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female
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36-40,
*ubblygirl
writes:I think I've been tricked again and Im hurt, not knowing what to do.This guy I just met at school is great. We hit it off and are in two university classes together so I gave him my email. That weekend, he emailed me and I added him to my msn and we've been talking ever since. He seemed interested in knowing me cause he always asks questions about me like: ideal first date? idea of a perfect guy? favourite movie?. We end up talking all night till about 1 in the morning!So I added him to facebook after 3 weeks, and found out that he has a girlfriend. The whole time we talked, he never once mentioned this. Im hurt because we always sit together, tell each other lots and he seemed genuinely interested. Im really upset and I dont know how to ask about her and avoid him now for the next 3 1/2 months! What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): Maybe he is just a friend and is thinking of setting you up with one of his mates.....but then again, it is kind of odd he did not mention the girlfriend....so if he has cheating on his mind, don't give him any encouragement in that direction....at this point he hasn't seemed to cross any lines....he hasn't asked you out has he?
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (24 January 2009):
 Well maybe he likes you as a mate/friend, has he said anything to you to make you think he wants to date you?
I suspect not if you go over everything he has said.
He seems to like you and you get on very well, we can have non sexual relationships with blokes but sometimes if you have not had many opposite sex mates you may not be used to having plutonic relationships with the opposite sex.
But there is a possibility that he does like you but has a girlfriend and does does not want to end his relationship with her but does like you.
My advice is to just enjoy him as a friend and if anything happens then go with that, you obviusly enjoy each others company.
Dont read anything in to this that may not be there.
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