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writes: I once met this guy in a nightclub,he is three years younger than me.He made it clear to me that he liked me,i gave him my number,but he never contacted me.A few months later,we bumped into each other again,and he still acting like he liked me,but again,nothing happened after that.las time i saw him,i bumped into him over the christmas holidays,and this time,he gave me his new number,and asked me for my number.He even said i better not be giving him a wrong number.He wanted me to go to the next place he was going with him,i was just walking into a nightclub,and he was just leaving to go somewhere else,but my friend literally dragged me into the nightclub,which i thought was quite rude.He even gave her a funny look.He told me to text him abit later,but i didnt,as it was very late at night,and i went home half an hour later anyway.I think he just wanted me to text him to chat,not to meet up.However,i sent him a text message the next day asking if he had a good night and asked where he ended up going next and told him that we left about half an hour later,and he didnt respond.I dont understand,as he has always seemed like he likes me.Why would he have even bothered to stop to talk to me and swap phone numbers when he could have easily walked straight past me ?.It was him who started talking to me.I'm wondering if i should have asked him to go out as well in the text message,but i just wanted to have general conversation first.Do you think i should text him again,even though it's been a while,and possibly ask him to go out ?.It's really confusing .It's a shame as i really like him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): Here's an update.I didnt hear from him at all until last saturday ( valentines day ).He sent me a message asking if i was out round town.I wasn't and he told me he was.I told him i might be going round there this weekend though,and if he wants to meet me he can.He said he wasn't sure what he was doing at the weekend yet but if he was going out he would meet me,and said happy valentines !.Do you think thats a good sign ?.I ws surprised when i got the message !.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (24 January 2009):
maybe text him. if he does not contact you or seem bothered then move on. no point in wasting your time over someone who is not interested. plenty more fish in the sea.
maybe cause of his age he does not really want to settle with just 1 girl?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): I should have added,he remembered my name last time he saw me,which i was surprised by,as i hadnt seen him for a long time.So thats another reason why i dont understand it.I must have meant something to him in some way if he remembered my name.
My friend had been upset earlier because she had bumped into one of her exes,so i'm not sure if that has anything to do with her dragging me off.And i thought it might have been that she didnt want to go somewhere else.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 January 2009):
Sounds like he is a forgetful drunk.
You give him his number he wakes up the next day with no idea what your name was so he can't find your number in his phone.
You text him and he doesn't text back as he's not quite sure if you are you or the other girls he chatted up that night.
Leave it and chalk it up as an odd one that would have not worked out anyway.
Also ask your friend why she dragged you off. She could well have picked up on something you didn't.
Write him off and move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, PeterPan  +, writes (24 January 2009):
 I would go ahead and try to text him. If he doesn't respond, you've lost nothing since you two haven't connected at all so far. If you don't get a reply, I would just let this guy slide. It seems like he can't get his act together enough make a simple phone-call. But, I'm the type to say if you don't try, you'll be wondering for a long time to come... am I right?
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