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writes:Okay so ive been dating this guy who is 5 years older than me for about 2 months. We're not in a serious relationship, but he told me that he is starting to fall for me. Anyways, so before we got involved with each other I hooked up with some of his friends. It has never been awkward and everything is out in the open. But now i have a big problem. I am finding myself extremely attracted to one of his good friends, who i have hooked up with before. So a few nights ago me and this friend went driving alone, and we ended up hooking up. We didn't have sex, but I get the feeling we might. I know the person i'm dating will most likely not findout I just need tips on what I should do , thank you :)P.S- me and the person I am dating haven't had sex in over a month, and since I have had these feelings about his friend we haven't done anything sexual. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): Firstly, if your boyfriend is 5 years older and having sex with you he's breaking the law. Secondly, why are you even in a relationship if you're acting like this?
Your boyfriend has told you he's falling for you and this is how you repay him? You are being incredibly selfish and immature.
I suggest you tell your boyfriend you don't want to be with him and let him be with somebody who cares. Then you can sleep around as much as you like.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 February 2011):
 Dump your boyfriend. You are cheating on him (serious relationship or not). He doesn't deserve that. This "friend" of his is also a complete asshole. Anyone who would do that to someone they call a friend is a piece of shit.
If someone is able to betray the trust of their friend, they won't hesitate to violate your trust either. Of course, you're just like him, so have fun together.
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