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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: I have been dating this guy i met online about 3 months ago. We have been out twice so far and he has invited me to his house this weekend and is cooking me dinner...but i still dont know where i stand with him or if he is that into me. When i log on to online site sometimes he logs of and i dont know if its a coincidence but i get the feeling its because im on there and he doesnt want to talk. When we are online together im always the one to start a conversation..and it seems to an effort for him to talk to me. But on the other hand if he did not like me why would he want to invite me to his house and cook me dinner. He is a blokey bloke so maybe he is not good with showing his emotions and he has also recently seperated from his wife (7 months ago). Do u think it seems like he is interested...i dont feel comfortable enough to just come out and ask
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (24 January 2009):
Yeah, I think he's interested, but this is a confusing time for him right now. It's probably hard for him to handle the emotions coming from his wife and you, so sometimes he probably does not want to talk to you because he may just be in a bad mood. Try not to take it personally.
Have fun with him at his house and see where it goes from there. Cooking dinner for someone is a pretty intimate thing, so if he wasn't interested, he wouldn't have invited you.
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