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I've got a boyfriend, and kids, but this woman gives me butterflies in the stomach!

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Question - (11 November 2014) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2014)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok so I have been with my boyfriend almost 10 years an we have two kids together. Well I think I'm gay...this girl at my work really makes me feel some type of way! I also wonder if she is like me an is gay an feels te way about me like I do her! I am a manager at a restaurant an she works with me maybe 2 days a weeks but when we work together we are always right beside each other talking non stop every chance one of us get we touch a lil bit she tried to tickle me last time we will share drinks we are just almost to close if this was a guy it would be a no go! the last time we worked together 1 employee asked her if she was gay an another guy was like what's up with you an you but we both ignored him we stay making eye contact we also text an we snapchat everyday all the time she makes me feel like I have butterfly's in my stomach! Today she sent me a snapchat with her giving me a kissing face an that just did it for me I want her so bad but how can I tell if she feels the same way also today I told her I was quitting my other job an she sent good now ur all mine! Uhhh she just don't know what she does to me but I wonder if I do the same to her I swear some times she will just look at me an smile or laugh an I'm like what an she's like nothing ! What do y'all think

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2014):

You have a partner and child. You shouldn't care if she likes you or not. Cut her out of your life because letting this play out will only end badly. And you will have no one to blame but yourself.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2014):

Sounds like she feels the same way about you. May b shes not completely gay where she would have a relationship with a girl so I wouldn't expect that. But I deffanatley think she may b a little bi curious if not. That is a tough one to know for sure tho. May b arranged a night out clubbing have a drink see if she comes on to you lol. As for your husband I dont no if he would like it

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