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age
30-35,
*katori
writes:Hey, I met this girl on a school trip to china. we spent a week there and everyone got really close. When we got back she text me a lot, i invited her out to the cinema with some friends and we both had a really good time. I'm pretty sure she likes me too, but then she suddenly changed. She's stopped texting me and seems to almost ignore me at school, and has started paying more attention to this other guy that likes her, even though she actually said she likes me more than him. I don't know if i've done anything wrong, if she's decided she doesn't like me or if she's just messing with me!! I have no idea what i should do about it, any advice is welcome.Thanks in advance,Akatori
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reader, CandyCurves +, writes (4 December 2009):
 Hey,
Im happy that things are going great between you.
Seems like this relationship has potential. It was Good to hear from you and best of luck!
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reader, Akatori +, writes (3 December 2009):
Akatori is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey again :) I've taken what you've said into account and i've kept trying, i've invited her out again and stuff. I think it's working! she still avoids me at school if the other guy is around, i think she's finding the fact that we both like her (which i think shes worked out) kinda awkward. But i was eting my lunch today, she'd gone to a different table to avoid me, but i kept seeing her watching me out of th corner of my eye, hmmm... Whenever we're alone it all goes back to normal and we ytalk loads and she hugs me all the time. Goddamn, girls are confusing :P :D Anyways, thought i'd give you an update and thankyou for the advice, i'll keep trying!
Many thanks,
Akatori
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reader, CandyCurves +, writes (30 November 2009):
I know this situation, I have experienced this from her prospective. (Yes, I'v done very ignorant things ).And here are reasons why girls my age (14)might be treating you like this:*She might not be ready for closure( even though shes flirting with other guys,shes treating you differently because possibly she doesnt see you like them.)*Shes not sure about how she feels about.(she might be still figuring how she feels. Although you know how you feel.Us girls tend to think too much about things.*She might be playing hard to get( hopefully not)*She doesnt feel the same way( I doubt this one.)Judging on what you have written you havent done anything wrong. I know I would like a guy to treat me like that. I think this is one of those "its not you, its me" situation. Its this girl that has a problem not you( No, Im not dissing her.) My point is must be something bothering her thats affecting your relationship.Talk to her and gain her trust. I hope this was helpful and best of Luck!
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