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anonymous
writes:Hey there! Hope you all are doing good! Well I need some help/advice. I've been with my ex for 8 months and she recently broke up with me after she tried multiple times. Well I've been depressed most of my life and not happy with myself so I think that's why she ended up breaking up with me. She ended up saying that she felt no connection with me but I figure it cause of my depression and she's been a lot stressed out lately cause of other things. At one point she's said I was part of the Family, because she has a two year old girl who I have treated her like my own. If this helps I think she might be part bi polar or something because sometimes her moods are really mean. So I'm not sure what to do cause I truly do love this girl with all my and really do want her back! Lol I know everyone says that! She broke up with me last Friday night and pretty much still have been talking everyday and have hung out with her the last 2 days. She says she will keep and open mind about it but right now she's trying to get better and be happy with herself which now I'm trying to do the same. I just got some depression pills to help! She says she had seen a change in me for the better which is good. I'll try to put more info down but ask any questions you'd like if you need more info to help me. Thanks all.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 January 2014):
 Depression is hard to live with but it is also hard for the people that are closest to us to live with as well. I guess it may have contributed to her breaking up with you but it may not have. You mention that she could be quite mean towards you therefore it sounds like she was frustrated with the life that you both had now she is out of the relationship she is looking after herself which is great and you should do the same. Take things slowly. Talk to friends or family if you feel down or even get some professional help if you feel that it would help. Talking to people will help you get through this and allow you to be much happier with yourself.
If I am being honest with you am not sure that it is a good idea to stay so close to your ex at the moment especially if you are wanting more than friendship. You need to make sure that you are able to deal with being friends with her and nothing more. Sometimes distance for a while can help.
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