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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Need help with my attraction for older men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I think I possibly need help, but I don't really know how to go about it. I'm only fifteen- going on sixteen, soon, and I've got this real strange attraction to older men Anything up from twenty, but never older than forty? It's sorta weird... i...

I can't keep up this secret much longer!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Going to keep this as short as possible.. I am a girl that's16 years old and am in a relationship with a 20 year old male. As I am living with my parents, and knew they would be against this we've been in a secret relationship for 10 months. ...

If a man is always talking about extra-marital affairs, is this a sign that he might be having one??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - What are the chances that a man would be talking about the wrongness of adultery and the mistrust of the ones having an affair, that he would also be having and affair? Would he be talking about it in such bad terms if he is doing it as well?...

Is there something going on between my teacher and me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Ok, so I've read some stories about "teacher-student relationships" on this websites. (I'm 16 btw) And now I wonder......I've had this teacher for two years. Last year was when I got to know him. I was involved in basketball and didn't want to leave ...

I had sex with my mom's partner!!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I did something really horrible and I don't know what to do. Basically I had sex with my mum partner and they been out with eachother for 8years. I'm only 18 myself and I don't know why it happend. I'm carrying so much guit with me all around ...

I broke up with him, he's in another relationship now, but I really miss him! How can I get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I went out with this boy a while ago and I dumped him because well its a long story. Anyway he cut his hair, got a new hair style, and he has really mutured...but he's got a girlfriend and he keeps rubbing it in my face like...oh I'm going to see ...

The man I love proposed to a woman back home. He is giving me mixed signals. Help!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I have posted similar questions to this issue, and this is somewhat of a followup question. I have fallen for a foreign-exchange student who loves another that may or may not return the feelings. It is a relationship from his past tha...

Baby on the way, when is the right time to.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (?) - I found out a few weeks ago that I am 12 weeks pregnant. Me and my partner are very happy, we have been together 1 1/2 years, I Know that isn't a long time but we love each other. We want to keep this baby because with his job and me working part ...

That cliche of being hot for teacher...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I met him in August of my sophomore year, when I first sat in that desk in his class room, he called our names, learning who we were. He got to mine, last on the list of the twenty or so kids in my class. My last name being German, he spouted off ...

7 years together and torn apart by her parents...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

26 February 2011 (M) - Hey there Dear Cupid, its been a long time. The question I have to ask is one that has been on my mind the last few weeks (Since around Valentines day). My girlfriend and best friend of 7 years and I were split up in late December by her ...

I sent a drunk message to the guy who works at Whole Foods!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - Okay so there is this boy i can not get out of my head. He works at whole foods, and i cant help that he sticks in my mind so vividly every time. From what i have experienced, we definitely have made eye contact a few times. Well somehow i found out ...

My Mum is coming between my first love and me!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - Ok so i'm 15 in yr 10 goin' on to work experience etc and my friends who don't go to my school (they go to a grammar one) have a friend who's in yr 11 (just turned 16) and when i met him he was really nice and fun to talk to. Then one night (l...

My girlfriend's sister mades moves on me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 February 2011 (M) - Help me: my girlfriend's sister is now after me for a date ever since her sister (who is my girlfriend) traveled to London. The first time I noticed it was the day she called me on the phone asking me to come over to the house. I did, and she was ...

He said he has slept with his girlfriend and only likes me as a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - hello frinds ..im a 22 year old girl.I will first let you all know about myself AM a nice girl or say the good girl have never dated any guy in my life cos we were taught that husbands gonna be the only person in girls life . i have been a topper in ...

Was I her rebound or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - I think I was a rebound. Here's my story. I ran into a girl I had met about 15 years ago. This was back in early December. I know her husband as well. So we start talking regularly on our blackberries. Nothing crazy just chat daily. ...

My boyfriend's brother plays footsie with me under the table. Is he flirting with me and how serious is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - How serious is footsie as a flirtation tool? My boyfriend's older brother keeps trying to play it with me under the table during dinner (and I'm usually sitting next to my boyfriend). Whilst I admit I have feelings for him (albeit, physical ones) ...

Has my teacher got feelings towards me? Or is he just being nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I've reposted this question to hoping to get more answers I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away...

I fell for my girlfriend's best friend!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3115 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - Hello readers, I am glad to be able to find support here.. Because I have asked numerous questions about numerous issues and have gotten strong and wonderful response which has led to me being able to grow so much stronger in my relationship. ...

Wife still dependent on my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating my partner for 2 years, he is still married and has two children. One child accepts our relationship the other child doesn't. We have lived together for 18 months but he has recently moved into his own place. This is for his ...

If he makes a move on me, how do I stay faithful to my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - a year ago, me and this boy i liked kissed, but we didnt go out, and stopped talking after a while. now i have a really lovely boyfriend, but this boy has come back into my life again. he's got a reputation as a bit of a tool, and he's really ...

How should I read all of this complimenting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - OK so I am 16 years old (and please excuse the english of mine, it's not best) i can't say i'm strikingly beautiful, but i'm not too ugly either so, my best friend is an amazing guy. he is smart, kind, sweet, athletical, and he's really hot! (app...

I'm obsessed with my femaly P.E. teacher and I need to get rid of these feelings! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Hi people. I'm obsessed with my female P.E teacher and I don't know how to get out of it. I don’t want to, but I have to, or else I’ll go off the rails. Does anybody who share the same problem or have any advice? Please reply. ...

I fell in love with my psychiatrist!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - Hi I fall in love with my psychiatrist and now I am very confused dont know what to do cause I like him a lot and somethimes I think he likes me as well. He was asking me personal questions like do I have boyfriend but very persistantnly an...

Married for 23 years, and I think I may be in love with a younger woman...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I am a man married for 23 yrs. The marriage has had many ups and downs. For the past few years I have been feeling as if we are growing apart. I have never cheated on my wife. I havent even kissed another woman since the day I met my wife. ...

In love with a married man...what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - dear cupid, I been searching a sites that can answer my problem, i know that is common problem but i dont know yet the answers. i been falling inlove with a man that is married. we been dating and no commitment for this situation. Why he dont tell...

I have a tremedous urge to kiss my teacher!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Why is that whenever i see that teacher [whom i have a crush on] i realize that i want to kiss him and this feeling is unstoppable. I'm 15. Help please....

I want my ex back, but she is dating my best friend!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend a few weeks ago, and I still love her. I was talking to one of my other best friends and I found out that he is now dating my ex. I still love her very much and I want her back. I don't want to destroy my best friend's ...

I'm finding myself attracted to one of his friends! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - Okay so ive been dating this guy who is 5 years older than me for about 2 months. We're not in a serious relationship, but he told me that he is starting to fall for me. Anyways, so before we got involved with each other I hooked up with some of his ...

Having an affair with a married man...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I'm a daycare teacher and currently having an affair with one of my parents. I know it's horrible but I'm enjoying every second of it. Every morning he drops his child off we chat but don't flirt to not make it obvious. But we know deep down we want ...

I'm 16, in love with my 25-year-old teacher! What do I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - Hey This is something i have really struggled with for the past few months. I think I am in love with my 25 year old female teacher. I am a guy and I am 16, 17 this year. If I dont talk to her, then I feel terrible that day; if i make he...

Should I tell my professor how I feel, seeing as we are both adults?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Firstly, I'd just like to say that student/lecturer relationships aren't illegal or anything over here and we're both adults. Secondly, I think this is more just to get things off my chest but any advice would be appreciated too. If anyone's been in ...

I even got my crush a rose, but she likes this other guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

15 February 2011 (M) - can anyone help me with my problem. i'm 14 and i really like this girl and we're really good friends. she knows i like her a lot and knows i got her a valentines rose but she said she won't go out with me because she likes this other guy a lot. she ...

I'm trying to get her to fall in love with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

15 February 2011 (M) - im in love with this girl who goes to the same college as me and my best friend. I see her every week day because where doingn the same course. were ok friends because we sit on the same table as each other along with my best friend and four others. ...

I proposed to my friend but she politely declined!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

15 February 2011 (M) - so it began in october. the girl in my college asked for my no. and we started talking nicely. she had a boyfriend from last 4years and she loves him. they broke up soon after i started talking but were in touch daily. she always gave me signals ...

I'm not sure if it's love or attraction.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

15 February 2011 (M) - Now im not sure if its love or attraction , or if its a feeling that she may be the one , but there was this girl who was my classmate in high school , i developed a crush for her right then , asked her out after school ended - and got politely ...

The girl I'm chasing happens to be married!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - So, Im in the army, and oversea's at the moment. this woman that I chased for well over a year sent me a email saying she wanted to start "dating" me all of a sudden ok, all good. yeah im down for that. Im over here doing the right thing, no...

Falling in love with my step brother...what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - ok my dad just remaried and i have a new stepbrother im 13 and hes 15 we still live in a 3 bedroom appartment and when my dad has me and my brother his new wife has her sons one is 11 and my bro is 11 but my new stepbrother who is 15 is realy sweet ...

I'm getting feelings for one of my guy friends, should I break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and he is without a doubt my best friend. I was completely in love with him but when we went off to college, we were fighting a lot and some of my feelings for him sort of ...

My bestfriend loves this guy, but I have been getting close with him too... what should I do?

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13 February 2011 (F) - So there's this guy that i really haven't had any feelings for until earlier this week... and this week has been one emotional week for him and me, so we got together, and as i was leaving, we hugged. This hug wasn't a normal "friend" hug, it was m...

If I leave, I will bring shame to my family, and they will break all ties with me! What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I am a 24-year old girl from Bordeaux. My family comes from Pakistan and we are quite a traditional family with close family ties. They do not allow me to meet my friends and my only occupation is staying at home and doing my house...

Does my college lecturer have feelings for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away. There was one point though where I got close to this boy and ...

Is it wrong of me to continue my affair with my first cousin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - I am currently having an affair with my first cousin. We love each other enormously even though we haven't been together for too long. We have a big age difference. But to us that doesn't matter. For my part I would do anything to be with him and I ...

I'm widowed and slept with a married man. For once in my life I want to be selfish and just do what I want!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I have been widowed for a year and have 2 children. This doesn't leave me a lot of time to date or even meet someone. I do miss having sex but I am not ready for a relationship and may never be, given the circumstances of my previous marriage and ...

Our families would flip but we love each other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Well i have an issue, you see since i was 15 or 16 or so i have been in love with my cousin...now i dunno what to do being that i am 28 now. now lets state that my cousin and i are distant relations... my grandmas, step sisters, adopted sons, ...

In love with a woman who is an abusive relationship! Should I wait for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - So I met this girl at work a few months ago and I developed feelings for her. Come to find out she also developed feelings for me. Problem is, she has been with a guy for 5 years and has two children with him. He is emotionally, and on occasion, ...

My husband's mistress faked a pregnancy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - My husband's mistress faked a pregnancy and he asked her to terminate the pregnancy. They had many ugly fights following that. Then he finally told me yesterday that she said she isn't pregnant and just wanted to see if he cares about her. Since ...

Is this woman really pregnant, or is she trying to blackmail me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I had an affair with a married woman. She is 40+ and I’m 20+. I’m single. After we broke up, I didn't see her for a few weeks. One day, we had dinner together. After dinner, she told me she is pregnant now. It was a terrible shock....

My ex is about to propose to another woman. How can I get him back before it's too late?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Six years ago, my boyfriend of 2 years and I were going through a rough patch and were on and off til one day it just stayed off. Eventually, we broke off contact and went our separate ways, but I loved him very much still and didn't want the break ...

want passionate and mind blowing sex with my crush, not my husband!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 18 years and we have two sons together. I got married when I was very young and have had no other boyfriends ever. My husband is the only man I have ever been with in my entire life. I find that I am bec...

Help! In love with a married man and he doesn't love me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Hi all. I could really use your help! I have been involved in an emotional affair (never any physical contact) with a married man. I am also married. We both have young children. This has been ongoing since last spring. We would see each other a...