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Archived questions from: February, 2015 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My wedding is a few weeks away and his ex wife and adult daughters are still causing problems.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - I have written in before about my fiance's ex wife and 3 adult girls abusive behavior and was given advice that we followed and basically blocked them off of facebook, and just continued living our lives. My fiance was able to reconnect with a ...

I think anything I did while we were broken up is none of his business!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - I broke up with my BF for 5 months. He's married by the way and we had an affair for 2 1/2 years. We have started talking again and want to pursue a relationship but only if he leaves his wife. I refuse to get back to that stressful, wrong mess. ...

How can I stop these urges to be with a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - This is kind of an odd question. My husband I are happily married. We have three preciousness little ones. I am bi sexual, I've known since I was young, my husband knows, but lately I've been having urges to be with a woman. I wouldnt act on it, I ...

My husband wants to name our first child after his father, and for him it is not negotiable!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - I am pregnant and I found out that my husband and I will be having a boy. I am not excited because my husband wants to name our son after his father's name. It is a Lebanese tradition that the eldest son of the family must name his future son's name ...

My boyfriend of 3 years just now told me he had a child that was put up for adoption

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - I feel so shocked and hurt that I don't know what to do or where to turn. I've been in my relationship for three years now. Recently we made a decision to come off birth control and start trying for a family. The decision came after I had a sc...

He called me stupid and fat.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

27 February 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship. We've been dating two years, see each other over the weekends and communicate a lot by text. Today, my boyfriend was rude to me over the phone, basically hung up on me for no reason, and then ...

I'm suspicious about my daughter and son relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

26 February 2015 (F) - I have a son, who is 19 and a daughter, who is 17. I'm suspicious of their relationship. I went through some tough divorces and I've been away for a couple of years but I wanted a father for my children and they had family friends watching over them ...

I am starting to question how important I may be to him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - I have been with my bf for 4mths now but we were really good friends for 5yrs before. He says he loves me and I believe he does (in his own way) but I am starting to question how important I may be to him (though he says I am the most important ...

An people ever change, and if they can how do you know they have really changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3588 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - Can people ever change, and if they can how do you know they have really changed? I ask because for the past six years I have been on/off with my ex boyfriend. We met at school and our relationship began when we were 17. At first, everything...

My 18 year old daughter is sleeping with a 31 year old man. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - My daughter is 18 and living and sleeping with a 31 year old man. In my heart I feel this is totally inappropriate. Her father is so upset. They got into a huge fight. Now I am in a deep state of depression. I don't see how my daughter believes that ...

This man doesn't want to deal with his child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3587 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - I have been knowing this guy for 17 plus years and all we do is have sex argue and then be ask for money. well we lost touch for a couple of years because he went to jail. i took it upon myself to contact him while he was in jail. i even started ...

He chooses to masturbate while looking at pictures of women. Will this only get worse? What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3587 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - My partner of seven years just admitted to using pictures of females .. Not porn. Just pictures of their bodies so he can masturbate. So it's not the action of sex - it's strictly their boobs and butts he wants to see. My major concern is that ...

Advice for moving out of your parents' home on a low income?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

23 February 2015 (M) - Hi. I would like some advice on how I can move out of my parents house. Id like to get out ASAP. My household is pretty dysfunctional. My parents always fight, my dad drinks, they both verbally abuse me and question my every move. My dad has tried ...

My sister wants to go out with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - Hey im ayden and im a 16 year old girl and Ive got a problem. My problem Is that I was with my beyfriend for a whole year and we broke up around 7 months ago.he is a year older than me and my sister is two years older than me and recently she told ...

I think I would rather date my boyfriend's brother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - I have been having this huge problem that just wont go away. So I have been dating this guy for about 4 months now. And I can't say that things have been going great; they haven't. The problem is, I am really into my boyfriends brother. When I am ...

Should I let my irresponsible sister move in with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

22 February 2015 (?) - Hello, ok after suffering years of abuse, I have decided to move out of the turbulent man's house I have called father for years. The issue is I have enough cash to set my self up...tho am still seeking employment but the things is I have a twin s...

I'm worried about what my friends will think of my much older father

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - Hey, I am having trouble... My dad, well, he's a bit older than most dads, I'm a teenager, and he's in his 70's. I love my dad, but this has made me so so so self conscious! Anyway, it's my birthday in a few days, and I'm having a party with my ...

How do I explain to his parents why mine wont be at the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - I haven't ever really been close to my parents, and I left home as soon as I could aged 16. I moved away from my hometown 4 years ago and haven't really seen my parents other then family parties ever since. I guess a lot of it is my bad relations...

How can I get rid of my bad reputation in a small town? My new Gf's father said I should not be dating his daughter

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - I'm 21 and I just started dating an amazing girl. Unfortunately I did a lot of stupid stuff in my past to make fathers not want me near their innocent daughters. She is 18, a senior in high school and lives at home. Her father liked me the fir...

My mom is an attention whore on the beach and it botherd me!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - My mom likes to wear skimpy bikinis to the beach! Ok so this has been going on my whole life but now that I'm beginning to mature it's starting to matter to me. My mom wear's the smallest bikinis in the world it seems even when we are going as a f...

My husband puts his parents before me and it hurts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - Hi everybody, I had a lump followed by pain in my breast so I asked my husband to take me to the doctors. We went and then that doctor scheduled me for an ultrasound which was three weeks after that. Come the morning of that appointment my husband ...

Am I being defensive about my boyfriends remarks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - Hi, I can't tell if I'm over thinking stuff, and being defensive as he keeps telling me, or I'm sensing mixed signals from him recently. My boyfriend can be quite snobby. But just through insecurity rather than expertise of an area/or wealth. ...

Should I reach out to my rich grandfather for help?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - I don't come from a wealthy family. The only person in my whole family who has been well off is my grandfather. He's very rich. However, I rarely speak with him. He's a somewhat distant person from our family and I've always felt rather weird around ...

Married with kids. She is seeing other men. I love her dearly...but when is enough enough?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

19 February 2015 (M) - Married with kids. I love her dearly...but when is enough enough? I would really appreciate insight from the outside looking in. I am going to be 100% truthful here. I have no reason not to…I just really want thoughts and advice based on my s...

Don't want to settle down yet. Should I be making more of an effort to find a partner and settle down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - I'm 21 years old and don't feel ready to settle down for ages. I've been single my whole life (had a lot of things to deal with like an abusive family) and would rather be single right now too. Superficially society might consider me most physical...

My girlfriend's child is 15 months old and her tantrums are frazzling my nerves!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - So I've recently started dating a woman about 4 months ago. Things between us are fantastic. We get along amazingly and chemistry between us is definitely there. However, there's one thing I'm having a hard time admitting is a problem for me. Her ...

I want to move out but can't afford it! Ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm 21 years old and I live with my father and brother. The thing is, I really want to move out and be on my own but I just can't afford it. Let me explain my situation. My father is retired. I love him to death but he stays at home...

He wants me to be exclusive with him. But there is another woman in his life. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - i met this guy i been having sex with him the last mouth he has been helping me in so many ways. he talks to my kids he tells me he wish he met me fours years ago before he met the women he is with now he wants me to wait for him for me to have no ...

What can we do to work through the issues that impact on us as a couple due to her parents prejudice against disabilities?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

17 February 2015 (M) - first off, i have a disability which impacts me physically. it's nothing serious and i can live a normal life, but with some minor limitations. ok, so i've been dating this absolutely amazing girl. she fully understands my limitations, and...

I caught my husband taking negatively about me to the kids and family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

17 February 2015 (F) - I've been married to a man for three years. I had three kids to bring to this relationship he had 2... At first things were great between us like they are in the beginning... We have since then bought a house and are starting to try to make a ...

I walked in on my 15 year old cousin masturbating

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3578 days ago

17 February 2015 (F) - I walked in on my 15 year old cousin masturbating. My mom told me to go see if he was sleeping and if not tell him breakfast was ready. It was silent and I thought he was sleeping so I peeked in to look and forgot to knock (worst mistake ever) I ...

I care for my husband but don't love him. I'm confused and made to feel guilty because I want out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

16 February 2015 (F) - Hi all, I am a little confused at the moment and am not sure what my feelings mean! Please help. 9 years back I opted for a traditional marriage with a cousin from India (I'm from the UK). Before we were married he said he had business ...

Would it be wrong to tell my cousin's ex-crush that I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

16 February 2015 (F) - I have this huge crush on a guy in my class. I've liked him on and off for 5-6 months now. We met through my cousin and he's a really sweet guy. First thing's first, I'm nervous about telling him how I feel. I've dropped hints about it, pretty ...

Young male, older female, advice for breaking news of relationship to her kids

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

16 February 2015 (M) - Hey! I'll get right to it... I'm in a relationship with a woman in her 50s and im in my 20s (male). I started it since i fell in love with who she is after knowing her for a few years and the love is mutual. I just need advice on how to tell...

Is it time to sever my long distance relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

15 February 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been in a long distance relationship for almost a year and a half. My boyfriend and I are perfectly made for each other: he's sweet, respectful, caring. We plan to see each other once every 3-4 months and aspire to be in the sam...

I fell for the cousin of a girl who rejected me two years ago.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

15 February 2015 (M) - Hello dearcupids, I have just experienced a weird experience. So I would love to hear your opinions. I met a girl yesterday during a journey. She was sitting next to me in the bus. We kept talking the most of the time during the journey. I thin...

My husband wont stand up for me with his family, he doesn't wont the confrontation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

15 February 2015 (F) - Hello. I have been very happily married for 12 1/2 years. We have three beautiful children. Two have ADHD and one is Autistic, not high functioning. My husbands family pretends that they accept me. I say pretends because there is always something ...

Is it OK to buy someone a birthday trip if we can't cover the full cost?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

14 February 2015 (F) - Hi guys, I just want your opinion on a birthday gift. I'm hoping for a parents opinion if possible! I'm 21 and my sister is 19, our father will be 50 in march. My father has a good/well paid job and my mother also works. They have a large amount...

I want to go out and I have family issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

13 February 2015 (F) - Recently I was scolded for not doing what my mother asked (she told me to, put the orange towel inside my room, so I ignored her and put it outside because I wanted it there.) Because of that I got told off and scolded. My older brother comes in...

My step-mother seems to think what's mine is hers

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - Hi I need some advice. Ive recently moved in with my dad, he has redecorated the small bedroom for me while he has been redecorating I have been sharing a room with mu little sister and all of my belongings haven't had a place and have been scattere...

Should we allow my mother in law to babysit our very young child while our m I l appears to be drinking alcohol to get drunk regularly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - I think my mother in law drinks (commercial product/mouth wash) to get that drunk feeling instead of wine. My m.i.l. babysits my 6 month old baby, and she always had a drinking problem, she drinks wine everyday, until we asked her to stop because ...

My boyfriend is impatient and short with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of a year has a father that treats his mother really badly. For that reason I have been mindful of how he treats me. When he gets stressed he raises his voice which to me happens every other week. He's very conscious of this and said ...

I want to forgive my mother, I know she will never change and I don't want to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - My mother is a workaholic. She always has been, my whole life. She's fond of saying how she went back to work the day after she and I came home from the hospital after I was born. She says she works so hard so that we can have a nice life but I ...

My girlfriend is being made to chose between doing things with family and doing things with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

12 February 2015 (M) - i need some help dealing with really difficult feelings i'm having in my relationship both myself and my girlfriend have physical medical conditions that prevent us from driving, so we depend on others for rides. her family is a very, very clo...

I feel like I'm always in the background when my boyfriend's son stays over

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

11 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. When his 8 year old son comes over he and his son sleep out in the living room. As of right now we only have a one bedroom place. His son gets to come over every other weekend.I feel bad but it ...

My brother in law came on to me when I was a teen. Now family wants me to forgive and forget. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3601 days ago

11 February 2015 (F) - Years ago when I was 15 I went on a cruise with my older sister and her husband. After a night of drinking and partying my sisters husband escorted me back to my cabin and started making sexual advances toward me. I told my mom and dad and ...

How can I do to prove to them that I'm not the same immature teen I used to be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

11 February 2015 (F) - I feel like my boyfriends family judge me on my behaviour as a teenager and don't accept our relationship but when I try to talk to him about it, he tells me I'm being silly and that they do like me. When I was younger, my parents divorced...

Will I always be the odd one out if I remain single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - I'm 33 and single. I've probably had an average number of relationships for somebody my age - some were good, some bad and one unfortunately was abusive. The last relationship I had was one of the abusive ones and it took a long time to trust me...

My older sister gave me a twerk session and now I feel confused and weirded out! Is this normal behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3601 days ago

10 February 2015 (M) - I need some advice about my older sister (16). I dont know what to make of something that happened yesterday. I walked by my sisters room when i got home and saw her dancing and twerking. I didn't stop or anything but she still noticed that i saw ...

My boyfriends baby does not look like him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3601 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has a 1 year old baby. However, the baby looks NOTHING absolutely nothing like him. His parents and siblings have told him to do a DNA test and so have I. He said he would do one but does not take any steps on doing so. The mother of ...