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36-40,
*recious jewel
writes:Please i really need advice most especially frm the married ones. Am planning for my marriage soon, but wat is giving me sleepless nite is that afta marriage we will be staying in a family house, were all his sisters nd brothers are stayin and the parents comes there afta every 2days. Pls advice
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (24 June 2011):
i would maybe suggest to your husband maybe after the wedding how you are feeling very uncomfortable with the situation and maybe suggest getting a place of your own as it is very important after marriage to have quality time alone hope this helps
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 June 2011):
 This is a tricky situation. I am a firm believer that after you get married to somebody you both need to spend some quality time alone together. Is there no other place that you can go to other than the family home? Could you both not maybe rent out a little house or flat and at least then you will both have your own space.
Honestly it will be very hard for you to adjust to life living with all of the family. Therefore talk to your husband to be and tell him how you are feeling try to see if there are other options and if there isn't well then I guess you will just need to try your best to fit in and make sure that you and your husband spend time together alone away from the family.
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