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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:This is gonna take a while.. I'll be as brief as I can. My friend of 17 years is really irritating me and it's getting me down, it's silly things with her, but i've just had enough of the crap.. so 1st.. She wacks me over the head, all the time! and i done it back to her saying 'i wish to hell u wouldn't do that to me, heres how it feels' she went mental, so it's ok for her!!! we were having hastle from a guy and took it to the police, she decides to shout and ball at his house last night shouting about his illness (thats all the ammunition he needs to go and get his own back) she has put on alot of weight and i seriously think she is trying to make me 'get fat' to make her feel better.. she phoned me and said 'we're going to mcdonals, am coming to get u' i said no, then an hour later she phones back.. 'we need to go a message, am coming 4 u, oh and bring money' i knew what she was doing and took no money.. so we get to mcdonalds and when i said i had no money she chucked money at me saying 'if u come out here with anything less than a meal i am leaving u here' if she goes to the chip shop or anything i get it if i don't eat with her.. which i don't. then comes the crap when she's drunk.. ur boyfriend doesn't like me.. she needs to remember when she and i didn't talk for a year he was there and still is!! what else... when we go on nights out she encourages me to kiss other men or cheat, which i am so angry about.. even my partner has said to me he thinks i've changed into a negative person. i know this is all so stupid, but i am so frustrated with her immature behaviour!! how can i sort her out without her going mental.. as usual!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): Hello dear,
Looks like this friend is wasting your time, i know you two have been close for a very long time. But, people change, and and it looks like shes changing for the worst. Shes giving you unnecessary stress and shes trying to change you and its hurting you and your relationships. A friend is suppose to be encouraging, loyal and fun to be around. I think you should be upfront about her behavior and if she just throws a fit, dump her. You don't need that crap on a regular basis. There are other friends...but before you dump her make sure you try to work things out...maybe she just needs help...=) good luck!
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