A
male
age
36-40,
*ookieOnLove
writes:I have a lady friend who I am very fond of. We have known each other 5 years, but the last 7 months, we have really grown to know each other very well. We speak often on the phone, text, even though the last month hasn't been as much. She is 32, I am 26, she has had two relationships, me 0.We spoke this afternoon, I asked her about her ex's and why they moved forwards, she answered very openly, she also told me her second boyfriend is the one who gave her a nice sexual experience even if he was bad emotionally.She always tells me I am different to them, but she hasn't always said why. I always tell her how she makes me feel, why I like her. I think I know she is a bit more reserved because of her last 2 relationships that went badly, so could this be a reason why she doesn't say she likes me, because she says it when she feels emotional. I send her lots of texts to say good morning/afternoon/evening, i wrote a few love letters too.Can I ask her why she likes me, or should I wait for her to do it herself in her own time? I am also a bit concerned, i am a virgin, she isn't too strict from what i can see, but she has has 2 relationships, the second guy she said taught her a lot on what to expect, this is a worry.Is it also normal to feel 'jealous' those other guys got there first and in effect messed her around by being bad to her? I can't change the past though.I would like to be with her more in an official capacity though.
View related questions:
her ex, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): It doesn't matter what you are or who she dated. The past is the past. She should forgive and forget. Just walk up to her and tell her that you want to date her. Get the courage and be a man. You never know, some girls like guys that are unexperienced.
|
