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*herryCupcake
writes:I'm 16 and in year 11 at school, for 3 years I've had the same geog teacher and always thought she was lovely and admired her as she does a lot for the environment. I soon realised that I have feelings for her. She's so lovely but people would say she was a freak cos she has loads of tatoos and is a vegan. I have so many feelings for her and sometimes I think maybe she has too cos she acts like shes flirting with me. I was off school for a long time recently and I'm in a small room with a handful of students and she comes up and gives me 1-on-1 teaching. When I came back and she first saw me she gave me a huge hug and said she'd missed me. I want her so bad, should I make a move or try to put my feelings behind me? Help please
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reader, BrownEyesGirl +, writes (20 March 2011):
 it's so horrible isn't it... feeling like this.
you are just going to have to ignore it honeybee.
sorry.
x
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reader, EnchantedFantasy  +, writes (28 March 2009):
I know how you feel, I am in love with my Psychology teacher but there really is nothing you can do, at least till you graduate. If she's interested in a friendship after graduation then you have a good start but if not, I know it dosn't seem like it but there really are more fish in the ocean.
Good luck sweetie =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008): dude, it's like you posted this question for me. :O
I'm in the same situation (I'm a 16 year old girl, junior, crushing on a female teacher). Only she's my history teacher and this is the first time I'm ever had any lesbian feelings towards anyone.
I look forward to her classes because I get to see her, and I'm doing wayy better in them than in any of my other classes, because I actually pay attention to her =P
And I've liked her for a year or so. I used to think she was one of the better teachers, then I started noticing her witty sense of humor and all of a sudden she's beautiful to me and I must admit, I'm a bit obsessed with her now.
ahh I think you shouldn't make a move. If it's a crush, the feelings will probably go away someday. Or you could hint at her how you feel, who knows??
best of luck =]
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P.S. I talked to a couple people I know who would NOT freak about this, and what they said is to wait until graduation. Then, if I still feel the same way towards her, I could risk telling her about my feelings.
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reader, lil-mizz-kerry +, writes (20 October 2008):
is soungd like a small crush to me every1 as one on a "forbidden" one as it make it mre exiting, new and fun
but if u r going to do anyfing about it just rember dis
-she cud losse her job
-u may not even ave a crush u may just feel close to her
-the age gap
-she may not feel the same
-she might onli lyk the oppasite sex
-it cud make it weird being in her class again
but if u both feel the same i wish u all the luck in the world.. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): Teachers are not allowed to get involved with students dear. You could be putting her in serious trouble. I wouldn't advise you to act on your feelings.Once you are out of school, its a different story, but if she would start a relationship with you, or any student, she could and probably would lose her job, go to jail. I'm sure that's not what you want.
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