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Archived questions from: April, 2014 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

For the grown folks, what advice would you give to your adult child who is about to move out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

30 April 2014 (F) - Hey everyone, I just graduated from nursing school and I'm 18 years old and I got a job as a licensed practical nurse, it's feels great and I make a decent pay check :) but I'm thinking about moving out of my former guardians home because I'm not ...

I'm having trouble accepting newly found step-siblings!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - My father had two daughters outside of his marriage 23 yrs ago. Although I knew about it, I prayed it was not true because it will crush me. I grew up looking up to this man as responsible. My whole life seems to be shattered now because of this. ...

I had sex with my best friend, but she is married to somebody else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

29 April 2014 (M) - Hi everyone. Sorry, this is a bit of a long one. My best friend is female, we've been friends for about 10 years and she's married. The past couple of years, she's sank into depression. This is due in part to her husband never being there due ...

Did I push my ex boyfriend away? Should I write to him to explain again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I have just realised, that I think I pushed my boyfriend away. I have been mad at him for leaving for the past 6 months but it's just occurred to me that I was the one that pushed him. We were together for 4 years we really loved each other (firs...

Is it wrong to have an intimate relationship with someone who's still married, and connected through family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3853 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I am a little confused about family relations. Recently I have been confronted by my aunt's brother in-law whom confessed feelings for me. I too have had feelings for him. My aunt is still married to his brother. However, it has been said they wil...

My boyfriend wants me to leave my husband.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3859 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - First and foremost, please do not judge me. We've all gotten into weird situations and not always made the best choices. I'm currently married, 14 years, living with my husband and 2 children. For the past 4 years or so I've been seeing another man ...

Scared to tell my parents about my girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

27 April 2014 (M) - Hi everyone, I am an Indian male (23 y/o) who is in a long distance relationship with an Indian girl (from another state). We have known each other for nearly 6-7 years and our parents have met before. For the last few months I have been trying...

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

This question has 66 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

26 April 2014 (M) - Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

Dating just 3 weeks, I'm discovering more and more things about him that don't match what I'm looking for. Am I right to ask?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3839 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I've been dating a guy whomImet online for about 3 weeks now and I'm finding that as we're getting to know each other, I'm discovering more and more things about him that don't match what I'm looking for. I'm a fairly private, reserved woman a...

What's a girl to do? My parents will never accept him!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - Next week I am finished with University for the Summer, and due to my poor health I have to move in with my parents for the summer, and I met this really amazing man. We have been talking for a few months and started getting kind of serious about a ...

Is it awful for me to wish my mother was nicer to me? And bad to wish my father would leave her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I live with my mum and dad and two brothers. My mother has never been the loving type toward me. One of my brothers is older than me and my other brother is younger than me and when we were younger they both used to team up against me when we'd get...

Too Good to be true? Yet he can be VERY controlling. To the point that he scares me sometimes. What to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I would like some level-headed unbiased advice on this please. My boyfriend is so good in so many ways but a few traits let him down and I don't know whether these should be deal breakers. We've been together 2 years. I have two children from a...

I want to keep this private. What should I say if classmates ask about my absence, without sounding rude and mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Hi I'm 14 and need advice on what to tell people when I go to the therapist. I will go on Monday for the first time. It is weekly and will fall on the same day, time and lesson. The teachers know but I'm unsure about what I'll say to my 'class...

My life is a mess! How do I tell my parents that I've failed my degree and won't be graduating after all?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Hi Everyone, I've been following this website for a few years and always been impressed by the advice given so thought I would give it a go. Please don't judge me in my problems, I need help. So nearly 4 years ago, I was in a relationship, my...

I'm done, I want him out, how do I end this relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Hi all, I want to end my relationship with my partner. We have a baby of 10 months and he is drinking again. Binge drinkng, this is day 7 and he has wee'd the bed twice this week. I have weighed up the pro's and con's and the only pro I have ...

I'm gay, but my family are worried about possible abuse I might get. Any advice? Should I try to ease their concerns?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 April 2014 (?) - I quickly want to point out that this is not a complaint about my family, I completely understand what they're saying and why, but just wanted to hear some other views on the matter. I am gay, it's no secret, I've always known and my friends a...

My daughter's boyfriend has turned her against her family!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2072 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - For the past nearly 2 years our family has been doing battle with a highly-intelligent, scheming and sneaky cock roach named Adam. My daughter met him 7 years ago, and they had only dated 2 months when we began to see a huge change in her. They ...

Arguments with brother in law

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - Hi Just after some suggestions/advice regarding my brother in law. I have planned to go on holiday next April with a friend (which is now booked and confirmed). My sister is having a baby in August and plans to have a Christening next April, ...

My granny is still in business with my ex, who dumped me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - Is it alright? My boyfriend broke up with me 6 months ago, it wasn't mutual, he wanted out and I was devastated. We met when we were 19 (now 24) and lived together for 4 years in a place owned by my grandparents. He broke up with me in a very cru...

My wife's turning into a slob

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

22 April 2014 (M) - Hi, My wife's tidying habits leave a lot to be desired. We've been married 10 yrs and previously I let it go to young kids and caring for her mum. But now her mum is no longer here and the kids are at school full time. Examples are finishing a ...

Living with sister is hurting our relationship! Please advise!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3851 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - How can I talk to my sister? My sister and I are more than 10 years apart in age. She's in her 40's and I'm close to my 30's. Both of us are single and never been married. We've been roommates for years, and it's only since this past year t...

My cheating ex husband is moving on and I am stuck in poverty with the kids!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - Hi there guys, i really need help. I filed separation from my ex on account of cheating and abusive behaviour about 18 months ago. 2 children remain with me. When they went for a visit to their dad I have come to understand that he's sharing the ...

My life has been shattered. Where do I go from here?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

21 April 2014 (M) - Where I begin I have no idea? Some of you my find this unbelievable, but I assure you what I am about to tell you is true. Before 2008 my life was really good. I had a great job. Had at the time what I thought was an amazing woman. I had just...

His brother died recently but hes angry at me all of a sudden

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - Hi guys and gals! Hopefully theres someone out there who can help give me an insight into a problem I have. I started dating a guy about 2 months ago and it started off brilliantly. He initiated contact with me and we communicated for a few days, ...

I messed up big time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - ok i need advice. My ex bf passed away this year. our relationship was not healthy he was violent and i was co-dependant. I attended his funeral and have visited his family just to see how they are etc. I still have feelings for my ex ther...

Family or boyfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - Should i choose my family or boyfriend. Ill keep it very short my boyfriend is beyond amazing he loves me like hell i adore him and he supports me no matter what and will never ever leave me or my family that considers me as a girl less than my ...

I may have already sealed my fate .....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3867 days ago

21 April 2014 (M) - I'm really looking for some guidance and advice, and I hope there is someone here who can give me some, even just a little. I may have already sealed my fate in this scenario but I am not one to give up, especially when its something that I...

A shotgun marriage for me leaves me jealous of other people's white weddings!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

19 April 2014 (?) - Hello. I have been married for 11 months to my partner of 5 years. We got married without a wedding as I was pregnant so basically we didn't have enough time or money for the wedding. Now whenever I hear someone is getting married I get so jealous ...

I need my mother to get a grip! How?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3870 days ago

17 April 2014 (F) - Hi everyone! Just going to get straight into my question. I'm 20 years old, a university student, volunteered for a political party consistently for three years and don't drink heavily, smoke or take drugs. I got engaged almost two years ...

Would you date a busy person?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

17 April 2014 (F) - My son has grown up and left home and I've met someone lovely who works shifts and also does voluntary work leading teens for outdoor awards some week ends. I really like him and he wants it to work. He was being honest saying his last two ex's ...

I Need Serious Advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

17 April 2014 (F) - It has been two weeks since me and my previous ex-"boyfriend" ceased contact. The story behind us is very long, so I will try my best to keep it short. Basically, we met over the internet (Instagram precisely) last summer. You know the usual f...

He was chatting with other women while I was helping my dying mother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

16 April 2014 (F) - I think I might had been on denial.So many years of marriage and I thought was a good marraige. Problems,yes,some,but I thought we loved each other.I felt that he loved me, he cared for me,but I was kind of doing my best to keep the marriage hap...

She's changed and is pushing me away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

16 April 2014 (M) - I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 13 years and has 4 wonderful children together,we talked and agreed that it was time to marry however since moving jobs she has changed a great deal,when ever I try to be intimate she pushes me ...

Will my mom get over me moving out with bf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

14 April 2014 (F) - I am moving in with my boyfriend of almost four years and my mom is upset. I made all the arrangements before telling her and she apparently feels that was disrespectful. If I had discussed it before hand I think that would have felt too much li...

My boyfriend likes my little sister!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

14 April 2014 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for the past 5 months.about two weeks ago I've been noticing that my boyfriend has been messing with my little sister. What I mean by messing with her I mean like talking and hanging out with her more it ...

His grown daughters are nasty toward me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3859 days ago

14 April 2014 (F) - My husband has three daughters, all grown adults with children. His wife died ten years ago. We married two years ago and all three girls took part in our wedding. Every March 22,(the date of her death) the girls rush to mention the date to us and ...

Teen daughter asked me to get her a vibrator

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

13 April 2014 (F) - caught my daughter (15) using my vibrater she finished then came to me she said that had sex once and did not like it she like pleasing her self better than she asked if I could get her a vibrated of her own an teach or help her to makes sure she is ...

Unhappy in my marriage.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

13 April 2014 (F) - I need advice about my marriage. My husband and I have only been married a year, but we've been together for going on 7 years in December. We have a 1 year old together. I feel like we are just coexisting and not even trying to work as a team. He...

Are my family right to be concerned about my boyfriend's behaviour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

13 April 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is acting weird ( I'm not even sure if we are together actually ). He has Bipolar Disorder. He did something weird last night. He went to my house at 10pm. He had written a note. He knocked on the door, and then put the note through the ...

Which woman do I choose?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

13 April 2014 (M) - Hey. I basically need a bit of help and guidance on which girl I should choose to have my future with. So the 1st girl I am in a relationship with, she is amazing. She is like the good wife, she is traditional and can love and look after her ...

I'm wondering if I need to just be blunt, ask him his salary and then maybe nip it in the bud if it is too little money. Should I be honest?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - I'm in my early thirties, I have to think about starting a family. I barely make any money and would maybe prefer being a full time mom. I went out on one date with a sweet guy that seems interested. He told me his job.... I think he makes very ...

I stay with him out of pity

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - I want to split up with my boyfriend of four years. Our relationship hasn't been great for all this time because he expects me to do everything. I work long hours and he expects me to come home and clean, walk our dog and cook his meal. He doesn't ...

If he feels he can't be with me, then why did he tell me he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - Hello. Feelings just happen, and have for me been like this for quite some time. I have a crush for a man but he is married. I kept my feelings to myself. I guess he also feels the same. We have always been professional. Recently while he ...

Late life dilemma.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

11 April 2014 (F) - I have a dilemma I hope somebody can help me with. My partner and are both 61. We've been together 4yrs and are now engaged. The problem is that we live 35 miles apart and I am the one who does all the travelling. This is due to the fact that my ...

How am I supposed to feel less useless if my mother shouts at me and criticizes me all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

11 April 2014 (F) - I've decided I am going to try to get counselling because I feel very horribly about myself because my mother is very harsh on me and treats me like everything that goes wrong is my fault. She snaps at me all of the time when nothing has happ...

How do I deal with my stubborn mother-in-law?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

10 April 2014 (F) - My husband and I dated for 7 years and married for 4 years with 3 children. He was a very obedient son he will never make any decisions without his mom's input. We lived together for 2 years in an apartment (both worked) until his mom talked him ...

Between family and school I'm just too tired to perform like I used to

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

10 April 2014 (F) - I feel stupid writing this but I’ve been struggling with this for a while and I just…I don’t know what’s going on. Ever since I hit my second year at uni, my motivation has plummeted. I had (and still have) a lot of things going on at home, like my ...

His family and friends hate me because of our past

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

9 April 2014 (F) - Please bear with me as this could be long. I got into a relationship a while ago with a man who I'd been friends with for a while. Things were great to start and as we'd been friends so long our families and friends all got along with each other. I...

He won't spend any time with my friends or family? I have to beg for him to do so!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

9 April 2014 (F) - Hey everyone so I have a question. my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and two months. We live together as well. The problem is he wont go around my friends or family at all like he used to and he doesnt take me around his friends ...

I am a gay female and feeling very confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

9 April 2014 (F) - I am a gay female and feeling very confused. I was in a relationship with my ex for 5 years she was my first love but for the last two years of the relationship I was very unhappy and could not see a future . I hate to admit it but I cheated with ...