like a stupid question, as it's kind of through my own doing. I recently fell out with my male best friend,strictly platonic, well not recently around four months ago lets just say? from speaking every day, this is the long...

Caught between two friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - Dear agony aunts I have a huge problem.I was recently going through sum heavy things at home.my mom broke her leg in 2 places due 2 old age,so I have been taking care of her every need,then within a 2 weeks of that my sister had kidney faillure ...

Why would a guy ignore you but freak out about what you think of him?! Any help appreciated! :)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - There's this guy I've had an on again off again "relationship" with for four years. (Think Chuck and Blair minus the sex). His "friends" do some nasty shit, and I've cautioned him about getting involved so they pressure him to avoid me, which ...

My girlfriend has an obsession and a bad friend, how can I help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - Hello. My girlfriend and I are very much in love. We've been dating for about 2 years. We agree that we'd do almost anything for eachother, or give our lives for eachother and everything. I have one complaint though, her "best friend". There is a ...

Who is bothering my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - Hi. Lately,there has been this person on facebook talking to my friend trying to make my friend admit she hates me. Friend emails me with a plan to get rid of her and tells me to go along with it. I tell her okay i will if this person sends me a ...

Who's in the wrong here and what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone what do you think about this situation and who is in the wrong here? my fwb and I have been having sex for 8 months now, I really like him and I thought he did me. we both agreed not to have sex with anyone else, he is a bouncer so I kno...