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writes:Hi, I'm 15 and in a strange situation, (well for me). It's a long story, sorry. :lI kinda have a BIG crush on my cousin and he's about my age. PS. he does not know I have a crush on him. (now before you skip this question please try to understand, thanks)A few weeks ago his big brother did something very selfish and my parents are not very happy with him, (the brother, they don't have anything against the one I have a crush on), and my crush kinda knows that and he's very understanding towards me, so far. They live next to us so me and my crush can hang out most of the time now. (his brother is crazy about bicycles and recently he sold his to get a new one I think, so my crush now spends 50% of the time hanging out with me, also because his brother is treating him like a servant, he likes his brother and all but he told me himself that it is putting him of if you know what I mean. Last weekend it almost seemed that he's more "affectionate" towards me, in a cousin like way, but at times it almost seemed that he was "flirting". I had this crush for about a year now and every time I tell myself that it's not gonna work,(maybe, maybe not, it's not impossible), and I try to move on, the feeling just keeps getting bigger and bigger. He does not have anybody in his life right now as far as I know, (he did but we're both angry at the girl for a few reasons), and I never really had a boyfriend, long story, nothing weird. Really need advice, please? ?-? I'd like to tell him but there is 50% chance that our parents are gonna find out and everybody, (except my grandma), is gonna think I'm weird or something.please?! thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2014): thank you WiseOwlE, I'll do that and see what happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2014): At your age crushes are harmless. Don't tell him how you feel, just continue to hangout and enjoy each others company.
He is family; so parents and other relatives may not be keen on cousins liking each other more than just in a family way. Things get complicated when you feel romantically towards your kin.
It's all innocent and I just think it's best to keep your feelings to yourself. He knows you like him. You've never had a boyfriend before, and you're at that age that you are noticing boys more. He's the closest boy you know for the moment, and you'll start to take more notice of other boys soon. They'll start noticing you more as well.
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