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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

My relationship with my brother in law

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I am 25 and live with my sister and brother-in-law. I came here in search of job and am being here since 4 months. its the same time my b.i.l lost his job and was staying home. i love my sister very much and my b.i.l too, in fact respect my b.i.l as ...

Is it wrong to have this type of friendship with a married guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I made a casual friendship with a guy when I sold some radios for an air base (he's air force) He was very friendly, yet a bit too much back then. He left a week later. I had to contacted him a month after that by email and since then we began ...

Is it irrational to think this way about my therapist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Over the past 3 years I've gone through a lot of shit. about 2 years ago I met my therapist, he was one of the best people I would ever meet in my (then) so far 15 years. I most definitely thought of him as more than just my therapist... I thought ...

Have you ever loved someone you couldnt have?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Has anyone else ever fell in love with someone who you cant have? Either cos they are already with someone or they just dont love you back? I feel so alone. Im head over heels in love with this guy and have been for 5 years. Weve never had a proper ...

I'm only 12 and I think I'm pregnant !

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - About 2 months ago, i had sexual intercorse with my boyfriend even though i am only 12 YEARS OLD!!! i really regret it because i started my period a year ago and i havent had my period for ages! and i think i might be pregnant. i am really scared. ...

I'm almost certain I'm straight, except for this. Can you help please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Yeah, I know you're all bored to death of these "I fancy my teacher" questions, and I can't claim that mine is different or extraordinary, but these feelings are messing up my life. I had this (female) english teacher last year. I started of hatin...

Fooled twice ! Does he deserve another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years. We met online in 06 and started dating in the late summer. He had just gotten out of a divorce where his ex cheated on him multiple times and had a child with another man. I know I'm the "rebound" chick, b...

I am a lady who is dating two man at a same time. The problem is I don't know which one to choose.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I am a lady who is dating two man at a same time. the problem is i dont know which one to choose. course the other guy i have been dating him for five years and this present one its only been seven months please help confuss ...

How far will a woman go to hide the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - i am looking for answers.my wife had a little fling with another man recently that she says was only a kiss.i don't believe her.she will look at me in the eyes and swear on her kids life and god.has anyone ever heard a woman say this and not even ...

This married man has my heart held captive!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Did I really lose it, or was I looking for love in the wrong place? Is it too late to fix the mess I got myself in? OMG what have I done, well it’s too late for all the crying and antidepressants, regret and maybe even counseling. Love has gone too ...

I'm still in love and missing her terribly, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I'm a married man in a love affair with a married woman. It seems that her husband has an idea of my exitence. Because of this she says she cannot seem me anymore the way we used to!!! But having said that we talk everyday and she tells me how much...

In a mess with a married man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I want to know if married guys who don't have children with their wives ever leave them? The guy I am seeing hasn't had sex with his wife in 5yrs. After they got married she told him she was going through menopause and didn't care for a man anymore. ...

I'm still mourning my lost love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'd fallen in love with my cousin since I was 14 years old. I thought that the feeling was just out of curiosity but I still have the same feeling towards him even until now. I thought that this feeling for him will just vanished es...

Was he spinning me a yarn saying that he loved me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I had an affair with a married man on and off for almost a year. He told me that he wasn't leaving his wife for nothing. He told me that he loved me once and never told me again. I fell in love with this man and then with no notice, he told me it ...

How do you get rid of a broken heart?

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27 October 2008 (F) - How do you get rid of a broken heart when it’s been broken by 2 men at the same time? I’ve been married 25 yrs. and it’s been a rocky marriage. My husband is living in another state managing our 48 unit apt. complex which has caused a lot of ...

How can I overcome getting low when I don't hear from him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm in love with a man who has a partner but says he will keep in touch with me ( we have just become good friends and I am happy as that)! - He rings on occasion - when he can get away - but on nights he doesn't I start to really panic that I ...

Both married but infatuated with each other.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I have a friend (guy) was working with me. Both he and I are married, he likes me a lot and once over the phone he kissed me and said he loves me. I kept silent. We both know that we like each other so much. I changed my job and went to another ...

Why should I suffer like this??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5900 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - with reference to my previous question "I'm attracted to a man who is as old as my dad" tagged "boss". I REALLY NEED HELP. It all went wrong, I have told him " I admit I like you and that you are making it hard on me cos I have started th...

My relationship with my teacher has destroyed all other relationships

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I have a problem that is really getting to me. I am 17 and in a school sixth form. I have a male teacher, quite a bit older. We have grown very very close - although we have done nothing physical, I would constitue what we have as an emoti...

My cousin's boyfriend came onto me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5894 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - i was at a birthday party for my cousin. and my cousin and her boyfriend and their daughter were there with my aunt and uncle. well my cousin's boyfriend and are good friends. well at the party we decided to go hang outside together and talk about ...

Step love

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26 October 2008 (F) - After reading around the site, and from a personal viewpoint, i have seen a fair number of questions about relationships with step-siblings. Many of you may think it sounds ridiculous but attraction cannot be helped when you have just met some...

I fell for a man, and now I have no idea to get over the depression ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5900 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have passionately fell for a man. Hes not married or anything but the problem is he barely knows my name but I do. All the things i think of him is ruining me. I don't feel like doing anything -I noticed I'm bored with everyth...

I'm in love with my very good friend's

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - Okay, I'm in love with my very good friend's girlfriend. She and my friend have been going out off and on for more than two years. She loves him definetely (most of the time). However, I talk to her every day through text, and then im, and then on ...

I've started an affair while my abusive boyfriend is in jail. When he gets out, I have to make a choice. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - My bf of 4 years has now been incarcerated for 6 months. Before this, our relationship was rocky because he would lie, cheat, break things when he got angry,call me degrading names, and support our daughter half the time. Through ou relationship, I ...

My girlfriend's family is marrying her off to another guy and I need help to figure out what we can do to avoid this from happening!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

25 October 2008 (M) - Hi, This z raj kapoor please litsen my problem this z very big for me, i know u r use to hear these stories but plz help........ acctualy i m from india and there is in some places very orthodox peaple living and between them there z my girlfriend'...

I'm seeing a married man, I love a married man. How do I know if he is serious about leaving his wife ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - I'm seeing a married man, I love a married man. He says he's going to leave his wife not because of me but because he's no longe happy in his marriage but some of the things he says about her I just don't know that I beleive him, How do i know if he ...

I cheated on my husband, and now the guy I cheated with won't leave me alone. Can I save my marriage ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I am new to this site - I guess I am desparate to talk to somebody about this problem and feel like I cannot even trust my friends. I have been married for 10 years and have a daughter. I have never cheated on him before in my marriage. He was ...

Forbidden feelings...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hello! Good day readers! I just wanted to ask if why are the teachers forbidden to have a relationship with their students. I admire my previous mathematics teacher. He not only taught me how to solve mathemetical problems but also he taught m...

I'm falling for my step-brother (not blood related) Is this wrong ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I need some advice please. I live in Queensland with my mum and I am 19 years old. My parents divorced 6 years ago and dad remarried 2 years ago and lives about 1100 miles away interstate in Victoria. By his marriage, I have 2 step brothers wh...

I fancy my much older teacher and I want to tell her how I feel.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Ok, I’m very nearly 16 and go to an all-girl’s school. I’m in my last year there (yr11) and will be leaving in June to go to another school to do A-levels. So basically, there’s this one teacher who I absolutely love. We have loads in common,...

How do I get over this obsession with a woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (M) - dear cupid iam deeply obssessed with young lady since few years,it is one side,she is orthdex lady plz suggest me,how to forget obsessed lady ...

I love my mistress, but she doesn't want me to leave my wife for her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

23 October 2008 (M) - I am 27 years old and have been married nearly 7 years, so yes that means I got married when I was 20. After our daughter was born my wife kind of emotionally checked out of our relationship, she held unforgivness towards me for things that were ...

My 60 year old teacher crush that I can't get over, someone please help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I've had this problem for a very long time, and I've tried asking for advice from many people, but no one has cheered me up about this. When I was in 7th grade, I somehow developed a crush on my PE teacher, even though he had white hair, wrinkles...

Shall I finish with my current affair only to pursue another one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Hi. I feel so terrible writing this. This is more like a confessional than a request for advice. I got married four years ago to a man I first met when I was in university (ten years ago). He was my first real boyfriend. Late last year our ...

How to stop flirting with my gorgeous chemistry teacher???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - okay so i have a bit of a situation. I have a huge crush on my chemistry. The man is gorgeous and he's awesome which is an added bonus! I'm usually a flirty person with just about everyone. I can't really help it, I'm a natural flirt, but I do it a ...

What should I do with this great connection we have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - i have a really big crush on someone who has a girlfriend. me and him go to school together but she lives like 2 hours away at college he always flirts with me and alot of people see it, he even went as far as taking my phone and getting my number ...

Are there any ways to distinguish whether or not he is attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I have been enrolled in a French class for the past couple months. My professor can't be more than 6 years older than me, and I feel as if there's a connection between us but I'm unsure of how to approach it. Obviously he's not going to make the ...

I feel turned on by my uncle!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Okay, this is so gonna sound weird and a little sick, but if anyone has some advice I would appreciate you send me a message back. Me and my uncle have been close since I was a baby. I'm turning 17 and he is turning 40 this year. Since I was 14 h...

Husband on the 'down low'!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Apologies if this is long; but it's really worrying me and I need to get it out in the open. I'm 33 and my husband's 36. We have two sons, one aged 12 and the other who's 14. I live down the road from my best friend, and my children are bes...

Could he get in trouble for dating me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - hi. um, my problem is that i really like this guy who lives next door to me. well that part's not the problem. the problem is that i am only turning fifteen this saturday and that he is turning eighteen in three months. i have no idea what to do, ...

Just found out the man I love is married...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5906 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I met this guy online about 8 months ago. From the beginning, he seemed head over heels for me but I have already gone through a divorce and just wanted to take things slow and make sure that our relationship was progressing for the right reasons. ...

Why am I feeling this way about my teacher being away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5897 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Today my teacher, who I was always very fond of, went away witht the year 8s on a school trip and they'll be gone til Thursday. When i first learned this last week i thought, oh, i'm gonna miss him loads, but until this morning i didn't realise how ...

Lesbian crush on my teacher..HELP

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I'm 16 and in year 11 at school, for 3 years I've had the same geog teacher and always thought she was lovely and admired her as she does a lot for the environment. I soon realised that I have feelings for her. She's so lovely but people would say ...

We are having a baby through incest - what can I do?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - To everyone that doesnt understand, this will seem really wrong but i've been in love with my brother (no not step, my actual brother) for the past 2 years after he helped me get over my cheating ex. At the start i thought it was just an admiration ...

I have a crush on my teacher

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - what should i do now? I have a crush to my teacher in our summer class. when i see him in the campus, he is always with a female teacher or sometimes with a student. he is not that handsome and not that tall. my friends say that he is UGLY. ...

My teacher teases me and flirts with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5907 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - This is really complicated... well maybe not THAT complicated but still. ANyway, I'll start at the beginning: When I started Secondary School I had this teacher who also started at that school. He is unbeleiveably funny and witty and he gets on w...

Why do I still dream about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5907 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - Dreams, I know this will sound strainge but almost twenty yrs ago i had a scret love. he was married i was young, we both moved on. after all these years I still dream of him and even from my dreams he still makes my heart race like nothing else. ...

I'm obsessed with her! How do I move on and forget about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5870 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - Have had an infatuation turned obsession with a lady that was my neighbor, employee and wife's friend. Both she and i are married. I became attracted to her in 2006 when she came to work for me and we had to work closely. She slowly took an ...

Do I act on my lesbian feelings or remain alone, for the sake of my closeminded daughter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I met this girl in a strange way, actually in a business setting. Now all I think of is her and anticipate our next meeting. The problem is I ve been attracted to females all my life. I ran from the feelings afraid of what people would say, fore I ...

Pupil/Teacher crush!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - Okay I'm sorry to say this but I have the typical female teenage problem. I'm 15 (Nearly 16) and in love with my teacher. Please don't think I'm some silly, naive, clueless little girl because I'm not. I know I have no chance with him whatsoe...