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*abbiecat16
writes:I've been really close friends with this guy for almost 3 years. We had a connection immediately because we are so alike but not long after we became friends we started going out with a girl I really don't get along with. Whenever I've been seeing a guy he has shown signs of jealousy and he knows how I feel about his girlfriend. I've said 'I love you' to him before and he has said it back but I'm not sure if it was real or in a friendly way. e stopped talking for a short while because of a situation I had with his girlfriend, then he text me and asked me to spend the night at his, we ended up sleeping together which he initiated. We spoke once or twice afterwards but then ended up not talking for 5 months! I was in agony and I realised just how strong my feelings were, I was literally a state but he didn't know. Anyway then we started talking again and have since met up a few times, it doesn't seem the same as before and there is a sort of sexual tension. One night we just lay in the park and he initiated holding my hand and he had his arm around my waist with our faces cheek to cheek. I definitely felt something but I don't know if I'm just being stupid. He will text me all day for a few days then we will go a week without speaking at all. I just wish I knew how he felt :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2011): Please dont let yourself be a "booty call" for this guy! Next time he texts dont return text. If he calls for a hook up ask him then how he feels & unless he takes you out on a real date, in public, AS A SINGLE GUY stay away from him!!
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reader, layla26 +, writes (30 January 2011):
i know is hard and verry not the way you would woned to but if you like hem go and ask hem,i find it verry fostreting with all the sines a guy has to make if he true loves us or like us,why west your time,it wont chance hes mind if he likes you he would wont the same thing if not you have your pride of this dint last 7years and you move on,and if he dosent say nathing at list you can sleep with your sholders free.
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reader, Traycie  +, writes (30 January 2011):
The only way you are going to know how he truly feels about you is to straight up ask him. It does seem like you guys have a great connection with each other and that is very important in any relationship whether it just be friendship or a romance.
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