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Archived questions from: November, 2014 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My husband and his family didn't know that I never been in highschool and I cannot find job here.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

30 November 2014 (F) - please Help me!!! i have a secret! My name is Sunset. I have a secret and i hide it for my own sake, I dont want people judge me. I believe I deserve equal treatment, love and respect. I'm going insane every night to think what happened if they...

Should I Care About My Lack of Title With Special Guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

30 November 2014 (F) - I am a single mom who is on disability due to my advanced rheumatoid arthritis. After some bad experiences dating several years ago, I decided to focus on my kids since dating was a hassle. Despite my R.A., I am quite attractive, and am able to ...

How can we make our relationship work while he's forever playing his games or on his phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and its been the worst two years! At first our relationship was great, we did everything together, he did small things for me, he was caring and romantic. And its went to hell. We don't do anything ...

How do I handle these girls when they treat me badly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3660 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - I would like to ask for a friendly advice. Ever since I was a child, my older sister ( I have only one older sister and she is 8 years older than me) has always been very mean towards me. Picking on me, saying mean words and she has never treate...

How can we help my Bf's brother to take control of his eating and drinking habits that are affecting his health?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - Hello. My boyfriend and I are great. His brother is our problem. He has severe health issues and my boyfriend and I want him to take better care of himself. We just don't know how to go about it. The guy drinks 4 x 2 liters of Diet Coke a d...

His ex deliberately messed with our vacation plans

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - Right now my partners ex girlfriend is causing a massive family row that for whatever reason she is blaming completely on me, and I don't know how to respond or what to do and I hope someone can offer some advice. So next summer we are planning ...

In love with my cousin but she's to be married to my brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

26 November 2014 (M) - When I was 16 years old, I met my uncle in law's niece at a family function. Since then I had a huge crush on her. By the time we lived together for 3-4 days, my crush started turning into love towards her. But she didn't knew anything about it. ...

Crushing on my cousin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm 15 and in a strange situation, (well for me). It's a long story, sorry. :l I kinda have a BIG crush on my cousin and he's about my age. PS. he does not know I have a crush on him. (now before you skip this question please try to understan...

I don't care about what he's done to me but he cant just abandon our child!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Looking for some guidance on what to do here!! I have posted here before about this waster of a man I've spent the last 4 yrs with and I got some great advice. Just to quickly give u some back ground.. i'm 26. I've been with a man 14 years my seni...

My mum is ruining my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - First of all, I’d like to say that I am not a native English speaker so please, forgive my spelling mistakes! Sooo, here is the story. I am 24 and I live at my mother’s place with my younger sister (16 years old) – and no father - after spending 6...

How can I manage being the good stepmother despite the poison his ex pours into their childrens' heads!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - Hi everyone Hope you can give me some advice on my situation..bear with me though as it's quite a long one! I am due to be married next year, my fiancé is a good man, we have been together 3 years etc. he has 2 kids from a previous relationshi...

What word choice can I use while talking to my son about his father without really saying what my heart should say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need some advice on my son's relationship with his father this man has never ever been in his life now that he is grown he still dont have much of a relationship with his son.How do I bring up the conversation with my son about his ...

How do I help my sister with our overprotective mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - Hi there, please advise? My mother is very overprotective of my sister, who is 18. Really, she has not allowed the girl to learn to do tasks on her own (such as grocery shopping, checking the mail, hanging out with friends, simple cooking, etc.) a...

Were they accusing my mother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3681 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - So basically, we went to my aunt's house up in Dallas for a holiday get together. We were all having fun, but during the process, my aunt lost the diamond on her wedding ring. A few days later, when we came back to Houston, and after they searc...

I feel like we are no longer a family- just outsiders watching him and his family enjoy their time together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

22 November 2014 (F) - My daughters father supervises visits between his son and ex wife. He invites her over to our place- and doesn't ask me first how I feel. Their interaction has gone as far as since the visits, he has spent most- minus two, of his days off with his ...

I'm shattered, horrified,torn apart because my daughter just told me she's a bisexual

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm shattered, torn apart. I can't seem to function. Just caught my daughter kissing a girl. Horrified, livid. I can't seem to accept my 16 yr old daughter telling me she is bisexual. I'm still 2 days later so angry wth her, calling her so ...

Is my daughter having a second affair?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

20 November 2014 (F) - I am concerned about my daughter, I will give you some background information she has a child with her former friends dad who was married at the time. I don't need to say why they are no longer friends. This is all came out when the baby was born. I ...

Do we let this go, not being invited to fiance's grand child's 1st birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

20 November 2014 (F) - My fiancé's daughter had their first child and it's my fiancé's first grand child. My fiancé is divorced. His daughter is close to her mother and her in-laws. I was not invited to the baby shower that the daughter's grandma (her mother's mother)...

My husband and his family are pressuring me to visit them in Kurdistan!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - My husband is currently in kurdistan, iraq. We are supposed to be meeting up in turkey in a couple of weeks. Now he is pestering me to go to kurdistan as his family want to meet me. I dont wish to go there because of the situation in iraq. Kurdistan ...

I walked on egg shells around his wife and my relationship with my son have changed from good to bad! How can I show my son that I love his wife and children?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - My son and I have a close relationship until he got married. He's 33 years old and a wonderful son but now I felt like I walked on egg shells around his wife and my relationship with my son have changed from good to bad. I called him one day and I ...

I've had enough of my crazy mother in law

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - My husband and I are in our first year of marriage and we had the opportunity to move hundreds of miles away from his family and his meddling mother. Yet she visits us almost every week-end! Now she's talking about moving to our city and I am at ...

Should I report this, I don't want to create problems or trouble?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - Hi, can I ask a question please? I am currently working as a housing Assistant, my superior is a married man 2x my age, he comes across flirty sometimes and stares at me all the time, like really it has been noticed by others. The other day he ...

We have broken up but I know he still loves me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - me and my boyfriend are getting back from break up and now he's passive aggressive towards me. I know he still loves me. We've been in serious relationship and he's ready for commitment before but now things changed. He loss his patience, passion, ...

My fiance and father of our child has revealed that he has fantasies about having sex with other women. How am I supposed to cope with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - What would you do/think if your fiance who you just had a baby with says he fantasises/wants to have sex with other women! One of the woman he sees around work and talks to. Hes never cheated as far as i know and says he only would sleep with oth...

My boyfriend's mom wants to be my best friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - Ok so I know this sounds like a good problem to have but my boyfriend's mother (my eventual MIL) wants to literally be my best friend. She comments on ALL of my photos, shared posts, statuses, EVERYTHING on Facebook. She even will comment on my ...

Trying for a baby is ruining my marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

13 November 2014 (F) - My husband and I have been trying for a baby since our honeymoon one year ago...with no success. All hope is not lost at this stage, we've had tests done and the specialists are pretty confident we'll concieve if we keep trying, and that treatment ...

She's become cold and distant after we went looking for her birth father!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

13 November 2014 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months - she is 22 and me, 26. We are very happy and close ( I'm the first guy she has slept with ) and her family like me, which is a bonus. She was always quite a closed person but over time she opened up ...

His family think I'm a gold digger! Should I go on this trip with them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

13 November 2014 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for seven months now. I'm 22 and he is 38. I have met most of his family ( his dad,step mom, two of his sisters and a brother in law) all but one of his sisters were friendly to me but they all told him they don't think ...

Am I expecting too much not to be moaned at?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

13 November 2014 (F) - Hi I'm 21 and I have a husband and a 8 my month old little boy. I am in serious need of some guidance. Basically it been married to my husband for 4 months now and he's making me feel like I don't do enough. I get up in the night to feed our baby, I ...

My widowed mother is sleeping with a married man.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - I am a seventeen year old Indian girl. My father passed away in December 2013. Since February this year my father's best friend, Max, who is a married white man has been visiting us at least twice a week and sleeps over. He is a salesman for a large ...

Who do I leave my money to?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

11 November 2014 (M) - I'm going to make a will.I'm quite comfortable financially, with a property paid for and money in the bank.I'm only 55, but you never know... Thing is, my only son (from a divorce) is 27 and has basically never worked. He occasionally works as a DJ ...

I'm angry on the way he thinks about single mothers, what shall I do? Is is possible to change his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - Hi, There is a guy whom I meet on training and at the end of the training we have a party and we meet there suddenly we separate with out exchanging address I was just thinking about him and rely upset for not having his address. Next day after th...

I've got a boyfriend, and kids, but this woman gives me butterflies in the stomach!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - Ok so I have been with my boyfriend almost 10 years an we have two kids together. Well I think I'm gay...this girl at my work really makes me feel some type of way! I also wonder if she is like me an is gay an feels te way about me like I do her! I ...

Coming out to my mother please help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

10 November 2014 (F) - Okay, so basically I only have one last person (also the hardest person to come out to) that I am a lesbian and my best friend is also my girlfriend. I was wondering how I should tell my mom about us. Also we both still live with my mother and we ...

My parents don't like my boyfriend and I feel bad going against their wishes

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - I have been dating this boy for about 5 months now. I am 22 and while I've gone out with a few guys, I've never been in a serious relationship before as my parents are mega strict on these matters. The boy I am dating lives in Manchester (I am in ...

He accuses me, he yells and shouts and pushes me, and he leaves!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - I feel like I am going mad, no matter what I do I am wrong...am I wrong? I really hope you can help me as I feel I am going mad :( My husband and I have been through such a tough life together and it has certainly taken it's toll on me,...

My butt is not big enough for my boyfriend.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - The thing is, I have some insecurities about the size of my butt. I've been together with my bf for around 3 years and from the beginning he has wished my bottom was bigger. I have gained some weight (around 9 kg)and done exercise and as a result my ...

How can this situation be addressed? He still lives with his family and we get no privacy when we visit his home.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and half and love him to bits but there is just one thing getting me down. He is still living at home with his parents and siblings and when I go to his house we have no alone time and have to do ev...

Why would my mother say that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3696 days ago

8 November 2014 (M) - My mother was casually complaining about my older brother's bad behaviour while sweeping in the living room. Suddenly, she said. "That's why I can't love my children more than I love myself." in an annoyed tone. Without giving any details about my...

Wishing and waiting but he never comes home.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3696 days ago

8 November 2014 (F) - I am going absolutely crazy. My husband and I have 2 kids (1yr old and 3yr old), They have alot of emotional issues and are really hard to keep under control so I need his help more then the average mother and woman. My husband is ALWAYS gone out ...

Should I send my husband money? I think his family takes advantage of us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3696 days ago

8 November 2014 (F) - 3 years ago My husband sent alot of money to his family in a muslim country. His family said they were investing this money into a company where it would make profit. Some of this money was also mine. Now a month ago he has gone to see his famil...

Is the sex that important?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3696 days ago

7 November 2014 (F) - I am 44 years old and my boyfriend of 2 months is 59 and is divorced with 2 children of 27 and 25 and last week my sister turned up at my house saying that she has left her husband and told me that she has been put on anti depressents by her doctor ...

What is a good compromise age for us to have a baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

6 November 2014 (F) - Hello! I need a little advice about when I should think about having children with my boyfriend. We've been together for over 3 years, lived together for over 2 and are planning to stay together for the long run. The only reason I'm think...

If domestic violence, in the past, has affected me, then where do I go for help in the UK to deal with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

6 November 2014 (F) - Okay, so I haven't been on here for a while and after having a lot of thinking time I think I have finally cracked the code of something which I have been trying to work out for a long time, and it is very sensitive to me so please don't be too ...

I am married, but want to confess my feelings of love to another woman.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

6 November 2014 (M) - Hello, I am a 40 yr old married man from India. I had an arranged marriage which is a norm in India. Few years ago I was abroad for 3 years where I met this single Indian woman who was working in the same organization as me. We became good frie...

The clock is ticking and I feel like I am running out of time!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

6 November 2014 (F) - I am in my last year of my 20s and I have not met "the one" yet also I am still in the process of finishing my masters degree. Sometimes I feel like I did not get all the stuff I wanted to get done by the time I turned 30. When I was a teenager I ...

My parents treat me and brother like we are babies! Advice in how to deal with them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3697 days ago

5 November 2014 (?) - Hi everyone :) I am almost 16 years old and recently I admitted to my parents that I liked a guy.. well they flipped out... And I thought it was the right thing to do as I did not want to sneak around them. However, since they flipped I told the...

Should I try to become a paratrooper or join the Navy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3700 days ago

4 November 2014 (F) - I'm joining the military, but I'm torn on what to do. Please, if you have time, help me out. I made a short version if you don't want to read a lot: There are two jobs I'm considering. - The first one is becoming an officer at the army para...

I would be leaving my wife of 12 years for her, so I need to know if she wants me too

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

3 November 2014 (M) - First time I have done something like this online but there is no one else i can speak to about this. I am married with a child and 2 step kids, I love my wife but I don't know if I am still in love with her. I met a girl in her 20s a couple months ...

I'm bitter about my rich ex-husband, while I don't have much money. Will karma get him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

3 November 2014 (F) - I don't wish anything really bad to happen to my ex-husband, but some Kharma would be nice... My ex and I divorced about two years ago. He was not a good husband-treated me very badly and basically walked out on our son and I when he decided he wa...