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Archived questions from: 11 November, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Am I just trying to fill a void because my boyfriend and I broke up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

11 November 2009 (?) - I'm 16 and me and my bf (18) just broke up. now im talking to this guy tht i have been on and off with since i was 13 and he was 15. hes now 18. we had sex one time over the summer and we sometimes talk, on and off. lately i have been talking to him ...

Which guy should I focus on???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Ok, i have a few guys on the go at the moment and would really like to focus on one, as a boyfriend likee. But theres little things about them that make me not know which to choose. So, the first one is a boy in 6th form, i'm in year 11 (he's 2 ...

I can't decide which one...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Theres a guy that has been in love with me since high school he has seen me in and out of relationships and has always been there for me even now that we graduated we remained grreat friends i can call to go anywhere with me and i love that about ...

Why is this guy acting so weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Okay, why is this guy acting so weird? Whenever I'm around this particular boy, he kind of avoids me. I never did anything to him! I'm the type of girl who says Hi to everyone.. and if I see you, I will say hi. The first time I spoke to him was...

How do I know she's telling me the truth and that nothing else happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - hi i am seeing a girl, i started liking her, before i even proposed i asked her about her past relationship, and she said she liked someone on the 1st day i met here but there was no commitment. later on when i was deeply in love i came to know a...

My girlfriend, my "friend" and I...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - so i love my girlfriend we've been goin out for 6 months n its been great...the problem is i lost a friend because of it well this is the story when i met her she had a boyfriend we talked and talked for hours we became really close friends my frien...

I need your help aunts... Should I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Ok here goes, I'm 13 an I've liked one of my best friends for a year, but for a while he was being a bit off wiv me for a while but then today he was being really nice to me an sitting next to me in class and we were having a laugh, and it was such ...

Why can't people mind their own business sometimes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Why don't people mind their own business?! It's really annoying. Don't they realise they're hurting others? I don't know what to do? People have been talking about me and writing messages on msn/facebook which are hinted at me! It's not abuse so I ...

Should I let this friend back into our lives?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - Do I let a friend back into our lives after I found out some stuff? I had a very good friend (male) who was my best friend for some time. When he was going through a divorce, he stayed with us about 1 or 2 nights every weekend. He stayed with his ...

I am isolated from friends and family, and my boyfriend doesn't seem to care about me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship that I am not happy in. I feel that my boyfriend does not love me or care about me. He does not treat me well. He hits me and says stuffs to me. When he does it he says he is either joking or was angry but if i do anything ...

My best friend is dating a boy I have a crush on. I am SO confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am having a huge crisis with boys and my best friend!! A few weeks ago she asked out a guy that I really like, but before she did... I never told her I liked him. He accepted and now I am really confused. In school they are not...

My friend kissed my girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - hello i have a big problem, i've been going out with this girl for a month, and i love her though its embarrassing to admit. See everything was going well until we started having arguements. one time we didnt speak for three days but eventual...

Does my friend have a crush on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - My friend and I tease each other a lot. We usually tease each about each others' habits, likes dislikes, (he comments a lot about my random habits, and I usually tease him about how much he hates me/stuff I do)... we're mean to each other, but in a ...

Why does no one want to kiss me in spin the bottle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Ok, what to do what to do: I am going on a bus tomorrow with guys. It is a soccer team so both teams are going usually we play truth or dare or spin the bottle but when it comes to me almost no guy wants to kiss me. It is not that I am pretty. ...

Crisis with boys and my best friend! Help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am having a huge crisis with boys and my best friend Holly!! A few weeks ago she asked out a guy that I really like, but before she did... I never told her I liked him. He accepted and now I am really confused. In school they ...

Lost my girlfriend.... but should I keep her as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - 18 months ago I fell in love. I'm 31 now. The sad thing is, this is my first real relationship. She was the first person who ever saw past my weight, etc, and gave me a chance. This is probably because I got to know her, and she got to know me, for ...

Sexting boyfriend's best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend Ray for 5 1/2 years, we live together but during this time I have fancied one of his best friends (Deryk). I thought I got over him until he started to tell me one drunken night (we were both drunk) that he was mast...

I would already be engaged to her if it wasnt for her past! How do I overcome this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - I'll try to keep it short. In June 07 I met a girl at a party and ending up sleeping with her that night. Both of us were sober. For the rest of the summer we hooked up here and there - f buddies. About a month after we first met my good friend told ...

My friend has changed since being abroad. Should I just give her time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

11 November 2009 (?) - My friend just got home from living in another country for 2 years and it seems like she doesn't really want to see me. I admit, things haven't been easy since our circle of friends are being petty with one another and my friend is caught in the m...

He has naked pictures of his friends on his laptop

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - So he has naked pictures of friends of his who like him and send it to him. He and I broke up but we trying to get back together. I really love him. It really bothers me that he keeps this pictures. I know I have no right to tell him to get rid of ...

I hate that he has this power over me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - This was a friend of mine for a while, he knew I liked him and ran hot and cold. Playing me. I was quite drunk when I saw him last week, and he made a move on me. I was so happy. But then after making out until it was late I just wanted to go to ...

Does she like me as a friend or more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - I met this girl about 3 months back through a mutual friend. Went on a few dates and i thought things seemed to go well. Then one night we went out for drinks and i ended up spending the night at her place and we hooked up (no sex). Another t...

Should I take charge and tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Ok so There is this guy that I cant seem to get out of my head. I recently broke up with my bf of 3 years. I am trying to date again, but i just cant. all i can seem to think about is this other guy. This guy was my ex bf's friend. But they are no ...

Is it weird to friend an ex on facebook?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Is it weird to friend an ex on facebook. I'm not sure what I'm trying to do, if I think that friending him will spark his interest again or if I'm trying to show him I have moved on but a large part of me wants to show him no hard feelings we can ...

Does he think something bad of me? Do I annoy him?

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11 November 2009 (F) - Hello all, First off I would like to thank your time and advice. I have a complicated story and my main question is that I don't know what to do or how to approach the situation and/or whether I should ask him what we are... but first I need to ...

My ex bff is doing things on purpose to make me mad or hurt my feelings!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - My ex bff is doing things on purpose to make me mad or hurt my feelings. She'll stare at me, walk pass me on purpose, says hi to people that I'm with even though she doesn't really talk to them etc.. NO she is not harassing me, i just want to...