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writes:Well i have an issue, you see since i was 15 or 16 or so i have been in love with my cousin...now i dunno what to do being that i am 28 now. now lets state that my cousin and i are distant relations... my grandmas, step sisters, adopted sons, daughter... so legally there is no blood at all just marriage, and adoption. so we are like 3rd cousins or so... so i know that its alright legally but so not so morally... but i know that i love her. and she feels the same... when we are together we always seem to snuggle, and hold hands. and even "touch" but never have we gone further. so what should i do, i mean we both love each other. but our family would flip. and we would rather avoid that...because we love our family...but we are like those people who grew up next door and fell in love. please gimme some advice
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reader, FayyTargett  +, writes (10 February 2011):
I understand your frustration about your situation, you said yourself that you and your "cousin" are distant relatives, but is the family close? is there a close relationship between your family and hers? or is it that you just see her at family events?
You should speak to your family, talk about how your not technically related to her, then drop the bombshell of how you feel, whats the worst that can happen? if your family really do care about you they should be supporting you for what you believe in.
And its hard to fight the feelings of love, right?
Hope this helps
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