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writes:So basically, we went to my aunt's house up in Dallas for a holiday get together.We were all having fun, but during the process, my aunt lost the diamond on her wedding ring. A few days later, when we came back to Houston, and after they searched everywhere and couldn't find it, the aunt told my dad's sister and she called my mom to ask about it or to inform us, I'm not sure.Basically, my question is, was she secretly accusing my mom?? My mom is the step sister of their household and it's like, we were already home in Houston, why both calling us unless they thought we stole it? We didn't know about this UNTIL we got their call.My dad is saying my mom is in the wrong for thinking they were accusing her and calling her stupid.It's causing a HUGE fight in my family and I would like another's opinion. Thank you.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (23 November 2014):
 Who talkef to your aunt on the phone? Just calling to hear how things went ans rant about a mission diamond isnt an accusation. I thinl your mom probably is thinking too far ahead. If it was jer who picked up the phone, so they asked her about it. If it was you who picked up the phone they'd be talking to you about it..
But then again, why would she jump to such an idea unless there are alrwady trouble in the family? You dont go from being fine, to suddenly feeling attacked, unless theres a reason behind it. Unless you have an illness that causes paranoia.
My guess is, your mom has been in long term battle with your aunt that goes way back from before you were even born. And this is just the first time you've witnessed it.
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