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Archived questions from: 22 January, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

How can I get him to be mine?

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22 January 2011 (F) - So I have this guyfriend and we've known each other forever (his mom use to babysit me) around the time I was 19 we started hooking up having sex and hanging out and stuff I started to develope feelings for him and ended our "sexual friendship" I ...

My boss wants to meet up with me on the weekend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My Boss has asked if he can join me on a night out!He asked what I was upto at the weekend, I told him I was going to watch a local band play at my local and he said "i'd like to join you sometime for a drink", he then said "sorry there's me ...

What did I do? Why is he treating me this way?

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22 January 2011 (F) - Sorry it so long. but i had to explain the details I am a 27 year old lady. I am having an ongoing situation. One of my friend, a married guy (about 43 years of age), and his wife who was good friends with me for few years. Thought of them a...

My boyfriend is in a band that has two attractive girls. How can I stop feeling insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend of 4 months. I am 15 going on 16. I absolutely love him to bits, he is everything to me and I never, ever, ever want to lose him! Everything has been going perfectly, he treats me like his only girl and we spend as much time as ...

What else can I do to gain her forgiveness?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - I recently upset a girl really badly, so I wrote her a letter of apology. She has been ignoring me for the past few days and never replied to me. I seriously do not want her to hate me for the rest of my life. What else can I do to get her ...

I find myself falling for a man who already has a girlfriend.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hi I am 45, recently divorced and redundant. Due to all these reasons I have been fairly depressed. I recently met a 37 year old guy at a party socially who befriended me and showed me a lot of sympathy. He also seems attracted to me. As a result I ...

Which guy should I like? Or should I find a guy outside my group of friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I recently moved to a new town and made some new friends. I mostly hang with the boys since I become easily jealous and I'm very conceited. It makes me feel better about myself being surrounded by a group of guys. Along the way, I made some ...

I am bothered by the thought of my ex moving on. What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I dated for about a year and a half. I broke up with him because we were both in college and we were in different places in life. I was just starting college and he was graduating, and he resented me wanting to party because he ...

Should I reconcile with my ex now, or wait until she and my best friend break up. I am somewhat turned on knowing he is with her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I had a heated argument a few days ago. Yesterday, I was having a drink with my best friend, we have been friends since high school. He asked me how Linda was and I told him we had split and that she was fair game. I knew that he ...

Reality versus Illusion

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5053 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - In reflecting upon a relationship I had with a girl last year, I think a source of the many problems I had was my confusion of the illusion I had of her and what our relationship was with the reality. I thought I would relate a little bit about it ...

Is it unreasonable for me to expect my boyfriend to be over it by now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he is very lovely and we are happy together. in the first stages of our relationship i "cheated" on him with this guy we'll call Harry. By "cheated" i mean we used to email eachother all the time, ...

I found out the other day my friend took the number of a guy I have liked for months from my phone and started texting him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I found out the other day my friend took the number of a guy i have liked for months from my phone and started texting him Anyway ive liked him for a few months but have never said anything as i do actually think hes to good for me, we have tho ...

Should I say that I'm in love with him? Even though he's a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hey everyone! It's been a long time since i didn't post any questions in here.. fortunately ;) haha... Well, i have a new "problem". ( This is going 2 be a long text! lol ) I fell in love with a guy who's a player.. i guess.. we met each other on my ...

I'm feeling uneasy about her close friendship with this guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and a half now, and just recently have been realizing the magnitude of her relationship with her male friend. He is living in North Carolina and we are in Arizona. They have been friends longer than we ...

Should I give a 'yes'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I'm caught in a real dilemma..when i first entered college it was as if I suddenly became alone..It was at this time that a person came up to support me so much that he came all the way from just a classmate to the best friend I ever had..1 week ...

I want my best friends boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - So my best friend's boyfriend is away at uni. They have been together for 2 months now. Me and her boyf are quite good friends.. we text and chat online most days. He has always been quite flirty with me, but i never really thought anything...

My friend does not approve of this boy I am interested in. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hey, I have been dating this boy for about a month now and he wants to move to the next level and start seeing each other. I do really like this boy and he said he has the same feelings, but my friend doesn't like him and is telling me not to get ...

Am I in love? And how do I go about telling her I have feelings for her without causing any awkwardness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - I really like this girl... and have liked her since I met her 5 months ago. We're not going out, but I want to. I have had crushes before on celebrities and people I know, but this doesn't feel like a crush. Since November (3 months ago), I have ...

I'm feeling more confident, and less shy, but need ideas for starting a conversaton with others.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - I started studying art at my local college a few months ago. I am a very shy person and find it very hard to talk to people. Recently, I have been very confident and wanted to talk to people in my class, but I havent been able to think of something ...

My friend set me up with a male friend of hers, but now she's acting jealous! Should I go through with meeting him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (?) - My friend wanted to set me up with one of her guy friends. I talked to him over e-mail and he wants to meet up. He lives in another state but said he would drive up to see me. I'm nervous because what if he sees me and isn't interested? I'm just ...

I always thought I was just friends with this guy...then why the kiss??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - i need help to understand this situation im in tnx. i grew up with this guy and we were extremly friendly he was a sort of father/brother figure to me. he is nigerian and he wasnt allowed to live or work in the country, so he married his gf back at ...

Should I forgive and forget if she still insists on seeing this group at her college?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months, and love eachother very much. We go to different colleges, and she has a lot of guy friends that she hangs out with on the weekends. She always tells me that they respect our relationship and ...

I was just trying to be nice... why did she mistake that for a romantic interest in her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - Why do girls think if you do nice things for them, that you like them or want to date them? Honestly this question never been so true for me right now. I dated a girl for a year and we broke up 18 months ago, she knew I loved her deeply. I was hu...

Why was I just cut out of her facebook account for no reason at all?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I know some people think friend request stuff on facebook is silly but I had one incident which has surprised me and hurt me. A few years back I worked with a lady who I socilised with, looked after her daughters on occasions, was caring when her...

She just up and left him out of the blue!1

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - Hi all, Would like peoples views on the following. My friend is in a situation wher his girlfriend has left him out the blue for a friend of her's, myself and other friends of his think that she has just done it without giving it any thought as...

I can't get over my ex fling/best friend even though I'm in a committed relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Basically, I had this guy friend for over a year who was engaged to a girl he didn't love (he stayed with her because they had a baby together). I went through two other relationships while I was friends with him, the second of which began online ...

He moves on from girl to girl but he has never moved onto me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Ok so he came to my school this year, and since then we have been bestfriends. In the beggining (first days i knew him) i really liked him and he liked me, but he never told me and i never told him and so i still liked him but then he liked my...

My best friend is in love with my boyfriend!

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22 January 2011 (F) - my best friend is in love with my BF and i dont know what to do i really love him and every time we go out one of my BFFs start to like him i dont know what to do, my heart is breaking and i dont want to lose anyone ...