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female
age
51-59,
*obbit22
writes:There is a man at work who has pursued me and we became 'friends', nevertheless, he tells me that he is a beast, old and unattractive. I did not bite, that time, later I told him i thought he was handsome...he lit up like a tree. Let me say nothing physical other than touch has ever happened. He keeps pursuing me with comments and touch, yet, reverses himself ignores me some days, (ican feel it and it hurts), then he comes back around...stares at me sometimes (as i've noticed), tells me I'm his favorite, makes 'fantasy' comments, then they cycle repeats...I haven't seen him in two weeks, he let me wear his jacket then out of the blue commented that he's an ugly beast..I did not bite that time. What the heck is goin on...does he want to truly pursue me or what??? i return in a few weeks, I'm just trying to unravel my experience with him, as it may end up full time when i return again....S.O.S. can anyone relate to this behavior, what's up?? Why reveal how you feel then back away over and over agian???
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): You need to forget this guy. He's a player. Not a cheating player, but headgame player. Baits you, gets the response he wants, gives you some attention for the response you gave him, then drops you cold. Then the whole game starts again. It's emotional and mental munipulation. Not a very nice game. Leave that alone! People like that usually prove to be abusive in some form or another.
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