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writes:This is really complicated... well maybe not THAT complicated but still. ANyway, I'll start at the beginning:When I started Secondary School I had this teacher who also started at that school. He is unbeleiveably funny and witty and he gets on with everyone, students and teachers. Throughout my first year I started fancying him, but of course i never told anyone or shared/let on my feelings to him. I had him my next year at the school and I new that he sensed I fancied him, but we both never mentioned it although he still did tease me loads! As well as everyone else! I didn't have him the year after but stil i saw him around and chatted a bit to him, after a while i thought my feelings were prehaps going for him. Though there was always a part of my mind that thought that there still could be something there. This year I've got him as a teacher again and will carry on having him until i finish my GCSE's, I was so happy and straight away in the first lesson we started teasing each other over random stuff. We always laugh at things and he always helps me in class. But the other week I was alone in my bedroom doing my homework for that class and I realised 'I can't let my feelings get in the way this year, I have to think he's just a teacher and I will soon forget about him'. So the next lesson I didn't talk to him much and concentrated harder on my work, even though i already tried so hard to impress him. After the lesson i just felt sick, it didn't seem right and i relaised then that my feelings weren;t the same for him, i didn't love him, i was in love with him. Since then I've noticed that he dosnt treat me the same as other students, he not only teases me but also flirts with me a little. When we pass in the corridor he smiles at me or we start chatting for ages, the other day he was teasing me in the corridor and when another student came to talk to him and i started to walk away him rapped me on the head gently from behind and when i turned round he just winked at me and i walked off. I feel so happy around him and when we look at each other i feel myself start to feel all nervous and go red. I know nothing can happen but still... Please help, I'm not sure what to do next.With Love xx P.S He's 27
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (19 October 2008):
You have said yourself that he is like this with everyone.
He's just having fun and teasing you like everyone else.
The fact that you are in love with him means you are hyper sensitive to his every movement and glance and because you are so desperate for him to like you back, you see things that aren't there.
If you really love him then you will keep your feelings to your self. Act normal and don't tell a soul. You could ruin his career or at the very least get your parents brought into school and have a formal investigation started if you make a move. Plus they will make you change classes etc so you don't see him.
Once you are 18 and out of school then you can go back and tell him how you feel, but till then you are just going to have to put up with it.
Good Luck!! xx
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