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Archived questions from: June, 2012 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

He left his wife for me but misses his children

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I fell in love with a married man. We are right for each other. He left his wife and children and moved in with me, but told his wife it was a trial separationn and she has no clue what he has been doing. Now a few months in, he has become depre...

He can't understand I am grieving and sex is the last thing on my mind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - The past six months my Grandfather has been fighting a deadly diease. I was there with him. First 4 months he was at home, so I took the role of nursing him completely. Past 2 months he has been in hospice, and it has been the HARDEST journey for ...

Do I leave the man I love and return to a life I hate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I need some help with a choice i have to make. I have no idea what to do so please help me. I had a boyfriend for a year and a half. Lets call him X. We were really close. I moved in with him and his family because i was having trouble at home....

He usually ignores me, I don't understand him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - OK first of all, I'm a Muslim girl. Now I have a crush on this other Muslim guy I know. He comes to these classes my dad teaches. He always completely ignores me. He never wants to sit next to me ever. I also see him in school everyday, and he ...

I never get a break from him bitching at me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I don't even know where to begin. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years in December. We have a 6 month old together and are living together. I'm constantly trying to make him happy. He's VERY OCD, so I try my best to keep the house clean, ...

I kissed a female friend and am now questioning the future I thought I had

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 8 years. We just got engage last year; however our relationship have always been a roller coaster. We have a lot of problems; mainly trust issues. I have found condom with him on several occasions, and his ...

HELP! I think my boyfriend's brother has a crush on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 7 months and I love him so much! But we went on a date recently and his younger brother and friend dropped us off. No biggy. That's normal. The real problem was when his brother picked us back up. I was ...

It felt like things were getting back to normal ... but they weren't!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - Hello Everybody, Don't know if this is the right place for this, but here goes... I am now 33 years of age and I was with my long term partner for 9 years. Our relationship, I thought, was good. It had its ups and downs like any relation...

All my mother does is critizise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - My mother is starting to really depress me. I am an emotional person and all she does is argue with me because of my boyfriend. She swears i pick him over her, when in reality all she does is pick fights with us. She stays assuming things and it ...

My younger brother is getting married while I have yet to have ANY woman be romantically or sexually interested in me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - I'm 29, my brother is 26 and he recently proposed to his girlfriend. I am very happy for them both, but also jealous. I have yet to have ANY woman be romantically or sexually interested in me and I don't have the guts to put myself out there...

I got a friend to test him and now he has shut me out!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - i feel really bad, my on off partner of 18 years and i were in the process of what i thought trying to work things out. he has always been there for me until i messed up, i played a silly trick on him and now its kind of back fired and he refuses to ...

Money and an inheritance is tearing my family apart. How can this be stopped? People are turning on each other in my family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I have a large family of brothers and sisters and both parents. Everyone outside thinks we are really close and get along but we dont. Lately a relation passed away they left all their possessions to half my family who only went to see them whe...

I lied to her but I never cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - After over 2 years together we hit the biggest of all speedbumps. I was caught texting a girl I used to hook up with. The messages were never out of line, on her birthday and mine we talked a bit. Than my now ex was going to send her a nasty ...

Can my low self esteem and feelings of worthlessness stem from not being emotionally supported as a child by my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - This is kind of a relationship question, about family relationships. Basically i have a difficult family situation. I feel like I have to help, because there are a lot of emotional struggles going on, but I am extremely drained. I love my family b...

Would it be rude to ask for gift cards instead of gifts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - This is not a relationship question but I am curious. My daughters first birthday is next month and we plan on keeping it simple inviting family and a few close family friends. Now I know usually people buy clothes or toys for gifts and I'm wonderin...

Boyfriend is under stress and being grumpy and short tempered. How can I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4559 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hey guys i really need your help i feel like im going crazy. Well tomarrow is me and my bf one year anniversery and i love him so much. The problem is he lives with his ucle and his uncle is the meanest and rudest person i have ever met. His uncle ...

Girlfriend treats her grown children with "kid gloves" but stomps all over me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - I have been in a great relationship with a lovely and wonderful woman for 2 years. We love each other very much, have just bought a house together and are engaged and plan to be married next year. Here is our problem. She has three adult ...

Can I endure my hellish future in-laws? Is it worth it? Could he do more to protect me from their malice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hi there, hoping someone can help me... Got engaged about a year ago to X...love him to bits, I've never felt so comfortable or happy with someone. However,his family... is a different story. I'll start off mentioning that his parents spli...

Guilty of leaving my wife and son for my mistress! What should I do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - This is a tough one. I been separated from my wife of 10 years for 9 months now. We have a loving 2 year old boy. The reason for the separation is because I fell in love with my mistress. I been living with her now and we now have a relationship ...

He is a good man but his constant money issues have eroded our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - I was or am involved with a man with 2 children and we were very compatible and enjoyed our times together, but he has a lot of problems with his ex and demands for extra money (divorced 5 years, he pays his maintenance on time and always gives ...

The way he asked for money made me feel like an outsider, like an cash machine

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. I hope you can help me get some perspective. My boyfriend of 2 years asked me to lend him some money,just to get him through the week til payday. I helped him out, and he told me afterwards it was because he had to pay an unexpected ...

After five years we just don't talk about 'us' anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - Hello. This may become a bit longer post, I am sorry for this. Help is needed because I'm 26, and I must start to figure out what I'm gonna do with my personal life If I am to do anything at all. Excuse my bad english. Five years ago I had a cl...

We never have any time to ourselves and I am desperate for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - Hey what's goin on. I need a bit of advice. I'm in a relationship with a little more of a couple years and a half. We both are 18 "high school sweethearts" you may think. But I was wondering if it's normal for an 18 year old to have urges and ...

I know I care too much about what others think of me. How do I stop caring about other people's opinions of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - Hello people :) this will be a slightly odd question to ask, but how do I stop caring about other people's opinions of me? I have become a much more confident person since leaving home and in the main am comfortable with who I am, who my friends are ...

Why would he go away so far, with a woman 24 years younger? And leave his devoted loving wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - so i know this is out there a lot but my husband left me for a younger girl 24 years younger. they are living together oh and she has a 2 year old. Anyway just wanted to know if anyone could shed light on why he would leave a good wife that woul...

I want to marry Bobby someday, but I don't want to rush into anything. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Hi there everyone. I haven't posted on here for quite a long time, so I apologise if I'm a bit rusty. To make a long story short, I'll just say my family is unstable to the point where they can hardly take care of me in the basic sense. I have bee...

I'm attracted to my Cousin, help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (M) - Really stuck....My cousin is really pretty. Since we were young we had a sexual attraction to one another. We understood each other and were sort of like siblings. We did that sort of I'll show you yours you show me mine. And we even kissed as ...

My father abused me as a child, do I try to talk to my parents about it again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - I have a complicated situation. Without going into too much detail; my father sexually abused me as a child. I told my mother and together they shrugged it off saying I was lying / it was a dream. It was never spoken of again. Fast forward 1...

How do I help my bipolar husband realize he loves and misses me and his family?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - My husband is bipolar and has left his family including me (his wife) 3 children from me and 2 from his first marriage. He has taken off to another province to go to a friends. He says he is not coming back and he can't be with me anymore. He has a ...

My mom breastfeeds my brother in public and I hate it!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (M) - I hate it when my mom breastfeeds my baby brother in public. What should I do? She has done it several times. Why the hell would she wanna do it in public? She's crazy. It embarrasses the hell out of me. It's also disgusting. Is there a way I ca...

They Like Him, But Won't Let Us Date.. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - Please help me. There is this guy I have fallen for. I am just about 18, and he is 20. He is 2 and a half years older than me almost exactly. My parents love him and think he is a sweetheart. But they won't let me date him. Their reasons: he is too ...

Marriage makes sense because of my military situation, but my parents won't approve

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

25 June 2012 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have a somewhat unique problem. We have been going out for roughly 8 months now, and dated a few years ago for about a month. We were good friends in between those years. I am in the military and we have been dealing with the ...

I've been helping my pregnant sister and she treats me like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - My life is in such a whirlwind, but i think my biggest thing is my family. My younger sister is currently pregnant and her boyfriend is a complete swine, he didnt even want the baby and i was the one that took the support role for her. I have h...

My brother's new girlfriend is flirting with me.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

25 June 2012 (M) - My brother started dating a new girl a few months ago. He met her through an online dating site. I don't know how serious he is about her as he just got out of a long-term relationship (he was engaged) prior to meeting her. Likewise, I don't kn...

My fiance's ex wife got to sit with his family at the funeral, and wore her wedding ring that day! Am I right to be hurt by this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I don't know what to think of this and would like opinions. My fiance's father died in Jan. Both his ex-wife and I attended the funeral and we were both civil. I was a little hurt by the fact that his ex deposited herself squarely in the front row ...

My Mother seems obsessed about trying to break up my brother's relationship with his Gf. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - ok my question is in regards to my brother and my mom. My brother A has always been a mamas boy and she has ALWAYS been obsessed with him and in his business. A is the dream kid, has always just let her be her over bearing self and smiled and s...

He 'doesn't know what to do,' now that his wife does not want a Divorce. What should I do about my Bf''s response to his wife's edict?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - My boyfriend's ex wife has said she still loves him and doesn't want a divorce. We have been together for 18 months and are very much in love but now he said he 'doesn't know what to do.' He was married for 30 years and still feels guilty about hi...

Should I just settle for being his friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - Hi! I havr gotten in to a quite strange and difficult situation. About 3-4 months ago I met my big brother's girlfriend's little brother at a bar. We were talking for ours and had so much fun getting to know each other. We later exchanged phone ...

Unsettling relationship with boyfriend's daughter

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for six years, he has a 11 year old daughter who i feel doesnt want me around. Although she does speak to me when i am not there she moves my things , puts my shoes in piles etc. When she sees me cleaning or rearranging ...

Should I tell him I used to work as an escourt? How do I get over my intimacy issues?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

23 June 2012 (F) - Background: I am 22 years old and am just graduating with a university degree and am going on to get my masters. When I was 18 and in my first year of university I was having some financial problems because I found out that I did not qualify for ...

How do I convince my parents to accept my boyfriend and allow me to marry him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - I have been in a committed relationship for almost 2 years now. I live in India and my parents are pretty strict About religion and caste stuff. The guy i love is from a different religion and lower social status. I told my parents abut us 6 months ...

How do I handle insulting people who think I look too young to be a Mother? I'm twenty six.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I was just wondering how people in a similar situation deal with this I have a son who is 4 later this year. I had him when I was 22. My partner left me when I told him I was pregnant but I look very young for my age even though I am 26 ...

Should I end this long-term relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - Should I end this long-term relationship My boyfriend of 13 years has a camp on the water where he lives all summer. He has a boat as well and when he goes out on it he always goes to this abandoned state park beach where anybody and everybod...

Am I too jealous to be a mum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - Hi there aunts and uncles I am back again!! I really need your help to save my relationship from myself. My partner just bought me the most beautiful puppy to keep me company (although I work 45 hours pw) I was getting bery broody and needed someone ...

How do I tell the man I love the awful truth about my past?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - When I was 12, I found out that I was the unfortunate result of my mother's adultery. My "dad" was disappointed and extremely disturbed by it. Growing up I had always felt different and I was never given the love I felt my 2 half sisters were and it ...

Who do I choose, my partner or my family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - hello, i love my partner dearly but he lives away from me and i am with my family at the moment. my partner has asked me to move with him but im torn. i love being with my family and i know i would miss them a lot, especially since i would not...

My husband always brings his daughter into our conversations, what should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - I love my husband and my step-daughter. The problem I'm having is that when me and my husband get into adult conversations, he always feels the need to bring his daughter into the conversation to get her opinion, mainly when he is trying to prove ...

How do I tell my brother and father I don't want to go into business with them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

21 June 2012 (M) - My father and brother are planning on starting a family business and they want me to be involve. The problem is that I do not want to be part of their business. What is the best way to tell them I do not want to go into business with them? I lo...

I accidentally found out that my daughter in law & family do not like me. What do I do now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

20 June 2012 (F) - This afternoon I had my 10 year old grandson (my son's son)and I took a wrong turn in the car at a junction. He panicked thinking we were going to his other grannys (his mum's mum). On gently questioning him he told me that it would be a bad idea ...

My wife's ex-sister in law is flirting with me, how do I find out if she wants to take this to the next level? Or should I remain faithful despite not getting any sex from my wife?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

20 June 2012 (M) - Dear Cupid I only have been married for 5 years now (I got married when I was 50) I figured I only wanted to get married once in my life. I wanted to grow old with someone I loved. When I was younger I was wild child. I had a diffrent g...