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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

My friends all went to Malawi but I am home alone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Ive been feeling so so down recently! I guess my self confidence was absolutly crushed when i was turned down from a school malawi project - a project were 25 people head to malawi and help renovate a school or building etc and basically make a huge ...

He stopped all contact with me. Why could he not at least have told me where it all went wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I'm 44 and divorced for 5 years. While on vacation in Florida (I live in New York) I met this guy on the first day there and we spent the rest of my vacation together. It was great, we instantly hit if off, we had so much in common, we talked ...

Help! I am in love with my best friend's sister but I don't know how to tell her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I am in love with my best friend's sister but I don't know how to tell her. Any ideas?...

Why??? What have I done wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Hey, I met this girl on a school trip to china. we spent a week there and everyone got really close. When we got back she text me a lot, i invited her out to the cinema with some friends and we both had a really good time. I'm pretty sure she likes ...

Will he ask me out or not...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - few months ago i met this guy, well I have to admit that I liked him since the first moment I saw him but i really didn't think that anything could happen between us since he's sooooo shy and serious. with time he started paying more attention to me ...

Am I being emotionally used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - One of my best friends is a girl who I have really, really come to like. We spend a lot of time together. Often times I think we spend more time together than her and her boyfriend. And therein lies my problem. I'll admit, it's a common one so ...

How do I overcome this and learn to feel better about myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - like 5 months ago a guy i reallllly like sat their after we came from a party where i got really drunk! he sat in his house with his friends and told them how he thinks im boring.. this still hurts my feelings up till this day. i dont know if ...

How can I get noticed more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - ok here goes im 14 now and so far my best friend has gotten soooo much attention off the boys in our year its unbeleivable but some times i feel left out because none of them even notice me, its not like i dont get attention at because on my way ...

Why do boys always mess me around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - The other night one of my friends said something that really made me think. He said; 'Oh Jess, why do guys always mess you about? :(' Which made me think, why do they?! All my last relationships have ended badly. And I dont know what im doing ...

How do I tell my boyfriend my friend is coming to see me (us) in a few weeks time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

30 November 2009 (?) - Hi, I moved to London with my boyfriend earlier this year, everything is great, i just miss my friends! my best friend in the whole world is coming to london in December to visit her family and me too and she has assumed we will do something tog...

I can't just be his friend... it hurts too much...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I am 15 years old and me and my boyfriend split up about a month ago and i thought things were going to be fine. I started seeing this other lad and things seem good to start with. Then all my feelings for my ex came back and i split up with my ...

Your opinions on this... How can I help my friend to see sense?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - One of my best mates has been sleeping with her ex bf for god nows how many months now, and we have only recently found out about it, The thing is her ex has a gf who is pregnent with his baby and is due this december, I have told my mate to sto...

I feel like I have nothing in my life compared to my friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I am approaching 29 and feel like I have nothing in my life. My freinds are all off getting married, having kids, buying houses, in great jobs etc. I live in a shared house with a 25 year old and I work in dire job for 22,000 a yea...

On and off boyfriends...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - okay i have a big problem. I have been in a relationship for six years on and off, i met this guy the summer of 2005, when my boyfrind and i broke up we became good friends and he really liked me, I lost contact with him for like a year and 4 ...

How can I sort this whole phone mess out with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hi guys, sorry this is drawn out but I don't think it will make any sence otherwise A while ago (febuary) me and my closest friends had a massive falling out(i'd rather not go into that though) none of them would talk to me unless it was to threat...

Is he still hung up over his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I'm in my first semester of uni and I met this guy. We get along really well and flirt a lot. We have had out moments such as sleeping in the same bed or drunken nights together. There's definitely some sort of attraction but I also know he is hung ...

Should I get the morning after pill just to be on the safe side?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Last night I got extremely drunk at a party and ended up having sex with one of my guy friends. We used protection, because I remember that I insisted on it, and even when he pulled out we kept the condom on until he came, but i'm worried about what ...

More than friends: Tells me he loves me, now we don't even talk any more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I have been close friends with this guy for about 3/4 years now, and twice in the years i've known him hes came out and said that he likes me more than a friend; both times it went nowhere and we continued as friends, then recently about 2 weeks ago ...

Need to get over this lonely feeling...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I wonder had anyone of you felt this before? It is really a difficult emotional struggle for me whenever I see my friends or people of my age getting attach one after another now and it makes me realise the fact that I am still alone. I do hope to ...

BF doesn't want me hanging out with her brother, but we do and I lie about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been treading in dangerous waters with my best friend lately (her name is Jane). Several weeks ago her brother came into town and I had been looking forward to meeting him for a while and I finally did. We immediately had ...

Before its too late how do I tell her my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - i'm gonna try to keep it short... i really like this girl and we get on amazingly, she broke up with her boyfriend recently and since then we've spoken loads more. She calls me a friend and i think she's too beautiful to fall for me, should i tell ...

I'm attracted to my best friend's sister but don't know what to do about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - I grew an attraction to my best friends sister. It was fairly standard, She didn't seem to like me back, so I'd get over it then move on. However, this was not the case, and at his party at the weekend we kept finding ways to sneak off for a kiss ...

Fell in love with friend's girl, any stories like mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

29 November 2009 (?) - Hi, I fell in love with my bestfriends girlfriend we are soul mates we really love each other the circumstances we got together were not that great because my ex best friend didnt like.I didnt want to betray him but I was really in love and she ...

How do I feel better about facing people who made my life hell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I've recently got back together with my high school sweetheart after 5 years apart. Everything is going smoothly, but in that 5 years, I moved away to London and he stayed back home. I'm planning on moving back home soon as it is so we don't have ...

I'm always the friend and never the girlfriend. How can I change this around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I dont get it, I'm always the friend to a boy, never the girlfriend and I hate it, its always "you're a great friend" or "I love you as a friend" never "I just love you" any tips on getting them to change their minds x thanks for the time ...

He is my friend but wants to be more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5468 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hey dudes i need ur help!! i have this guy whos a really good friend but he keeps telling me that he has feelings for me, when he is really drunk he starts telling everyone that we wud make a really nice couple and people totally disagree and the...

I am always the guy's friend, but never his girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, well im 18 years old and just feeling down in the dumps lately :( i can't seem to get a boyfriend or even a guy that likes me i dont know what to do now, i just feel really depressed all the time about it. im not a shy girl a...

I have nowhere else to go, so I am stuck, how can I get out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I was having trouble, switching to dad's house to mom's house. I didn't know how to get on my own. I was living at mom's place and things went bad.. I was deciding on if I should live with dad again or stay with mom. I met a guy and we connected. ...

I am falling for him, but can't let him know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - hello friends! ...So, I am a singer/songwriter who has recently linked up with a very talented guitar player with whom I am working on a new project with. Thing is, I am 26 years old and am finding myself geting giddy inside and nervous ...

He is my friend, I like her but she likes him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Well, there's a girl at my school and I love her to pieces. Anyway, I asked her out and she said she needed time. However to my shock, my best friend told me she liked him so now he's in a dilema. Really I am asking the question for him because he's ...

My boyfriend is so jealous of my best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Please help... i really don't know what to do... I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and a half now, and so far, we've never had any major problem. But there's one problem i can't solve. I have a best friend (a guy, by the way)and my bf is ...

My friend is struggling with Anorexia Nervosa

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - my friend was just battling anorexia for 2 years. it has been over a year and i always thought he was doing great until he confided in me last night that he was severly struggling and wanting to give up. He does not like the way he looks. This ...

I'm in love with my best friend despite her sexually messy past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - I am 26 and have been best friends with a girl of the same age for 10 years. If people see us, they assume we are a couple, we are in contact every day and see each other as often as we can, maybe several times a week, for food, shopping, or just to ...

I joined the police academy to impress him. Is this a mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - So I am 19 yrs old. I am in college to gain my BSN (bachelors n Science and Nursing). Not to long ago I met my friend and jus recently I have come attracted to him. He also recently graduated from the Police Academy in my city. We have been friends ...

How do I help my friend and her shy admirer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Right this may sound totally outrageous but i find the whole situation hard to believe myself if i hadnt seen it all. Bascially my mate liked this guy and he seemed to like her, and i mean proper liked her. However hes not the most confiden...

I thought he was hot, but he has cooled right off

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - theres a new guy started at my job-he has complicated history-wife left in august after 10 years-now hes casually dating someone already but i thought hes a lovely guy and we worked together for 3 days and spoke about loads i think i have feelings ...

Should I pursue my friend's ex boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Ok here's what went down. I like this boy. But he dated a friend of mine. He only went out with her because he wanted to see if there's was chemistry...and there wasn't. So he dumped her. Now I want to ask him out, but my friend still likes him, and ...

How do I confront an acquaintance about an untrue rumor she may have spread about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I need to confront an acquaintance who I know very well about a rumor she told a close friend of mine. Basically, she told him I slept with someone I have not, at a time when I was in a long term relationship (I do not cheat on my partners...

My friends thinks he fancies me but sometimes he avoids me. What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I have this problem, basically I really like this lad. And he knows that a used to like him blah blah blah. Anyways my friends really think he is interested this time, we keep catching eye contact. We act like friends but sometimes he compl...

My friends have spread it around that I like him. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - hi aunts i really need help, ok so ive liked this guy for nearly a year now and i thought it was just a secret between me and my friends an not even all of them know because out of all 15 of my best friends only 7 know who i like but i think someone ...

Betrayed by a friend I fancied

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Hi all I fancied a friend of mine who I had been helping out. I am a gay man and so is he. What happened is I kept hugging him when he was upset and we rubbed each others shoulders, I ended up rubbing his face and he didn't like it. He told m...

Help!!! What do you do when your best friend fancies your "ex"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Basically, what do you do when your best friend fancies your "ex". I have a history with this guy. She doesnt know I had anything going on so I cant tell her no or anything. Ive only started getting over this guy. I dont know if hes doing this to ...

Revenge is sweet...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I need help, can you pleaseeee tell me a way to get back at a guy you really like but recently you found out he is making fun of you behind your back? please don't tell me ignore him because I can't. Please help ...

He loves her, he likes me. Should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I think I've fallen in love with my best guy friend. I won't go into details, but I feel really strongly about him, but he loves this other girl, who has a boyfriend. He's admitted he likes me too. Every single one of our friends say it, even when ...

Will a married man ever leave his wife if he doesn't have any children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Back in June I met a man at a convention while on a business trip, although it was just friendly. We exchanged email addresses to be in contact about work-related questions. At the time I was engaged to be married (I have been with him for 3 ...

I miss her so badly, but should I forgive her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hey, I need help. A week ago me and my girlfriend (im 16 shes 15 and we're both female) broke up, as she had sex with another guy at a party whilst very drunk. We'd been togther on and off for about a year. What I dont get is that a week before the ...

How can I manage to feel more comfortable around him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hi there, I had a drunken one night stand with a guy from uni 3 weeks ago, who I had only known for 3 weeks beforehand. He is fairly shy and its quite uncomfortable between us. He asked my friend whether I had a bf, what my interests are so I think ...

Seem to be socially handicapped, is there something actually wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I have so much that I don't know how to start. I'm an aunt here on this site, but I prefer to be anonymous. In spite of the fact that I'm an agony aunt, I seemed to be cursed with the inability to click with people or make friends. I'...

I performed oral sex on my best friend. Now he won't talk to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

27 November 2009 (?) - At the beginning of this year, I met possibly the most amazing guy at my university. We became almost best friends through the course of the year, we did everything together and talked everyday. However, I had fallen really hard for him. Although he ...

Not being able to talk to anyone is killing me!

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Hello, ok i was out at my local pub last night from 9.30 to 1.30 and did not talk to anyone! I said hello to couple to couple of people but did not actually speak to anyone, yes there was music playing but come on i have been going to this pu...