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writes:ok so me and this girl have been friends 4 a year now and i started 2 get feelings 4 her bout 5 months ago so i broke up wit my gf who i had been wit 4 almost 3 years but there was still a promblem she still had a bf and they were just past 3 years. Me and her r very close we text alot we hang out and she told me we couldnt get drunk 2gether cuz she knows something would happen. One time i talkd 2 her wen i was drunk and she said she liked me but that was bad cuz her bf. Then bout 1 month ago i told her that i love her and that was stupid. her and her bf just broke up so now what do i do? give her time, go 4 her, or just b her friend?
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reader, kenny  +, writes (30 January 2011):
 It does sound like you both have got a connection there, however i would give her time and respect that her relationship has just come to an end. If you make a move now she will be on the rebound, so give her time to get over it. Let her make the next move when she is ready, and im sure she will. Then be a friend to her, and if anything is going to materialise between the two of you, let it over the natural course of time, don't rush it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): You, have made it pretty clear how you feel. Depending on how she is feeling about the break up, she may need some time without a man in her life. I would let her come to you.
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