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26-29,
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writes:Dear Cupid, I have passionately fell for a man. Hes not married or anything but the problem is he barely knows my name but I do. All the things i think of him is ruining me.I don't feel like doing anything-I noticed I'm bored with everything and I have no motives. -I'm very indecisive now (i used to be a good hangout planner with my friends)-I eat because i need to stay alive not because i ever feel hungry (loss of appetite)-I think way too much about every detail (for example: when i watch tv, i'd be laughing at something. Then in my head i'll realize that i was happy for that moment... then over think it and then just go back to being sad)-I feel so lazy-i feel mentally tired but not physically sometimesAll i could do is lie on my bed dream about him and I together. In my own world. I can never tell my family and friends about this because they know by telling them thats its jsut another stupid silly crush. When they always say that, I felt alone that no one is taking me seriously. I use to be an active athletic girl. But now I lost all my passion for sports. Because all I could think of was him. please help me, i just dont know what to do ....
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): Stop thinking about him. Start doing sport again. Get busy and force yourself to be more active. These thoughts are making you miserable and is leading to depression. Come on you can control your thoughts. This guy is not even aware of you and your "crush" on him. Yes, it is a crush, it is not love. You can do better and deserve better. Go and hang out with your friends and meet somebody that cares about you and get to know more about love. Yes, I challenge you to go and find out about love.
Dale Carnegie said: "Take a chance! All life is a chance. The man who goes the furthest is genareally the one who is willing to do and dare".
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