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Archived questions from: November, 2013 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Everything is going wrong right now .....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - How do you handle it when everything seems to go wrong and you are under so much stress? I don't want to get into too much detail but over the past few months I have gone through a whole lot. My parents have never been there for me and don'...

My boyfriend throws tantrums when he doesn't get his own way!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend likes to make plans for us with or without me and it is driving me crazy (it's relevant that we live together). I say yes to much of what he suggests, but sometimes I just don't feel like going. He will suggest something in say, a week ...

Husband's uncle is causing problems in our marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - My husbands uncle is very jealous of our relationship in fact some people have told me that he never stops talking about us like hes obsessed. He tells my husband to do things behind my back and he can get him another woman etc.. he never likes us ...

Is this man attracted to his daughter and possibly her friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for two years, we got engaged but his daughter had become jealous and wanted me out of there, so we are no longer engaged. He engages in alot of pornography, and while snooping I came across lots of fantasies about ...

Her lack of support in this situation is making me re-think dating her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

30 November 2013 (M) - HELLO EVERY ONE,well ive been seeing some one for acouple weeks, was ask over to her daughters house for thanksgiven, she lives their. Well every thing was going great, then her daughter ex husband showed up, invited, but with in five minutes he ...

I don't feel comfortable not being wanted around his friends and family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year ive only met his mom once and that was when we first started dating. I've only met 3 of his friends. He won't take me around his mom or his other friends. He always says something like his mom ...

My mom never lets my husband in the house, big deal or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been married for about 6 months now, and my husband has never been to my parents home...ever. We all live in the same city, I've been to his mum's a ton, same with his other family. He's been around my family plenty, but my m...

Am I right to not want to see my mother or her girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 November 2013 (M) - I visited my mother for Thanks Giving. She is 40 years old, still lives with her mother (my birth grandfather and step grandmother raised me). She lives the way she does, mainly because she has an addiction. She is dating a woman that is only 4.5 ...

I have an unhealthy relationship with both of my parents. How can I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - Hey all, I've been dealing with this problem for a very long time and I would like some advice. This is going to be really long but I'm in desperate need for advice asap. Thank you all. I am 18 years old and my parents have been divorced since I...

I cursed her out, we broke up, I want her back, but she's moved on.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

28 November 2013 (M) - I never felt this bad in my life. This is the first time I ever truly loved a girl and the first time I've been genuinely heartbroken. We broke up because I felt she was being cold to me, plus I had no job and I guess the sex wasn't great and I ...

I want to study and have a career but I am scared of the changes I have to make!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - I have this guy in my life i feel for, he is really a nice guy and lives overseas we have met a couple of times, We talk on phone and he likes me too. I want to marry him but he is unstable financially so he wants me to get independent earn on my ...

How do I move past this jealousy? I want to be happy for him but can't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2.5 years. Last summer he broke up with me, we spent 5 weeks with no contact and then decided to meet up again. We chatted for hours and eventually kissed. We talked over all the issues w...

I'm pregnant. Should I leave my Bf? He's addicted to porn, uses weed and now he's cyber cheated.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant and just found out my boyfriend has been messaging a girl he knows on Facebook, suggestive and flirty messages. She suggested they do something sexual, to which he replied "will it be soon?? I can't wait to stay in the room ...

Am I being taken for a mug? Should I be less intrusive? Am I too young to play the 'stepmother' figure? Can my feelings for this man actually get past all of these issues? Should I demand more from life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - Hi, I recently (about six months ago) got with a new boyfriend who has a three year old child. I just want a bit of advise: He moved/ separated from his ex (mum of the child) about ten months ago and moved into his own place. 1. He still ha...

Is she telling me have a hope of saving our marriage or is she just not going to bother whatever I try?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 9 years (6 years married) with my wife. We have five children in which the eldest was from another relationship before ours. We used to live in a three bedroom house which got too small for us to live in, so managed ...

Ex doesn't want to take me to court, but still wants contact - after everything he's done!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - Hi guys. Posted about this on here before. Brief reminder: My ex had our son one day a week, left him in wet clothes, we had a row, then he turned round and said he didn't want to see our son anymore. Afew months ago his latest girlfriend ...

I care about him, but not the way he wants. What are my options?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

24 November 2013 (?) - Hi everyone, There is this guy I've been talking to and we have just been texting back and forth but we have never actually met. He has been coming on strong telling me that he is in love with me and that he wants me in his life. He wants to meet me ...

How can I get my parents to allow me to close the door to my room when my boyfriend comes visiting? We need our privacy!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - Hi all, I have been with my bf for a few months and recently I invited my bf to meet my parents. What irks me is that I am not allowed to close the door when I am alone with him in my room. We don't always on the airconditioner but sometimes we do. ...

Unresolved issues with my father -- should I just forget about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - My parents got divorced when I was around 12 years old. My parents sold their house, and I moved into a new one with my mom and grandma. My dad got his own place and I would spend time there every other weekend. A few years after my father moved ...

Why is fiancee's mother so against us living together?

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

23 November 2013 (M) - Due to my circumstances to save money for a wedding. Her mother doesn't care if we make it or not. Is that fair? My fiancée is afraid to come out of her room to be around her mom. Because her mother caresses her face behind her back like a baby. My ...

My boyfriend is smothering me, while I support him! How can we get back the relationship we used to have?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my partner for little over a year. Prior to our relationship we were very close friends for 5 years. Due to us being friends for so long, we knew each other incredibly well. My partner had a big circle of friends and ...

Boyfriend keeping my children a secret from his family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - I have a huge problem. I have been dating a guy long distance for 2 years. I met his family a while back and I could clearly tell that he had not told them I was divorced, with 2 kids. I didn't make a big deal about it but moving forward, I'm now ...

I don't want to seem too needy or clingy... What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship for the past 7 months. We have had our ups and downs but things are good now. He says he loves me and I love him. I am somewhat insecure about the relationship and we have both had some trust issues because of past ...

Trying to save my marriage. Husband calls me names for having had sexual partners before we met. Help!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 7 years and we have been together for 14. We have 4 children together. Recently, he has told me that he wants to leave me because I had sex with multiple people (a total of 6, including 2 one night stands) ...

What can I do really quickly to improve my skin? I am attending a wedding and I have too many pimples and other issues.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - Hi friends. My problem may sound really silly but I really need some help please. I have a marriage ceremony to attend day after tomorrow and I have soooo many pimples on my forehead. I understand that having pimples is normal but it’s too much and...

Its great that he's a good dad, but I want to feel important too!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years has a 2 year old daughter. I have changed myself to accept this situation and moved past it. But now, when he invites me to hang out with them, i usually don't bc i don't like how it makes me feel around them. And i don't ...

Is this likely to be true? Will I end up alone as a cat woman, with no one who ever wants me? How do I find someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - I can't say this to anybody I know because it really does sounds so pathetic and I know it shouldn't bother me this much.. So I am 18 years old, and I have never had a proper boyfriend (I.e someone I can connect to ect.). And it is starting...

Mom found out I'm no longer a virgin and all hell has broken loose! I don't regard myself as a sl*t, but she now certainly makes me feel like one.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - I'm a 27yr female, a doctor in her fellowship in Mexico. I was virgin till I turned 25, I decided to have sex with my then 6month boyfriend who's still withe me (three years now). We are in a steady and serious relationship, even considering ...

How can I help my son financially without it causing further tension?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

21 November 2013 (M) - 21 November 2013: My 29 year old son has just got himself a good job but he is on 6 months probation before his position is confirmed. He needs a car to get to and from work and has no money to fund the purchase himself. He is unlikely to be able to ...

Why is my fiancée's mother bribing me with gas cards?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

21 November 2013 (M) - Why is my fiancee's mother bribing me with gas cards, when I've put on 6300 miles in the last two months? My fiancee can't drive because of her seizure disorder (though it has been getting more under control recently). We currently live 45 minutes ...

How do I deal with my mother's illness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

20 November 2013 (M) - My mother recently fell ill un-expectedly 3months ago and it has all just hit me all at once in the last few days and I feel really low at the moment and don't know how to deal with it. Any ideas? Thanks for reading. ...

I want to be open with my parents and not hide things but I don't know how to talk to them

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - Well, here goes nothing. I'm 18 years old and I've been dating this guy for a while now and hes wanting to have a baby, along with that I could possibly be pregnant. Right now I am living at home and my parents have no idea I even have a boyfriend. ...

We disagree about money and I'm not sure if I trust him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - hi.I want some advice.Am in a relationship that somehow isnt working out.we both love each other dearly. My bf has parents who dont at all care whether he lives or not. And he is struggling quite a lot.we have been together for almost two years ...

My mom doesn't approve of the man that I love

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - Hi, I am marsha. I am 25 year old graduated last year. I love someone who is younger than me. WE were friends before. I know him past 3 year now. We got close like best friend the end of 3year. Then one fine day he asked me out .. not just dating b...

Not close to anyone in my family and hate feeling so alone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - Hey everyone. I first want to say I appreciate everyone taking their time to read this and give their advice. This is truly a great site. I'm not trying to have a pity party here but this is something I want to get off my chest and maybe even s...

Should I uproot my child to be with this man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - My dilemma is simple. I am a young single mother who has always lived in California. A year ago I met a man from Texas who was here on business but decided to let him have my number and things progressed. Because of business he was here quite a ...

Sister-in-law propositioned me, and I'm tempted ...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (M) - Hi I have a dilemma, I don't get on with my sister in law, she is an obnoxious self centred person, a habitual liar, thief and cannot be trusted even slightly. I have tried in the past to give her the benefit of the doubt but have always had my ...

Guy I messed around with won't leave me alone and friends won't respect my privacy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - I have been friends with "Lisa" since preschool and "Angela" since seventh grade. I was the "good" one of the group, mostly because I had REALLY strict parents (as in, we were only allowed to watch Christian shows/listen to Christian music. We ...

Am I being clingy and controlling? Do I care too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - hi quick question, my boyfriend and i have been together now for 2 years. Whenever time he goes out, whether to his dad's house or out with friends he does not like to tell me and we live together. I find it disrespectful and rude. I compla...

Husband seems to hate my family and culture

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

14 November 2013 (F) - Hi all. I'm in a interracial marriage for 5 years. My husband is Chinese. Ever since our 2 sons were born, I felt that my husband hates my family even more. I can feel his negative energy when I talked to my family specially my mom. He will mock my ...

She lies to me a lot. It's confusing me. Can I trust her? Is there a future for us together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (M) - I am stuck and confused. Should I leave my long distance girlfriend of 7 months? So here my story goes.. I like and love this girl a lot, as we were classmates earlier for a year then she took admission somewhere and me somewhere else. We ...

Divorced in law dating relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

14 November 2013 (F) - I'm falling in love with this guy. It is an odd situation, he is my x husbands sister's x husband. We maintained a respectful friendship for many years, I admit I was attracted to him for many years but I never flirted and he never did either. Our ...

My marriage is old, and I need advice!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

13 November 2013 (F) - I'm 53, hubby is 66! We have not spoke to each other for several days! Even though we live in the same house and sleep in the same bed!We have grown children and grandchildren. He has no care for his family but would do anything in his power for a ...

I'm tired of paying for her daughter's clothes!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

13 November 2013 (M) - Ok, my girlfriend and I have been with each other for 10 months but are not living together. She has a 11 year old daughter from a previous marriage living with her. When she takes her daughter with us shopping I'm expected to pay. When I complain ...

How much does the family need to know about my relationship with a second cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (M) - When I was younger, my second cousin and I were involved in a physical relationship. When I was 11 and she was 10, we would play doctor and we also started making at that age. When we were older (I was 14 and she was 13), we started having sex. This ...

Help me to help my teens

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

12 November 2013 (M) - This question is directed to teenagers 13-17. It has to do with romantic relationships and with relationships with your parents. Any help is appreciated. My son aged 15 met a wonderful girl this past summer. I really like her and hope that thi...

The ex came back and he has changed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) - Hello I need some help in my relationship! We have been together for 3 years and were engaged but things are going down heal. He has two kids with another women, his ex just got out of prison for drug charges and since she got out she has been ...

I'm hurt he ignored me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) - Hi OK so i just don't know what to do in this situation and who's right and wrong really. :/ I was seeing my boyfriend for 5 months. We started off lovely, then after about a month he backed off and said he wanted to take it slow. I respec...

He has become so self-centered that I'm crying every night!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

11 November 2013 (F) - My current situation is that I live with my boyfriend and my son from my previous relationship. He is great with my son and we get along really well the only thing that is bothering me is that he seems to think time with my son and me is our time ...

Should I cut him out of our lives so I can start feeling better again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - Hi. So I had a best friend of 6yrs, we decided to try a relationship late last year. The pill failed me and I fell pregnant barely 2 months into the relationship. We were both very shocked, he wanted me to abort but I couldn't and didn't so he ...