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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Does he or does he not... like me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i need some guy help! it's not so much a question, more just me asking for a general opinion on whether or not he might like me or if he's just nice? so i really like a guy at work. he's a bit older than me, but i'm sure it wouldn't be too ...

How do I step over that barrier with this chap at work, as it is so pathetic, I simply have forgotten how to get a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I am a 36 yr old female. I ended a 10 year marriage that was abusive 3 years ago. My husband used to rage at me for everything, he withheld sex, he was addicted to drugs, he was addicted to porn and would push me away if I ever tried to initiate ...

Relationship status???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - How do you know when you have been seeing someone on and off for 17 years, what the actual relationship status is? It started off as just sex, but now it seems to be growing into something more...or at least to me. He talks to his friends about me, ...

How do I know just where this is going without asking a lot of "feelings"

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31 January 2011 (F) - I met a man when I was 17 and he is 11 years my senior. We had sex. Then two years later, we ran into each other and nothing happened, although you could tell we wanted it too. He then got into a relationship and I met someone and married them. The ...

My best friend stole the girl I love!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - So I really like this girl and my friend seems to like her too. I've thought this for awhile and I don't knownwhat to do. My friend claims to have a gf but I've never seen her so Idk if he's lying. The girl I like is really pretty smart and funny. ...

One night stand???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - If you already knew the person from high school, got along great, then saw him at a party 10 years later, is that still considered a one night stand? Can a relationship come from it?...

Closing the deal! How can I gain more confidence?

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31 January 2011 (M) - Hi guys Its more of a general question. I have seen that I am good at talking to women and teasing them and doing all the push and pull thing. However in some cases its later on that after I have made the initial rapport that I find it hard to close...

Am I over thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have been seeing what some may call my "boyfriend" but not official for about 5 months. This gets complicated so hopefully I can make this clear enough to understand. I started working at a strip club, yes, dancing right after my 20th birthday...

Aargh Boyfriend... or best friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - During the summer, my best friend made up a serious lie about my boyfriends best friend, so i stopped talking to her. a few months on and i'd started talking to her again. my boyfriend, of 1 year, felt like i was betraying him so gave me the choice ...

Tense kissing problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - There’s this guy I really like but when it comes to kissing him I just tense up. What should I do? I’m at a loss; I want to be intimate with him but cant. I’ve liked him for two years now; even though for part of that he was in a relationship I ...

What else can I do to make me look more like the 14 year old I'm supposed to be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I'm 14 but I look more like I'm 17 or 18. Most of my friends families don't approve of me because I look so much older even though they are usualy always older then me. In tired of me looking older affecting my life with my friends, so how do I ...

Can you explain this lingo?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Simple question (I think). Basically I'm used to the lingo, e.g. third-base, and I know what it all means except for one thing which really confuses me - 'pull' I've been in loads of parties and events and seen people 'pulling.' One of my friend...

Is it true that overly friendly girls are the ones to watch out for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - OK i know this is a generalization buy through my dating experience i have come to stay away from girls who are very warm and friendly when you first meet them, and instead get to know the ones who are more reserved when you first meet them. The ...

Is he just like every other man who gets what he wants and leaves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi All. Theres this guy I talk to regularly on facebook and sometimes I see him out. Hes really flirty over facebook with girls, including me.. but hes all talk and never acts on it. I'd go out for random drives with him and i learnt hes pretty shy ...

What is wrong with using someone if they use you too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Hi, my question is this, I was talking with a friend who reguarly has casual sex with people. I was saying how it is bad if there is no love or commitment, but he goes, why? If i am using her for my gratification and she is using me for hers, ...

My cousin wants to use me for kissing practice!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - my cousin wanted to practice kissing with me to see if she was doing it right aparently but the parts of my body she touched during it and what she said after told me it wasnt just a bit of practice she said after i enjoyed that can we practice ...

He's completely avoiding me now and I don't know what to do...

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31 January 2011 (F) - Help Me!! I'm 23 year old and i fell in love with my classmate. He is 22 years old, and also in love with me. He was the one who first kissed me and gradually our relations got strong... v both have physical relation. Our cast is diff and even age ...

I want him there as MORE than just a "virtual sex partner."

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31 January 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i've been friends with for a little over four months now. back when we first met, i had a pretty big crush on him. when i told him that, he basically told me that liking him would be a waste of my time, as h...

I have an annoying friend that I want out of my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - My friend..lets call her A..is the most annoying person i have ever dealt with. She is judgemental, ego-centric, rude, inconsiderate, annoying, won't shut up, and...how do i say this...she does stuff "just because its popular". For ex. She tried out ...

I just want to tell her how feel the next time were alone together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Ok so there's this girl I've liked for a while now and a sortof got the feeling she liked me but I was to nervous to do any thing when I used to see her I was nice and happy but eventually my feelings became so strong that being around her was very ...

What are "the jealous rules"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i always wondered what are the jealous rules when it comes to being in a relationship and having the opposite sex as friends?.. i mean is it ok to be with my bf and sometimes hang out with my guyfriends, is it okay to text them but only as friends ...

Should I tell her I don't want to be her friend anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I know this Question seems dumb, but it makes me really curious, and and sometimes makes me feel be traded . This is this new kid in my pod, and he came from Toronto. and and Every girl in my pod is in love with him. I think he is attr...

Do I still stand a chance? Could I possibly win him over somehow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi there . I need help I'm so confused with this . I want to know if I still have a chance with this guy . We have so much history . 3 years ago I was introduced to this guy by my (girl)friend. I thought he was cute and told her . She tried hookin...

He's my friend but I really like him and he thinks I'm not a virgin...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - So i'm at University and I have this great bunch of friends. Within this group is a guy who I really like, I can't go a day without thinking about him. I have a feeling that he likes me as well, he treats me nicer than the other girls in our group ...

Last time I checked, friends don't see each other naked on a regular basis.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My ex and I broke up over a year ago and while we had a little rough patch over the summer we quickly went back to being friends and even became better friends than we were before we dated. We had not done anything remotely sexual at all until last ...

I am scared I lost my chance with him, and scared to lose my best friend too! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I need advice about this guy i still really really like.We have gone out off and on 3 or 4 times. He has dated my friend first but i ask permission to date him him she said yes, so we went out and now he has went out with 5 of my most best friends ...

My boyfriend calls my best friend names when I am around. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and my best mate(boy) are also best mates. However, my best mate feels like my boyfriend doesn't like him because of the way he acts in front of me because my boy friend calls him names. What should I do?? ...

Most of the girls in my year smoke and I want to try. Do boys find girls who smoke attractive.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Ok, I'm 14 and most of the girls in my year have smoked. I really want to take a few drags and see what it's like, but one of my friends is TOO overly protective and will tell my guidance teacher! Also, do boys think it's cool if their girl smokes? ...

I'd like to meet up with him, but I'm worried he might like me more than a friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I have this guy friend I talk to online. He's the same age as me and he used to go to my school. He's a really nice guy to talk to and I would like to meet up with him just as a friend, but I feel like he has much stronger feelings towards me. H...

How do I let my friend know that her negative remarks are pushing me away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I have been finding one of my closest friends incredibly difficult to be around lately, and am not sure how to deal with it. In my own life I have just gone through a stressful period, and now everything is looking up. However, this friend of m...

Can we still be friends after what he said?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (?) - Me and a guy friend were talking online and the conversation some how turned to our past. (We used to be sort of friends with benefits) he's with another girl now so we agreed to stay friends even though i found it very hard. The FWB thing ended ...

Fell in love, married, had children, & struggled with monogamy. Now the wife wants to leave. Why are we doing this to our kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Is "male nature" setting us back again? No where in the animal kingdom do we see monogamy more prominent as we see it in human nature. Or is monogamy just something woman have come to believe as true? I, like most men, fell in love with a beautifu...

This girl likes me and my friend, but ended up dating my friend!

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30 January 2011 (M) - Well i am really confused on what to do because i really really like this girl and she likes me too the same way she likes her boyfriend who is my friend, they went out and i am really jelous and i still like her so much and i dont know what to do?? ...

Should I Wait For Her To Say She Likes Me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - I have a lady friend who I am very fond of. We have known each other 5 years, but the last 7 months, we have really grown to know each other very well. We speak often on the phone, text, even though the last month hasn't been as much. She is 32, I ...

She just broke up with her boyfriend, should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - ok so me and this girl have been friends 4 a year now and i started 2 get feelings 4 her bout 5 months ago so i broke up wit my gf who i had been wit 4 almost 3 years but there was still a promblem she still had a bf and they were just past 3 years. ...

Friends with a player who I think likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My best guy friend (RK) and I have been best friends for a couple of years and i've always had a soft spot for him. He's funny, good looking, kind, interesting and basically everything about him attracts me to him. I've liked him on and off for n...

How do we trust our friend who bailed on us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi, last night my 3 friends and I decided we were all gonna get dressed and ready for winterball together. But at the last minute one of them bailed and went with other girls, even though we had been planing for weeks. So my other friend and I get ...

Night of drinking and harsh words have really strained my relationship with friends. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Want to try and keep this as short as I can, so will gloss over some of the details. A few months ago my boyfriend came out for drinks for a friend's engagement and at the end of the evening he was chatting to one of her friends and she said som...

I'm tired of my husband acting like a teenager! Is it time to leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hello, First off, I've been married 20 years. For the most part its been a good relationship. However, there's been issues of him isolating me from my friends throughout the whole marriage. If I do go out which is probably 15 times in 20 year...

The eternal triangle strikes again. How can I solve it amicably guys?

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30 January 2011 (F) - Hey guys, I'm 17 and for the past year I've become best friends with a group of guys.(I have girlfriends too but I prefer hanging with guys tbh). I love them to pieces. For the past month or so me and one of the guys, Z, have developed feel...

We both like her but he won't ask her out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - i really really like this girl at college but my best friend also really likes her. he doesn't know that i like her and i'm not going to tell him because i want him 2 go out with her cause he's my best friend and i want him to be happy. the thing...

He's a nice friendly guy. But have I been reading too much into his nice friendly texts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I have been having a nice friendly? relationship with this single guy. He has been very warm and friendly all through. Sometimes I really doubted it he liked me romantically. But I know I was not worthy of him and never bothered. But I did imagine ...

Sms didn't work. I really like her, but don't want to look needy. What's the best way to arrange our first date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Hey, I Would like to ask you a question or post my " problem ". There is this girl i'm attracted,to her,to her personality .... I got to know her on New Year's eve, got her number. My cousin speaks with her sister , they have a serious re...

I want to break up my friendship because he's rude, but how do I tell him and break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I have a male friend who's 16 and I am 15. He loves me and i love him too, but am not yet ready for a relationship. Sometimes when we talk he's rude, sometimes he's caring. Anytime i tell him he's rude, he says, 'dats d way he is'. I hate rude ...

I definitely felt something but I don't know if I'm just being stupid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I've been really close friends with this guy for almost 3 years. We had a connection immediately because we are so alike but not long after we became friends we started going out with a girl I really don't get along with. Whenever I've been seeing a ...

Is sex enough to keep them together?

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30 January 2011 (F) - I like this guy friend so much unfortunately he always denying and playing my feeling. Now he totally cut me off and date one of my friend(use to be really close friend) and she was from Germany.He did this obviously he want to prove his loyal and ...

My gay best friend traded me in for a new girl friend!

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30 January 2011 (F) - i have been going through a on and off friendship with my best friend guy... he is gay.. we were so well in the beginning of last year but ever since a new girl came into work with us... he has change he spends more time with her.. and seeing them ...

My boyfriend preferred watching a movie with his best friend rather than with me....and I had arranged a day off just for the two of us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Ok, here goes :) I arranged to get a day off from work so that my boyfriend and I could watch a film that he had bought, and just spend a nice quiet night together... But I just found out that he watched it with his best friend instead. I'm furio...

Should I ask him why he doesn't speak to me at school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5036 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - There is a guy i talk to every day, and who goes to my school. I have sooo much in common with him. He likes me, i think he's two years younger than me, he never used to talk to me before, he's sooo shy at school. it's like i dont exist and everyone...

I dread bumping into him! I thought we were friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Hey, Recently I have been working away and met back up with a guy I met previously before, we got on well and stayed in touch via email. Spending a month together I learned he was quite a moody man, very fickle one day very friendly the next moo...