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Archived questions from: 9 November, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

We're like soulmates but she is quite insecure. How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - well this is long so i'll make it as short as i can!! i'm 26 and have been best friends with a girl of the same age for 10 years. We have always done everything together (excluding physical) and see each other several times a week and are in ...

My friends gang up on me! What have I done to deserve all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Ok, i have so many problems right now and i feel so stressed. Firstly a few months ago i fell out with my 3 best friends because they never involved me in anything they did and 'ganged' up on me all the time, one of them was even meant to be going ...

He's the most amazing man I've ever met... but is the age difference just too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I've been great friends with the most amazing guy for 9 months now, and just this past month, we acknowledged the mutual attraction and got past the age difference: he's 22 and I'm 53. I've been involved with a lot of younger men (my ex-husband was ...

Her boyfriend is in the way!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - About 2 months ago I started school at college. In one of my classes, I saw this girl for the first time and I knew that I was going to talk to her. After class I went and had lunch with her and immediately we got along. About a week later, she ...

Have I been expecting too much from my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

9 November 2009 (?) - I'm not sure about what to do with my friends. My one friendship with my friend, "Maggie," seems off and on. When I was in grad school, she never really was there to listen to me when I had a bad day or needed someone to talk to. She didn't get ...

Mad crush!

This question has 59 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....

Now that he's split from his girlfriend, should I tell him I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I really need help, there's this lad I like who I work with but he's just spilt up with his girlfriend today. He told me he liked me a few weeks ago but I never told him that I liked him too. Is it too soon after finishing with his girlfriend to ...

Remaining friends with the other woman...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - I had an emotional affair for nine months (no sex). I finally settled everything with the other woman and came clean to my girlfriend. I'm proud of how I handled it, though not proud it happened. The other woman and I parted on good terms, as ...

Why did this girl cancel her hair appt. with me to go with a stranger?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Evening all! This isnt a love question but im hoping you might have some advice. I am a qualified hairdresser and worked in a salon for a few years before settling down in to an office job-more pay and less hours. When some of my colleagues fou...

She fancies my man...do I confront her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - hi. my best friend fancies my man. i told him and he said that he loves me and always will. i believe him. the thing is every one can see what she is doing.i feel that she is trying to push me out by taking over my life. dont know what to do as if i ...

Gay unrequited love within a 'relationship'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - Hello, I'm a 46 year old gay guy and I have become stuck in a situation and seek advice... I got to know a guy 3 years younger than me around 3 years ago, we met and had safe casual sex and a friendship developed, during the first couple of months...

I keep giving, but when I am in need, I get nothing in return.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

9 November 2009 (?) - I can count only say 2-3 pals who I truly like overall and can say they are fairly good friends. But lately I feel like I am more of a friend to them than they are to me. I tend to overextend myself- sending them cards, giving them tiny gifts, ...

My friend's boyfriend keeps hurting her over and over, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Hey! Alright, so my friend (F) has a boyfriend, his name is A. A is the worst boyfriend on planet worst boyfriend. No joke. He flirts with other girls ALL THE TIME, either online or in person. He even flirted with me a couple times, intul I ...

He flirts with me. Does that mean he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Alright.. I'm 13 and I've known my neighbor who is the same age as me scence I was 2. I've liked him ever scence I was like 10... I think i might be in love with him now because he's seen me thro the the good the bad and the ugly... He's been wit...

How can I learn not to take everything personally?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

9 November 2009 (?) - I'm sensitive and react easily to situations or things that happen or what people say. Most of the time my family or close friends preface things by saying, "Now don't get upset, but...." and then they tell me. I feel bad because they have to say...