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Archived questions from: 31 January, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Does he or does he not... like me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i need some guy help! it's not so much a question, more just me asking for a general opinion on whether or not he might like me or if he's just nice? so i really like a guy at work. he's a bit older than me, but i'm sure it wouldn't be too ...

How do I step over that barrier with this chap at work, as it is so pathetic, I simply have forgotten how to get a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I am a 36 yr old female. I ended a 10 year marriage that was abusive 3 years ago. My husband used to rage at me for everything, he withheld sex, he was addicted to drugs, he was addicted to porn and would push me away if I ever tried to initiate ...

Relationship status???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - How do you know when you have been seeing someone on and off for 17 years, what the actual relationship status is? It started off as just sex, but now it seems to be growing into something more...or at least to me. He talks to his friends about me, ...

How do I know just where this is going without asking a lot of "feelings"

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31 January 2011 (F) - I met a man when I was 17 and he is 11 years my senior. We had sex. Then two years later, we ran into each other and nothing happened, although you could tell we wanted it too. He then got into a relationship and I met someone and married them. The ...

My best friend stole the girl I love!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - So I really like this girl and my friend seems to like her too. I've thought this for awhile and I don't knownwhat to do. My friend claims to have a gf but I've never seen her so Idk if he's lying. The girl I like is really pretty smart and funny. ...

One night stand???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - If you already knew the person from high school, got along great, then saw him at a party 10 years later, is that still considered a one night stand? Can a relationship come from it?...

Closing the deal! How can I gain more confidence?

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31 January 2011 (M) - Hi guys Its more of a general question. I have seen that I am good at talking to women and teasing them and doing all the push and pull thing. However in some cases its later on that after I have made the initial rapport that I find it hard to close...

Am I over thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have been seeing what some may call my "boyfriend" but not official for about 5 months. This gets complicated so hopefully I can make this clear enough to understand. I started working at a strip club, yes, dancing right after my 20th birthday...

Aargh Boyfriend... or best friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - During the summer, my best friend made up a serious lie about my boyfriends best friend, so i stopped talking to her. a few months on and i'd started talking to her again. my boyfriend, of 1 year, felt like i was betraying him so gave me the choice ...

Tense kissing problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - There’s this guy I really like but when it comes to kissing him I just tense up. What should I do? I’m at a loss; I want to be intimate with him but cant. I’ve liked him for two years now; even though for part of that he was in a relationship I ...

What else can I do to make me look more like the 14 year old I'm supposed to be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I'm 14 but I look more like I'm 17 or 18. Most of my friends families don't approve of me because I look so much older even though they are usualy always older then me. In tired of me looking older affecting my life with my friends, so how do I ...

Can you explain this lingo?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Simple question (I think). Basically I'm used to the lingo, e.g. third-base, and I know what it all means except for one thing which really confuses me - 'pull' I've been in loads of parties and events and seen people 'pulling.' One of my friend...

Is it true that overly friendly girls are the ones to watch out for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - OK i know this is a generalization buy through my dating experience i have come to stay away from girls who are very warm and friendly when you first meet them, and instead get to know the ones who are more reserved when you first meet them. The ...

Is he just like every other man who gets what he wants and leaves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi All. Theres this guy I talk to regularly on facebook and sometimes I see him out. Hes really flirty over facebook with girls, including me.. but hes all talk and never acts on it. I'd go out for random drives with him and i learnt hes pretty shy ...

What is wrong with using someone if they use you too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Hi, my question is this, I was talking with a friend who reguarly has casual sex with people. I was saying how it is bad if there is no love or commitment, but he goes, why? If i am using her for my gratification and she is using me for hers, ...

My cousin wants to use me for kissing practice!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - my cousin wanted to practice kissing with me to see if she was doing it right aparently but the parts of my body she touched during it and what she said after told me it wasnt just a bit of practice she said after i enjoyed that can we practice ...

He's completely avoiding me now and I don't know what to do...

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31 January 2011 (F) - Help Me!! I'm 23 year old and i fell in love with my classmate. He is 22 years old, and also in love with me. He was the one who first kissed me and gradually our relations got strong... v both have physical relation. Our cast is diff and even age ...

I want him there as MORE than just a "virtual sex partner."

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31 January 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i've been friends with for a little over four months now. back when we first met, i had a pretty big crush on him. when i told him that, he basically told me that liking him would be a waste of my time, as h...

I have an annoying friend that I want out of my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - My friend..lets call her A..is the most annoying person i have ever dealt with. She is judgemental, ego-centric, rude, inconsiderate, annoying, won't shut up, and...how do i say this...she does stuff "just because its popular". For ex. She tried out ...

I just want to tell her how feel the next time were alone together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Ok so there's this girl I've liked for a while now and a sortof got the feeling she liked me but I was to nervous to do any thing when I used to see her I was nice and happy but eventually my feelings became so strong that being around her was very ...

What are "the jealous rules"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i always wondered what are the jealous rules when it comes to being in a relationship and having the opposite sex as friends?.. i mean is it ok to be with my bf and sometimes hang out with my guyfriends, is it okay to text them but only as friends ...

Should I tell her I don't want to be her friend anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I know this Question seems dumb, but it makes me really curious, and and sometimes makes me feel be traded . This is this new kid in my pod, and he came from Toronto. and and Every girl in my pod is in love with him. I think he is attr...

Do I still stand a chance? Could I possibly win him over somehow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi there . I need help I'm so confused with this . I want to know if I still have a chance with this guy . We have so much history . 3 years ago I was introduced to this guy by my (girl)friend. I thought he was cute and told her . She tried hookin...

He's my friend but I really like him and he thinks I'm not a virgin...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - So i'm at University and I have this great bunch of friends. Within this group is a guy who I really like, I can't go a day without thinking about him. I have a feeling that he likes me as well, he treats me nicer than the other girls in our group ...