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Archived questions from: January, 2014 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I want to take some of my family to Disney World, but would rather not invite everyone

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

31 January 2014 (?) - I'm in the process of planning a trip to Disney World for myself, my husband, and five of my cousin's children. I've budgeted it all out for the 7 of us. The reason I wanted to take this trip is because their father, my cousin, died recently. T...

I'm being judged by my fathers past and his reputation, and men are afraid to approach me. How do I cope with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm not being conceited but I'm only mentioning this so that u get a better idea to what my problem is I'm 24 and I should say I'm just not an average looking girl, I get a lot of compliments from both men and women! I got a lot of off...

I feel I'll never attract someone of the same religion because of my looks and personality.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - hi... I am really a lost soul at the moment... I come from a Muslim family. My mom is moderate-liberal Muslim and my dad is relatively conservative. So I've been brought up with conflicting views... Anyways, so I'm at uni and I feel too conservat...

Stuck in a bad marriage. What am I going to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hi there guys, I'm a mother of 3 at the age of 27. I'm tired of my husband anymore, it seems that he don't want us, me and my kids.. he always tells me that I'm useless and also he is not a hardworking type of guy..he can't even feed us 3 times a ...

I think my mom is jealous of my girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

30 January 2014 (M) - Hi everyone, basically this isn't a big issue, mainly minor but I wanted to ask if anyone had an idea of how to stop it. I've been with my Girlfriend for over a year now and we are both completely in love, since I've been at university, we've just ...

My girlfriend's parents despise me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (M) - I've been with my current girlfriend for almost 3 years now. I know this is the girl I want to marry, but I'm also big on family, and her's has been giving me the cold shoulder. For some background: her family just consists of her, her parents and ...

Trying to get a balance between working and spending time with my health-challenged grandparents

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm 25 with a stressful job and a relationship that's all over the place. My family are very important to me, especially my grandparents as they pretty much brought me up from the age of six months old for my parents to go ...

Intimacy in the relationship has declined. Is it the beginning of the end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Will this relationship work? I feel his feelings for me are over. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, 4 of those years we were happy I remember him being in love with me. During our 4th year I got pregnant with a baby girl, no...

Husband corresponding with his ex despite agreeing that he wouldn't. Need advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I just found out that my husband is still corresponding with his ex. I feel so betrayed because I thought he finally understood how I felt about him talking to her and for the simple fact that he assured me that he wouldn't talk to her for respect ...

Dating a man for 2 months - should I ask him if we're in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Hello, Have a quick question, I have dated a man for about two months. He texts me good morning everyday and we talk on the phone 1-2 hours on average a day. We also text a little during the day. He also canceled his online dating accoun...

Uncomfortable with ex putting naked photos of our son on Facebook. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - This is a question concerning my ex, and our child. Hi Aunts and Uncle's, thank you for reading this, I hope to find some help. My ex and I are on good terms..kind of. We have a two y/o son and he has a 2 y/o daughter. My issue is, I'm so...

I had never seen him in a fight before, and I can't handle it because of my past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - I have suffered from depression and anxiety since I was a teenager, and I'm now 21. I have had therapy and medication for the past four years, with a little success. When I explained it all to my now ex boyfriend, I thought he understood my mental ...

Should I move in with a friend to get away from troubled family situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - Hey! I'm 20 and I have a friend that offered me to move with him to New York. Even though I only knew him since early September late august, I consider him as a brother. We talk from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep. Right now I live in ...

What can I do? My new teacher does not like my family. He used to teach my sister.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - I went to meet my teachers for my classes and when I did I found out that one of my teachers used to teach my sister. I know he hates my family. What do I do?...

I want to enjoy university life and mom is against it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - I want to enjoy uni and freshers week to its full potential, but my mother wont let me go freshers week, stay out till late or sleepover at a friend's dorm. I still live at home and i want to have fun at the same time whilst at uni. I'm planning on ...

How do I confront my housemate about his ridiculous obsession with my mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

25 January 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I really appreciate the opportunity to speak to someone about my worries, i have never openly discussed my problems with an agony aunt before. One of my housemates, currently a student, has an unnatural and exaggerated attrac...

Should I invite my husband's sister to our son's party?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - Hi, all! I need some advice. Our eldest son is turning 4, and his party is this weekend. My husband doesnt get along with his older sister, at all. Every time they are at an event together, they end up in a terrible argument. I will admit she isnt ...

How do I leave my violent husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - I have been with my husband for 8 years and we have 4 young children together. My husband has always had a bad temper and drinks excessively, but both have gotten worse over the years. He screams and swears at me at least once a day for something ...

I can't get over my ex-girlfriend, her mom and some family members still keep in touch with me, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

22 January 2014 (M) - My ex and i are both in the military, we met while serving at the same base and started to date. While we dated we moved in together and had ups and downs like any other relationship but we both knew we loved each other. Ive met her family and she ...

I love my wife, but I am in love with her sister

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

22 January 2014 (M) - I think I have fallen for her. Six and a half years ago I found out that my wife had cheated on me, prior to this our relationship had been cold for a while and I found myself having lustful feelings towards her sister who used to stay over fairly f...

My boyfriend's mom wants him all to herself

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is a 38 year old never married bachelor. His mother is a fairly recent widow (of a year and a half,) and his sister is going through a divorce so she is a very recent single mom. They both seem to expect him to not only fulfill the male...

I caught the man in lies and he finally came clean. No contact for 3 days--should I reach out to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - Ok so I started talking to this guy, who I met online, 8 months ago. We live two states away from each other and started developing this amazing emotional connection. We did eventually meet and the connection was even stronger. About three months i...

I hate my life but love my kids!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - I am a 41 year old woman married for 22 years now with 2 kids. I have spent 22 years with a man that cannot love,care or give affections. I live a cold and lonely life and spend it fighting with him all the time to acknowledge this. He says he is ...

He said, she said, so what should I say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - Ok so basically this is what happened my crush called my sister a tramp and he was like I shouldn't be mad but then he went on to say that he don't like people calling him ratchet . I did at some hurtful things to him but he said some rude things as ...

I want to marry a female and have children but I am a gay male.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

19 January 2014 (M) - I want to marry a female and have children but I am a gay male. Please help. ...

What in the hell does my daughter want from this boy who won't get a job?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid my daughter is 21 years old she graduated got a job and now is pregnant with her first child.The father of this child is a deadbeat he won't work he takes her money and FoodStamps trading them in for money to buy drugs .My daughter...

How do I learn to relax around him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - So im trying one last time to save my family ny cool child's dad is single and so am I... but ive.been.putting my foot in my mouth often sending king emotional text, calling but losing my words which make awkward silence.. I've been annoying him... ...

He has left me dangling and my life is on hold.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I split up three weeks ago he has serious mental health issues and said he cant sustain a relationship as he coudnt think straight . He said he was going to get help and in the meantime has seen me three or four times and says he ...

How do I let him know his behaviour is not acceptable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - Hi guys. I'll try to be as brief as possible because this is complicated. So, I met my current guy two years ago through a mutual friend and very quickly we became inseparable. He was the best boyfriend I ever had, beautiful, romantic, and totally ...

How long should I wait before contacting her? Even though she went "no contact" due to my actions.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

18 January 2014 (M) - When she deleted you and you went no contact, how long would you wait to contact her again? We were friends before and I somehow hate the thought of losing her totally.... ( I made a terrible mistake. I talked to her sister about it and I might h...

Is he committed to marrying me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3990 days ago

17 January 2014 (F) - hi all. I just want to understand this. I have dated my boyfriend for 7 years and in march 2012 he asked me to bought a house with him and I did because he promised that we are going to get married in that December of 2012. when December came he ...

Should my sister be fasting now that she is pregnant?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

17 January 2014 (F) - Hi My sister is pregnant- she is only about 7 weeks and is eating so much. She says she is hungry all the time. Is this a sign of anything? Sign of more than one baby?? Also, she does fasting days when she does not eat anything for 2 out of 5...

My ex boyfriend is now running around with my sister!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3991 days ago

17 January 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. I hope you are all alright and God is following your steps. Today I'm writing here to ask everyone advice on a matter that seems complicated to me. So. I had a boyfriend, and if anyone has read about it before, we are not blood related, ...

My mother does not approve of my girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3991 days ago

15 January 2014 (M) - I am 25 year old male and I have a girlfriend who is 23 and has a 2 years old boy. My mother has huge hate against her and I need you guys to help me solve the problem... I went to Japan for 3 months and I met a girl(Half Filipina, Quarte...

Girlfriend wants to adopt a child, am I selfish to object?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

15 January 2014 (M) - My girlfriend of about three years and I have a great relationship. We both have younger children from past marriages so we have agreed we will not live together at least until the children are grown. Neither of us is interested in remarrying, at ...

I need tips to look my best when meeting his work colleagues!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - hi, im just looking for some help if any of you can provide please. my new husband works away a lot, he comes home in 2 weeks and the week after that we are going to a fancy charity evening set up by his work. not I know I don't have to dre...

Should I not tag people on Facebook? What is the Facebook etiquette?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

14 January 2014 (F) - My fiancés daughter had their first child and we went to see her and the child. I am friends with her on facebook although we don't communicate with each other much. We took a bunch of pictures of course and the few pictures I put on facebook I ...

I just need to know that what I'm asking him to do isn't selfish...but an act of a mother who needs to protect her child from these trashy people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

14 January 2014 (F) - There was a time in my marriage when it was really dark...I didn't know how to get back to the beautiful that we had. And although that may sound completely dramatic...it's the truth. My husband's family is horrible...the most self-centered people I ...

How much sacrifice is too much sacrifice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

13 January 2014 (F) - I'm becoming overwhelmed with pessimism. I'm dating a wonderful man, but I'm starting to think there are just too many obstacles for us to get married. He had a vasectomy years ago, and is willing to get a reversal, he still has his name on a mo...

My boyfriend announced he wanted a month apart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

13 January 2014 (F) - So here's the deal.... My boyf and I have been together 4 years, met at college, moved in together straight away, I finished college, he started his own business which he named after my family. We were so in love my family loved him even though ...

I need to become more assertive without losing my job or alienating people

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

12 January 2014 (F) - This is going to seem like a great big grumble..I suppose it is but any advice would be greatly appreciated. Basically, I'm fed up with everything. I'm fed up with my job. I'm a healthcare worker and deal with different people with different health ...

I want a baby but my boyfriend isn't ready

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

12 January 2014 (F) - My partner and I are 25 and have been together for 6 years. We moved in together about 6 months ago. We have a good relationship and have always discussed marriage and kids which we both want. I told my boyfriend a few months ago that I wanted to ...

What do you expect from your husband and his side of the family when getting married?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

11 January 2014 (M) - This question isn't just directed at women, men feel free to give your thoughts and experiences. What do you expect from your husband and his side of the family when getting married? -- Whilst growing up my parents spoiled me, I would put th...

How can I motivate my obese mother to look after herself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3998 days ago

10 January 2014 (F) - I could use your help. I'm very worried about my 65 year old mother and her weight. She has always been overweight but she has recently retired and is rapidly putting on more weight. She is probably about 8 stone overweight. I live abroad and j...

Girlfriend's family is disrespectful of me and I'm not sure how to deal with it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3998 days ago

10 January 2014 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year and a half now, and this has largely been a very happy period of my life. I was conscious when entering into a same-sex relationship that difficulties may arise, and was both surprised and ...

How do I deal with my parents' divorce?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3998 days ago

10 January 2014 (F) - My parents are getting a divorce, and it is the most painful thing I have ever experienced in my life so far. How do I deal with this? Both of them have used me, and I have been the messenger, and while one of them has tried to keep being a pa...

My girlfriend acts like she doesn't even care about something that is important to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

10 January 2014 (F) - So Sunday will be me and my gf's one year together. We talked about it in advance and agreed we wanted to do something special on that day to celebrate. I requested off of work and everything. Well tonight, I mention that it feels like forev...

What's the answer? Buy a dildo? Think of images? Watch porn? How do I learn to turn myself on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3998 days ago

9 January 2014 (F) - I am new to this site- I will ask this question anyway. I would like to know what is the best ways to turn yourself on (masterbate) and make it so good? so you watch porn or just picture dirty things ? Does anyone suggest buying dildos? I...

We both have health issues and we just broke up. I love her and want her back. What can you suggest to help me get through this break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3997 days ago

9 January 2014 (M) - Hey there! Hope you all are doing good! Well I need some help/advice. I've been with my ex for 8 months and she recently broke up with me after she tried multiple times. Well I've been depressed most of my life and not happy with myself so I ...

Does love exist still? Should I save my virginity for "The One"? I want a better marriage than my parents have.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

9 January 2014 (F) - Hey everyone :) So I'm 19 and still a virgin which is kind of part of the problem and not. Anyway I need to know am I being way too expecting of love and sex? My parents had a unsatisfactory marriage and still do. I grew up in a home where...