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writes:Help me: my girlfriend's sister is now after me for a date ever since her sister (who is my girlfriend) traveled to London. The first time I noticed it was the day she called me on the phone asking me to come over to the house. I did, and she was putting on sexy clothes. And she asked me if am missing her key sister and I said, "Yes, of course, I do miss her." Then she said she is here to make me happy but I didn't understand what she was saying until she started touching me. She wanted me to make love with her but i didn't do it, and I ran out of the house. What do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): Tell her you are flattered and appreciate her feelings, but if she ever, and repeat EVER, insults her own sister like that infront of you again... you will kick her arse.
This needs to be nipped in the bud now. While there is still a chance to peacefully resolve it.
Talk to your girlfriend about it. Say you are concerned something is upsetting her sister because she offered herself to you. Make it known you refused but are concerned it is a symptom of something else that might be bothering her.
This serves to undermine any bitchy moves the sister might feel she needs to come up with. Takes any heat off you. And draws attention to the sister, where it needs to be because it is not right for one sister to even ATTEMPT to do that to the other. Something is clearly wrong in her life if she sees destroying her sister's relationship as a viable option there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): Dirtball is right. DONT hide it. No matter what, if you hide it and the sister says something the hiding will make you seem guilty. Tell your girlfriend without bashing her sister though. Honesty is key here! Good luck!
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reader, firstlovelastlove  +, writes (25 February 2011):
 Do exactly what dirtball says. The same thing happened to me. Have you heard the saying 'hell hath no fury like a woman scorned'? Some females can be meaner or nastier than any male I've met. I wish you well.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (25 February 2011):
 You avoid her sister, and tell your girlfriend what she's doing. Come completely clean. It's better she hear it from you in your shocked and confused state than from her sister who might tell her you were leading her on or worse. Get in front of this now. It may suck, but I guarantee you it will be worse if you try to hide it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): That's a hard one... I personally would make it very clear to the sister that you are not interested. As for your girlfriend maybe consider telling her what happened. Though if you did tell her it could cause a lot of arguments. Perhaps though its best she knows the truth as you don't want secrets from each other. Its really up to you.
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