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Archived questions from: 27 November, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Should I pursue my friend's ex boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Ok here's what went down. I like this boy. But he dated a friend of mine. He only went out with her because he wanted to see if there's was chemistry...and there wasn't. So he dumped her. Now I want to ask him out, but my friend still likes him, and ...

How do I confront an acquaintance about an untrue rumor she may have spread about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I need to confront an acquaintance who I know very well about a rumor she told a close friend of mine. Basically, she told him I slept with someone I have not, at a time when I was in a long term relationship (I do not cheat on my partners...

My friends thinks he fancies me but sometimes he avoids me. What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I have this problem, basically I really like this lad. And he knows that a used to like him blah blah blah. Anyways my friends really think he is interested this time, we keep catching eye contact. We act like friends but sometimes he compl...

My friends have spread it around that I like him. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - hi aunts i really need help, ok so ive liked this guy for nearly a year now and i thought it was just a secret between me and my friends an not even all of them know because out of all 15 of my best friends only 7 know who i like but i think someone ...

Betrayed by a friend I fancied

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Hi all I fancied a friend of mine who I had been helping out. I am a gay man and so is he. What happened is I kept hugging him when he was upset and we rubbed each others shoulders, I ended up rubbing his face and he didn't like it. He told m...

Help!!! What do you do when your best friend fancies your "ex"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Basically, what do you do when your best friend fancies your "ex". I have a history with this guy. She doesnt know I had anything going on so I cant tell her no or anything. Ive only started getting over this guy. I dont know if hes doing this to ...

Revenge is sweet...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I need help, can you pleaseeee tell me a way to get back at a guy you really like but recently you found out he is making fun of you behind your back? please don't tell me ignore him because I can't. Please help ...

He loves her, he likes me. Should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I think I've fallen in love with my best guy friend. I won't go into details, but I feel really strongly about him, but he loves this other girl, who has a boyfriend. He's admitted he likes me too. Every single one of our friends say it, even when ...

Will a married man ever leave his wife if he doesn't have any children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Back in June I met a man at a convention while on a business trip, although it was just friendly. We exchanged email addresses to be in contact about work-related questions. At the time I was engaged to be married (I have been with him for 3 ...

I miss her so badly, but should I forgive her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hey, I need help. A week ago me and my girlfriend (im 16 shes 15 and we're both female) broke up, as she had sex with another guy at a party whilst very drunk. We'd been togther on and off for about a year. What I dont get is that a week before the ...

How can I manage to feel more comfortable around him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hi there, I had a drunken one night stand with a guy from uni 3 weeks ago, who I had only known for 3 weeks beforehand. He is fairly shy and its quite uncomfortable between us. He asked my friend whether I had a bf, what my interests are so I think ...

Seem to be socially handicapped, is there something actually wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I have so much that I don't know how to start. I'm an aunt here on this site, but I prefer to be anonymous. In spite of the fact that I'm an agony aunt, I seemed to be cursed with the inability to click with people or make friends. I'...

I performed oral sex on my best friend. Now he won't talk to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

27 November 2009 (?) - At the beginning of this year, I met possibly the most amazing guy at my university. We became almost best friends through the course of the year, we did everything together and talked everyday. However, I had fallen really hard for him. Although he ...

Not being able to talk to anyone is killing me!

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Hello, ok i was out at my local pub last night from 9.30 to 1.30 and did not talk to anyone! I said hello to couple to couple of people but did not actually speak to anyone, yes there was music playing but come on i have been going to this pu...

Should I be social with her if she does contact me, or am I being used?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

27 November 2009 (?) - I'm confused about what to do with a certain friend of mine. When her life isn't going well, when she's sad or lonely and she needs a friend she'll call me or e-mail me asking to hang out, but when everything is going well for her she completely ...

We're confused about our new friendship with another couple... any insight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - background: my wife and i met this couple at a restaurant few (2-3) months back. they have a 3-yr old daughter and ours is 4-yrs. over this time, we have seen each other (mostly couple w/kids dinners or get-togethers) about once every 2 weeks. apart ...

How can I break this smoking habit once and for all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - This may seem pathetic but its true. Simply put I'm an old kid and besides from the usual crap teenagers have to deal with I seem to make everything worse for myself and because I can't deal with it I smoke. It started out at smoking with my friends ...