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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Can a relationship work if both of you alienate your entire family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (M) - One question....Can a relationship survive/work if you alienate your entire family on both sides?? Anyone been in the situation where you have been in a relationship and your entire family are against you?...

My inlaws hate me I've never done anything to them, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Since I found out my SIL is moving closer to us my anxiety is outta control. We moved states away from the Inls and I was so relieved for years. My Inls hate me they do not do anything for our son. My husband has stood his ground to these people ...

My son is taking after his aggressive father. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (?) - I have a son who will be turning 4 at the beginning of September. He is a sweet little boy and loves giving hugs and being silly; however he is very agressive the past few months. He primarily likes playing alone, occassionally he enjoys playing ...

My boyfriend's sister is acting all jealous of him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriends sister has just started acting weird. When i first started dating him she wasn't that jealous of him spending time with me. Now that my boyfriend trys to see me 2 times a week she doesnt like to be around me and i told my boyfriend of ...

Second-rate sex life, caused by my new found self esteem issues, or is it him? What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hey Aunts, I'm currently with a guy who is almost perfect. Caring, respectful, extremely nice, cute... just one problem. We've been together almost two years and aren't very sexual. Some of it comes from me, because we were friends first and while ...

Family chains are weighing me down. I want to break them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I am a delimma..and living like this just makes my life that much more miserable..I want to wake up everyday feeling good about what I am doing but I don't,its more like a burden something I am forced to do..I am currently in med scho...

Will I have to pay maintenance for my fiance’s children from his previous marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Does anyone know if I will have to pay maintenance for my fiance’s children from his previous marriage (my future stepchildren) if we divorce and I have to pay him maintenance for whatever reason? The children live with their mother. My fiancé p...

My husband is critical, threatens to leave our extended family and I don't work and now feel trapped. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 22 years. He is very critical of just about everything I do. He tells me he loves me and wants to do everything with me. He is constantly accusing me of having affairs. We are a blended family with 5 children, ...

Empty nester thought she found the one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I met a nice guy almost 2 1/2 years ago. We are both 46. I have been divorced about 16 years. He was just getting a divorce when I met him on yahoo personals. This was his second divorce. I asked him at the time if he needed time to sew his wild ...

My GF is spending time with her ex, how should I handle it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - My girlfriend met up with her ex at Glastonbury! I am having a really hard time getting my head round this and am wondering if this is the beginning of the end. My girlfriend of nearly 5 months has an ex who she finished with in Sep 10 who ...

Please helppp! should I try to save my relationship or ended?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now. He is 36 years old and I'm 20. At the Beginning of our relationship everything was perfect, we used to go out to dinner, watch movies, go for walks at the park. We had our issues along in the ...

Depression has gotten worse now that my BF has broken up with me, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has broken up with me, because I recently I have been stuck in a depressive episode, due to a load of family crap with my parents. Over the last 2 years I have had 2 nervous breakdowns, 8 different anti-depressants, counsell...

How can I find my father who my mother tried in every way to exclude from my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I am a female, 46 years old, married with own family. I have a very weird relationship with my birth mother who refuses to discuss anything about my father to whom she was married to. As far as I can remember as a young child my mother's ...

His parents are driving us apart! How can I get them to like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - How do I make my boyfriend's parents like me? My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 1/2 months now, I'm really happy in the relationship, but I think his family is going to tear us apart. His family are all nice people, they really are, but his ...

Any chance that he’ll come back around? What did I do wrong in the situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Two years ago I started dating a man who is a single father. I have no children. He has full custody of his now 16yr old daughter and one year ago, found out he is also the father of a two year old son. (The mother located him 1.5yrs after the child ...

Any advice for helping my rebellious sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, this is probably gonna be a very loooong mail, but please bare with me...i need help and advice urgently! Im 22years old, the eldest of 3daughters. My sister next to me(Sonia*), is 20yrs old. We grew up in a christian home, my father ...

Will he ever be nice to me? How do I get my husband to respect me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4807 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I Have been married for nearly 40 years. I married when very young. How can i get my husband to respect me? I have 2 children. The first left when he was 16 as he saw a lot going on here. The 2nd my husband loves very much. I have helped him to do ...

My fiance's sisters think they're going to be bridesmaids at my wedding but I don't want them to be! How do I tell them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - How can I tell my fiance's sisters that they're not gonna be bridesmaids at MY wedding?! They think they are!...

What should I do? My boyfriend's sister is always bitchy towards me no matter how I try to make it work with her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I am sick and tired of my boyfriends sister! She's a complete bitch! She is the youngest one and it just drives me crazy that we argue about her because she is constantly complaining about me and I dont know what to do anymore!? She never talks to ...

Are all men like this? He says I make it too obvious we are dating when we are out togther. My parents don't like him either.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - hey. ok here goes. i have this bf for almost a year and i love him a lot, my parents do not want me to have anything to do with him cause he's from a different country to mine and they do not trust people from his country. They say they are all bad,...

I want to be a proper family but he can't commit!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I want to be a proper family but he cant commit. My partner and i have been together 7yrs, we have 2 young kids who are 6 and 3. The problem is we have never lived together properly. My kids behaviour isnt good and i blame this situation for it. He ...

Did I make the right move or is it time to leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - This is the second time I have moved for a man to another state that I have met through the internet. It's a very complicated situation for me. I have a low self esteem and I am so insecure. My boyfriend has a 16 yr. old son that he sees every other ...

How can I keep everybody happy ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I'm getting frustrated and need some help! I'm a sophomore in college and live at home even though I desperately want to move out. I can't study well here because my younger brothers are always loud and disregard me. My parents work a lot and I feel ...

I want to marry him but not his kids!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend hugely and we are engaged to be married. He has two children from a previous relationship ,5 and 4. Though the children are relatively well behaved and love me I find it really difficult to accept. I never want children (though i ...

My boyfriend has changed his mind about keeping the baby, and now he and his family are ganging up on me forcing me to have an abortion!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and his parents are 'forcing' me into an abortion but i dont want to go through with it. what should i do? im 17 years old and im 5 weeks pregnant. my boyfriend told his parents i may be pregnant before we even knew. when i found out...

Family drama!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Okay. I am having so many family issues its driving me nuts. My husband (30) and I (34)try to just keep too ourselves and the DRAMA still comes to us. We have had out times of adding to family drama because of our own marital issues that we turned ...

Ethnicity Problems

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - I am a 16 year old boy. I have a big problem with my ethnicity/background. I was born in Sweden and lived there for a few years, my mother is Swedish, then I moved to Canada. My father is Nigerian-African. However, I have a much closer connection to ...

Is this enough of an apology or should I do more to show him I was just really stressed and upset last week?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - I've been in cross-cultural, cross-religious, cross-everything relationship for the past 2 years! I'm 27, my boyfriend is 33. We live 80 miles apart and have been seeing each other about every 2 weeks lately. Our relationship has been tough with ...

Getting mixed signals from a guy I like, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

26 June 2011 (?) - I have recently become good friends with a guy that I met through my brother's girlfriend. He told my brother's girlfriend he didn't like me but changed his mind a week later saying he was too scared to ask me out. We hangout out at my flat almost ...

Boyfriend and I are very level headed but our families don't think so

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are very much in love. We obviously are inseparable but our families don't see it that way. They see the two year age difference and not the wonderful relationship we have. His family thinks I'm going to ,not purposely, not w...

Is there any hope for this relationship or is Gambling Addiction the real problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently broke up over some confusing circumstances. Background : We had been together just over a year, I am 28 he is almost 24. After first meeting we were together practically 24/7 and we were very happy. 7 Months into the ...

He doesn't trust me and I don't know what to do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - Ok, so I feel like I have a little dilemma here. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. We have known who each other was for over 10 years now, but ran into each other again last year and started dating. We are both divorced, ...

I hate his family like they hate me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - hi. im abou to moan abou tmy boyfriends family cos im so nice like they are too me :) basically me and my boyfriend have been going out for ages and he has 2 sisters and a brother. his brother is fine i guess its just his finace! my boyf...

How would you handle it if your mother hated your girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - i just have a question for all the men on here, if you dating a women who you really love and plan to marry and spend the rest of your life with her but your mother doesnt like her and because of that issue that she doesnt like your girlfriend, she ...

My husnband sucks my breasts in his sleep

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

25 June 2011 (?) - hello i have a doubt, my husband and i used to sleep naked at night, every thing is perfect, but in sleep he use to suckle my boobs, like baby, i suddenly woke up and asked whats wrong, he tells i am sorry, after a while he again starts sucking,...

My jealous brother is try to break up my family. How can I stop him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

25 June 2011 (M) - my question is how can i keep my jealous brother away from me and my family. He is trying to break use apart? ...

Should I risk quitting my government job for a boyfriend who I haven't ever met in person?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 18 months now. We met online on facebook and started it out by being friends. I know it kinda makes no sense coz we live a world apart and never seen each other in person before. B...

My BF doesn't want to go for my niece's christening and doesn't want me to go either. If I do, he would break up with me. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - What would you do if you were me? Hello. Some advice please. I come from a very close family and we are not religious at all. My sister however has decided to get my niece christened. When my boyfriend found out about this he was totally against ...

Somebody is 'planting' panties

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - My wife recently discovered a pair of panties which were obviously planted by (we suspect) during a recent visit by an envious/jealous guests (younger adult neice). Luckily, my wife knows I had nothing to do with the matter. Any suggestions on how ...

My boyfriend is moving away and wont be coming back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months already were heading to 7. Im 15 and so is he. Everything was going well, until he told me he was moving away . Hes about 8 hours away from me. I love him so much ; he says he doesnt want to ...

How do I get the girl I love to give me another chance?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - I want her back! I was with this girl for 2.5 years. Asked her to marry me and planned on moving in together. Then one night we got into an argument. After that she Erased all my pics on her Facebook her parents un-friended me, and then the next ...

He tells me that I am not a good wife or mother! I don't think I can go on like this anymore, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - This have been bothering me for quite sometime now. My husband and me used to have very good relationship. I always take care of him when his home even though I'm already tired from work I make it a point to cook and give time to him and our five ...

My dad abandoned his family for my mother and I, will his sons hate me for this reason?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

24 June 2011 (?) - When my mom was 13, she used to babysit this guy's kids that live in her apartment complex, and...she fell in love the guy. Unfortunatly he was married with two boys. He ended up moving away, my mom turned 17- got pregnant, by 18 she got married to ...

I want to date this girl but how do I get past her overprotective mom?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - There's this girl, we want to date. or not even date, its just we are so insanely happy when we are together... i told her i hate people like us because when youre over on the other side of the room, and you look, it just makes you sick how happy we ...

Why doesn't my boyfriend feel the same way I do about living together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - My mother hasn't spoken to me in four months and last night, started laying into me, saying she wanted an apology. The fight went like this: she insulted me.. I was hurt.. I told her to back off and leave me alone.. she wants an apology for the ...

How do I end things with my boyfriend without breaking his heart?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4567 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - Hi, I really need some advice. I think I want to end it with my boyfriend of 2 months. I dont think we are right for each other. However, it breaks my heart as he is the sweetest creature in the world. I just think the only thing that brought us ...

Why can't my mom trust me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - Why can't my mom trust me? I'm 14, about to go into high school. My best friend has invited me to go to her beach house with her and her family. My parents said I could go, so I immediately started packing. I packed most of my clothes (the others ...

My two boys love their stepmother but hate the idea she is pregnant with my baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

23 June 2011 (M) - Hi there, i was a single father for 8 years rared two kids by myself mother isnt in the picture then i met the love of life the kids love her too! and we all have a blast! We are having our first baby together its due in september .Well at first ...

How do I prepare for this family life after my wedding?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - Please i really need advice most especially frm the married ones. Am planning for my marriage soon, but wat is giving me sleepless nite is that afta marriage we will be staying in a family house, were all his sisters nd brothers are stayin and the ...

Helpless in love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - Hello, Well it was 2 years back when me and my boyfriend met. We were in love. After 3 months he told me he can not be with me coz his dad got to know about us and he can not go against his parents. He asked me to leave him and live without him. I t...