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Archived questions from: 15 November, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

How important is that intense feeling of attraction in a long term relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - How important is that intense feeling of attraction in a long term relationship? Does it even last longer than a few years? I'm asking because there is a lovely guy who's interested in me but he isn't what I'm generally attracted to in the looks ...

I have to see her every day and know I'll probably never have her and it's driving me nuts. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - I have a crush on a girl at work, dont speak to her much but I know she's dating online. We went out the other day (as friends/colleagues) and spoke for hours about lots of stuff, I hoped to find her irritating but she's wonderful - attractive, ...

I need some ideas! How can I make conversation with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - Recently I went to a football game for my high school and I met a girl who is 2 years younger than I am. We held hands for almost 3 quarters of the game and then she told me that her dad was my botany teacher. 3 weeks later I saw her at the next...

I've never been out with anyone before... how do I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Well, i want to ask this lad out who is also one of my best mates, i asked on here before wether i should or not and somebody advised me to, so i thought meh may aswell (lol)! anyway...the thing is, i dont really know how to do it...im really s...

I don't want to come across as desperate so don't want to ring or text him but I would like to see him again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy. We talk but things aint going the way I wish it could.. he doesnt ring much..(sometimes every day other times he goes for days without calling) he wanted to see me last week and I told him due to college and all that stress I can ...

I don't know whether to just be happy with the close friendship we have at the moment, or risk taking it further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I have been best friends with my best friend for three years. Me and him get on so well, have so much in common and we are really close. We are also close physically. I don't mean that we've had sex or anything but we're always together and holding ...

Should I accept?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Hi this is the first time i am writing here. Well, i am in relationship many years. It seems serious. We had said, when i finish my studies to get engaged. But after the years i rethink again and again if this man is my best choice. A)He is from ...

Why won't he answer me on Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I'm pretty sure this guy likes me, it seems like he's just waiting for me to make a move on him. But he doesn't reply to messages that I send to him on facebook? (well i just send him little messages saying hi) Why would a guy do that? Does he think ...

I don't want people to think we're going out together when we're only friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - one of my best friends hangs round with me most of the time and i think people might think we're going out, i didnt think this until the other day in assembly when this girl said to him your girlfriend is behind you... i dont really like him in that ...

Why did he say I liked him? How did he know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I'm not to sure if this means anything or what but basically me and some of my mates thought this guy liked me cuz he used to stare at me loads, he seemed really weird aorund me as if he felt something and everyone said it was obvious he did. ...

Is he wanting to end things and doesn't want to tell me to my face?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

15 November 2009 (?) - I desprately need your advice. I am engaged to the guy of my dreams but I'm seventeen. we have been together for a while now, eleven months and our love is deep. just recently his mom grounded him and he emailed me on the 16th of last month saying ...

Is it going to ruin our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

15 November 2009 (?) - I dont want to keep thinking this way! Is it going to ruin our friendship? So a couple of weeks ago I asked a guy if he would every want to be more than friends and he said 'I dont know' so we decided to stay friends. We are texting right now and I ...

How to deal with a difficult acquaintance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Being a fairly non-confrontational person, I would normally just be civil when I bump into this person (lets call him Jerkosaurus), but not go out of my way to talk to him when he has made it clear he do not like or respect me. However, he happens ...

I fancy two boys. Whom do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i fancy my best friend but im in love with another boy that ive liked for about a year i dont know what do do cause i get really nervous around them both when i see them i was wondering what i should do should i wait for the guy i love ...

How do I get my guy friends to stop seeing me as one of the guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - i'm 16. ok so heres my problem, i got lots of guy friends. i got more guy friends then girls. and well since i hang with mostly guys, my guy friends dont see me as someone there date. they treat me like one of the guys, and well now i dont really ...

Help! How can I get him to talk to me more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I know I am going to sound like Im in middle school writing this, but Im at a loss of words. My social anxiety has never prevented me so. There is this guy in my art class. He is pretty shy as well, though he is very sure of himself when he ...