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Archived questions from: 23 January, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I think I just lust over this other guy. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I recently met a bloke in the office I work in. He told one of my colleages he fancies me. He then asked me on a date but I said no as I have a bf but I do find him attractive. Now I can't stop thinking ...

My faith in him is broken... I need your help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - My heart is torn. The issue is i been married for five years separated for a year and a couple of months. Well my husband was having issues with keeping a job and had depression. He does smoke weed and started experimenting with Ecstasy. He slowly ...

Now I feel as if our whole relationship was a sham...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - Hi Jo I split up with my ex-boyfriend at Christmas 2009 after 2 1/2 years and have never really got over him as there was no official split as such - I thought (mistakenly it turns out) that we would work things out but he never responded to me so...

How can I get out of this dark place???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - For just over 4 years I was single. 100% single, no flings, no one night pulls, nothing. But in my 2nd year of uni I met someone from out of uni, and we started seing eachother, but i never wanted to make it official because of a previous ...

I'm jealous because my friend has a boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - Okay so here it is: My friend recently got a boyfriend and she's incredibly wrapped up with him. We used to hang out everyday, but now she's with him. A lot. The thing is i'm incredibly jealous and it's making me depressed. She's never had a boyfri...

How can I tell if she's really interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - well the girl I met a little while ago is awesome she is beautiful funny and understanding and we shared a similar sense of humor so that is great. yesterday I spent a couple hours with her just hanging out then we went to a basketball game. She ...

Any tips on how to meet men and make my availability clear without seeming desperate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - I am a 30y old woman, and I have been single for quite a long time now. I have a very stressful job, and I work long hours and earn a good living. I also have a tight-knit group of friends, who I see regularly. I am slightly overweight (uk s...

Fitting into the social circle

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23 January 2011 (F) - I want to hear from someone who is really up on social situations, getting along in the social world, making new friends, etc. We are not originally from the community, but we have lived in the community (a small community) for eleven years. (...

Confessing my love for her killed my chances... what do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - my question is a little bit weird yet i feel like getting the answer from you members of dearcupid. The very begenning of my story took place in the 3rd of october 2010 when i first met this gorgeous girl at the company i recently joined. She was ...

Where do I stand? I'm going mental here!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - Recently I posted a question about a boy who seemed to be flirting with me online. I concluded that he was, that he probably liked me and that I quite liked him too but wanted to take things slow. Over the christmas period he was messaging me every ...

Head wrecked!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - i am 16 soon to be 17 and i am really confused i really need your help theres a boy at school i like but hes got a girlfriend and i did something i regret i sent him rude pictures i hate myself for doing it the thing is he flirts back with me and i ...

Rude pictures were my downfall...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - I am in love with a boy from my school but he has a girlfriend but i know he likes me because he flirts with me all the time and i did something i really regret - I sent rude pictures of myself to him and lately he has just fell out with me. i ...

Help! How can you tell if you're being used???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - I was wondering if there is a way you can tell if someone is using you as a friends with benefits sort of thing? I have been sort of involved with this guy for several months now. I feel certain that he does like me, however I do have my doubts b...

I feel so utterly confused and heartbroken... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - I split up with my ex-boyfriend at Christmas 2009 after 2 1/2 years and have never really got over him as there was no official split as such - I mistakenly thought we would work things out but he never responded to me so in time I came to the ...

I just don't understand him...???

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23 January 2011 (F) - Ok, I took the advice given last time and broke up with my boyfriend, but my best friend is still confusing me. I can't understand him, he has a nickname for me, which i'm not going to post in case he sees this, but he hardly ever calls me by my ...

Accusing me of cheating... again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been through a lot in 8 months, from me not being well and being in hopsital.ect. 7 Months ago, me and an old friend was chatting on Facebook. However because i used alot of pet names such as 'hun' or 'bab' my Boyfriend fou...

Chase and me... what to do?

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23 January 2011 (F) - Hey! I have an issue that I'd really like to get help with and I would honestly appreciate it. I have a friend of mine, Chase, and he is funny, kind, and he's smart, including cute on the outside as well. People tell me that he likes me, but I'm not ...

Should I stay with him and hope that they learn to accept us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - Ok, major dilemna in my life right now! I'm 15 going on 16 very soon and have recently begun a relationship with a 21 year old, we are both Christians and he understands that I do not want to do anything sexual with him until I am married. I honest...

Should I buy him anything for valentines day... or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - Okay so, i've started dating a new guy, but i wouldnt call him my boyfriend yet, as we've only been on 4/5 dates. I'm 18 and he is 20. Thing is, valentines day is coming up, and by then we'll have been on a few more dates and may even be ...

Help! I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I don't want our friendship to turn into something else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - I have a male co-worker/friend who I think may like me. The problem is that he is married and I am friends with his wife. I also know that they have problems and fight, even though they don't show it at work and act normal. I am starting to think ...

How can I start a conversation and at the same time show that I'm interested in her without looking like a creep?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - I sent a friend request to a girl I like on facebook. The girl is not totally a stranger to me. We have at least 20 mutual friends and she used to go to the same high school. Unfortunately we had no class together. I do remember seeing her in ...

How do I get this guy to tell me what he really feels about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - Hi! I'm Amamiya and I have something to share to you. I've liked this guy for 3 years. I've been loving him secretly and the only thing that hurts me is that he never notices me. Yet, even though he only looks at me in a not-so-special way, I', ...

Should I tell my best mate I'm sleeping with her sister?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - im 19 and every satday for the past 12 years i have spent the day and sometimes nights at my best m8s shes 19. about a mounth ago i was stoping over and it was late and i couldnt sleep so i when down stirs to get a drink of water, her younger sist...

Did he expect me to wait around for him forever?

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23 January 2011 (F) - hi! so ive been in love with this boy adam for 2 years ive told this boy my feelings for me acouple times and he never gave out one clue that he liked me. all he would say is aww that was sweet we should hang out but we never did get around to it! f...

His behavior is confusing me. What is his angle?

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23 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, Okay so I like this guy but am a little confused by his behavoir. I am in High School and we used to text a lot because we didn't have any classes together but liked each other.( We would flirt with each other, when we texted.) Anyway,...