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writes:My best guy friend (RK) and I have been best friends for a couple of years and i've always had a soft spot for him. He's funny, good looking, kind, interesting and basically everything about him attracts me to him.I've liked him on and off for nearly our entire friendship and he knows this as i used to tell him I liked him. I also know, as he's told me he's got a soft spot for me too.Sounds simple enough? This is were it gets confusing...His long term on-and-off girlfriend (CS) Hates my guts. Mainly because of how close i am to RK and how well him and I get along. This has caused some fights between RK and CS in the past but they've been broken up for nearly 3 months now so that's okay.Anyway, RK phones me every night before i go to sleep to talk about anything and everything. We normally end up staying on the phone until the early hours laughing and talking about whatever comes to our minds. He sometimes phones me after school if he notices i've been upset/not as happy as usual. Every morning in school he comes to find me and gives me a hug and asks me if i'm okay before going off to his lessons. The lessons we do have together we sit next to eachother and he walks with me to the majority of my lessons. He invites me over to his house most weekends/i invite him to mine and we normally watch movies and cuddle up on the sofa and have fun.However. RK is known for being a bit of a player and a ladies man. I'm just confused about what his intentions are? I'll probably ask him at some point but for now, i'd appreciate if anyone has been in a situation like this/has any ideas on helping me out. Thanks x
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reader, Cherrie_StPierre  +, writes (30 January 2011):
 I don't think he's playing with you. He has been your friend for a couple of years. he genuinely seems to have caring feelings for you. I think you two have a fantastic friendship and if it progresses, let it. xoxoxox
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