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Archived questions from: 23 November, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I'm not sure how he feels. Do you think he likes me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hiyaaah I really really like this guy! He's a year below me in school and before I knew him properly he asked me out but I said no because I don't date guys unless I know them quite well and plus I didn't really like him much, but now I do I reall...

Can I do something more to help her without feeling like I'm betraying my other friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I'm not really sure where to start with this to be honest. Basically my friend is going through a hard time right now. She has just gotton out of a relationship (her first one) and seems to be taking it pretty rough, and she was going out with a...

I'm not sure how he feels...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

23 November 2009 (?) - I really like this guy but I'm not sure if he likes me. All of my friends think he likes me, but I'm not sure. When I see him he always says hi. He can tell when something's wrong and then asks about it. He's always nice to me, (he's not nice to ...

Am I transgender... or is this just a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - First of all, please don't judge me by my age, so many people have and it gets annoying. I'm a fifteen (almost sixteen) year old girl, and the thing is I've been in love with one of my best friends (who is female) since I was thirteen. I know...

Falling for boyfriend's best friend and open relationship??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 1/2 years and met his friend about 4 years ago and started to fancy him. He went away for a year and I was really glad because I could forget all about him. He came back and started to become really good ...

If we're mates like he says we are what with the going hot and cold all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Somethings just seem to be beyond a mystery. Im just wondring if you couldfigureout a reason for this. This guy is a good friend of mine, ok hesone of my best friends, ive never told him that though but before when things have got awkard through p...

Does he like me, or is he just fooling me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Okay so... I like this guy. I don't love him, cause that's pretty much impossible for me, since I have trust-issues... Anyway. He's like the "hot sports-jock" of our level... I mean. I'm the sad little "emo" (according to everyone else) and he's Mr. ...

My friend told me he loves me, but then says he's unsure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I have a male friend who i feel extremely close to, i can talk to him about anything. The other day we were having a normal conversation on MSN and i asked what gossip he had to tell me in conversation. He messed about and said things like 'haha its ...

Why doesn't he want me to meet her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Also, he has a female friend which I have no problem with. But, he has never introduced me to her. He talks to her frequently and says that she is her friend. But, has not found the need to introduce her to me. He said that his ex wife was ...

Will Karma punish me for not telling her sooner that her boyfriend was cheating on her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

23 November 2009 (?) - My bestfriend cheated on his girlfriend and I fell in love with her plus I knew about his cheating from before but didnt want to tell her because i couldnt however she fell in love with me and decided to leave him for me and she needed a good enough ...

Is it possible that one day he will fall in love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy and he says that he really likes me. But he's afraid that he is not ready for a committed relationship with me, a single mother. He says that he finds that he cant mentally let go with me because he's afraid if he does he wont be able ...

Does he fancy my best friend and only talk to me online because he is bored?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. I’m very confused about this guy’s behaviour and was hoping you could help me out. He’s good friends with my best friend. I met him about a year ago and he added me on msn. Since then I’ve been talking to him a lot online. By now we t...

I feel kinda stuck with what to do next...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hello, So many problems haha, same guy. Still not sure if he likes me, we talk a lot more than we used to and he's given me a lift home in his car. i'm still shy around him and i really want to know if he likes me. certain things make me think th...

I realise just how much I'm growing to like this woman but what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - So I have been hanging out with this graduate student from a local university for a few weeks now. She lives right above us and we hang out off and on. The past two nights, we stayed uo late chatted about each other and the same again last night, ...

Is this a normal kind of "fetish" if you could call it that...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, So, the other day my friend asked me what it was that women found attractive in men. He had asked me for specifics and so I gladly proceeded to list those men I found attractive, and for what reasons. Upon completion, my frien...

17 and in love with my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - Last year, I transferred to a boarding school and there, I met my eventual best friend, who I have since fallen for. It all started this summer when we were both away from each other and I missed him every day. We talked every single day (text, IM, ...

I think my best friend (a guy) is my soul mate. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend, don't get me wrong, but I think my male bestfriend is my soulmate. He knows me like no other, and makes me feel happy and safe and beautiful. I don't really know what to do, I'm relatively at peace with it, but thats b...

He hasn't made a move and I don't want to miss my chance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I really need some unbiased advice for my situation. I really like this guy, and personally think he's right for me. We're both very religious, and saving ourselves for marriage. Neither of us have dated or kissed anyone, so we're both very ...

I dare not risk telling him I love him just to loose everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Just think about the good times..and they'll come back again! Idlove to keep saying that to myself but even the good times depress me. Im in a mess, a big fat mess!! This guys my best friend....but sadly the love of my life! Who i cannot get over....

I need to get over these feelings for my best friend's husband!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I write this in tears. I have fallen head over heals in love with my friends husband. YES I KNOW THIS IS WRONG and HORRIBLE in everyway. I REALLY do love my friend. She is like a sister to both my husband and I. I've been married about 15 years and ...

How can I meet some more independent people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

23 November 2009 (?) - I have 2 friends and they're nice girls who mean well, but it seems they always have some kind of drama surrounding them. They go through these phases where they meet new people, brag about them and talk about them constantly, stop hanging out with ...