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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My girlfriends mom is so hot!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - Hey guys im 26 and my gf is 20. we have a baby together and everything is good. but the problem is her mom is 36 and is SO HOT. i mean hot hot hot hot! what do i do?? i stare at her constantly when im over her house. im trying not to get into creep ...

My girlfriend hates my mother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - Hey everybody, Well here it goes. I currently been with my gf for 3 years now and we have had a ton of ups and downs. In my opinion high school drama. But we had a kid together shes the best thing that ever happened to me. shes 17 months now and j...

My insecurities about his ex wife are causing problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend who has 2 sons ages 19 and 25. I have moved in to their home with my son age 25. As far as our living situation everything is working out just fine. I am having trouble accepting the fact that the ex-wife (Mother of the ...

I'm going out with my step-mums grandson, is this right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I have just started going out with my step-mums grandson he is 14 and im 13 but i dont know if it is right or not we're not blood related so that doesnt matter but i dont know wheather its right or not help me please!...

I just want my Mom back the way she used to be! Help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hi! I've already sent in a plea for help a few months back. I got wonderful feedback, but I'm still having trouble. This has something to do with my mom. This is a really hard topic for me, and I apologize in advance if I write a lot. I just want to ...

Her Mom dislikes me...should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I've fallen in love with this girl that I enjoy spending timw with, and when I asked her out to homecoming she said yes. The problem I'm having is that her mom hates me for being "lazy" (when ever senice i knew that i loved her i've been trying my ...

I don't want my sister inlaw and brother in my life anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - 2 months ago my 9 year old nephew was bugging me to come down my home so i just said yes without figuring out my bills Iwas supposed to pick him up 2 weeks later but never did do to my mortgage being due .My sisterr in law had a fit and hasnt spoke ...

Are we cousins?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - ok so my mom married this guy had two kids then had me with another guy right? so he was my step dad then he died so would his sisters kids still b my cousins? ...

I think my very conservative mother found my vibrator!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Hi everyone! I used to live with my extremely conservative mother, but last year I decided to move to my mother's empty loft. She agreed because the alternative was to live farther to where she lives and we like spending time together every other da...

My mother's promiscuity is influencing my life and my sisters' lives!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I live with my mother and younger sisters who are sixteen and fourteen. My parents divorced when we were young but I am the only one who remembers a time where dad lived with us. My mom is truly promiscious that it borderlines prostitution. Sh...

Help with the family tree?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - im seeing this guy but im confused... my mum has a half brother called mich and he has a cousin called guy, guy has a cousin called zak. if zak is cousins with guy and guy is cousins with my mums half brother mich does that make me and...

How can I reconnect with my father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Hi. I am here because i'm just so confused. When I was about 6, my dad left my mom me and my two older sisters. Before I was even born they were fighting. When I was a kid I was so happy when my dad would come home from work, I would always run up ...

I am not sure how to tell my parents about my 10 years older than me boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Okay this is going to sound odd at first but im 19 and my bf is 29. I will be 20 next month. He just turned 29. I am not one for age if its reasonable like this....but how am I suppose to tell my parents? I dont want them to judge me or him....

Should I tell my parents about my secret boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - okay i am going to uni next week and i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years my paretns don't know i havent told them because there is a 9 year age gap i am 18 he is almost 28 we are in love but iam wondering if i shold decide to tell my ...

I'm not his mom! How can I get him to see that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - How can I make my boyfriend realise that his mum is trying to paint me as her, because my boyfriend has never loved before till he met me, didn't want to move from the area he lived before, didn't want to share a house. Now he is, and she can see he ...

My dad had an affair and now I hate him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - my dad cheated on my mum and they separated. now hes still with the girl but i hate her. i only met her once and i didnt know they were going out then. now he keeps trying to get my 10 year old sister to go out with them all because he knows shes ...

Does the pain ever go away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Hi, This may not be the right place for my Q but I thought I'd ask it anyway. My father very suddenly collapsed and died in my arms over 20 yrs ago although it feels like yesterday. Each year on the anniversary of his death (today) I a...

My boyfriend seems to be choosing his child with his ex over our child!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has two kids, one by me and one by his ex. his ex decided to move to another state now he wants to drop our home and jobs that supports our child to hang out with his other son can you help?...

Would it be selfish of me to have another child without being in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - i am a single mother and i have a gorgeous 3 year old son. For the past year i have been wanting another baby but i don't want to be in a relationship. I'm happy being on my own. Would it be selfish of me to have another child?...

Is it fair to eject people from your life who don't mind their own business?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - I know that no-one's perfect, but I have lost a lot of friends lately because I can't stand people who stick their nose in my business. They try to manipulate me. Is it fair to eject people from your life who can't mind their own business? I kn...

My boyfriend says he doesn't want to get married or have kids. Will he ever change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend says he doesn't want to get married or have kids. We about 19 which isnt a big deal yet, but we have been together for 6 years. Should i expect his answer of marriage and kids to stay the same, or do you think he will ever change his ...

We can not go on like this... right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I have been dating a separated man for over a year. We knew each other casually for 3 years prior to dating. He asked me to lunch one day and told me he was divorcing and suggested we go out. I reluctantly began dating him, although I clearly ...

Should I move into my girlfriend's parents' house?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - I'm 22 and still live at home (and dont pay rent). My parents broke up a year ago, and i live with my dad. My dad started seeing another women about 10 months ago, and he hasnt introduced us yet. Sometimes she'll stay overnight, but my dad will ...

Horny for my brother in law!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Hi I am a 31 year old married guy. Successful carreer, beautiful loving wife and gorgeous 2 kids - whatever I do circles around them. I have known my wife since we were 15 - we were each other's first love and no one ever got between us. However, I ...

Embarrassed by my older boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a guy who is 16 years older than me for over a year, but I feel really ashamed. I dont want him to meet any of my family because I'm embarrassed of him, and the few people we have told are wondering why I am with him. It's making me ...

He has to choose... the parents, or me!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, and we really love each other, but his parents have suddenly decided i'm not welcome at their house anymore and they really hate me. I thought all along that they didn't like me cos they think i'm ...

Why can't he just treat me like the woman I am???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I am 40 years old but my cousin, who is 42, treats me like a child. He never discusses any serious issues with me, about the family or anything else. I am often surprised when my mother tells me interesting things that he has told her. A few years ...

He left me for my cousin!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for quite a while. But we recently broke up because he left me for my cousin! turns out he heard rumors of me and he believed them so as a "revenge" he dated my cousin. he swears he loves me and will never do that again. ...

Conflicting advice on how to deal with my addict children

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Im in a great confusion about my part as a parent in my 2 addicted sons life. It is becoming a turmoil to me.The story started 10 years ago, when they both were teenagers. And the confusions too.So long story short, they were good kids, but some ...

My parents think the sooner I'm gone the better

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - my parents seem to hate me. i mean some times are really good and i really love them but others they just seem to hate me. i always argue with my mum and she always gets me down. according to her i can't do anything right. 'i'm fat, i am stupid' ...

Relationship with a third cousin.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - can you have kids with your third cousin? is it alright to date your third cousin?...

Obsessed with my best friend - need some help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Hi there, I'm new to the forum so not sure whether this is the right place. Hope so! I'm currently a student and feeling pretty low at the moment. I'm a 19yr guy and bisexual. Even though I feel "safe" behind a computer screen it feels hard to ev...

Why do family members and relatives interrogate me just because I don't want kids?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Hi everyone. I've noticed that when someone does not want to have kids, everyone interrogates them. They demand answers. But when someone does want to have kids, no-one interrogates them! How does that work? It sounds like discrimination to me...

We are thinking about marriage but I have a few problems, can anyone advise me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - hello to all, this story is quite long. but please read it and advice. i am 16 currently. i am in a relation with someone. the problem is that i feel he is opposing too much on me though he loves me very much. am actually the 3rd girl in his life...

My kids hope their father will come back; how do I introduce the new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Been living with my live in partner for more than 6 yrs, we have 2 kids.He works abroad and i found out that he has other woman there.We separated for only a year and i start moving on.I have a boyfriend and he wants to meet my kids.Is it ok if i ...

My parents caught us having sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - So last night me and my boyfriend John(I'm gay) were hanging out in the lounge room at my house. We were having a great time watching one our favorite shows:Glee. Throughout the whole show he would touch me, rub my belly and do all these cutesy ...

My asian girlfriend hides me from her family

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - I have a problem with my girlfriend and its really making me frustrated and confused. We have been together for four months now, i'm white and shes asian. I have brought her around my entire family and introduced her to all of my closest friends. ...

I'm in love with my sister-in-law's brother and everyone in my family is against it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - hey, i am 17 and i am HEAD OVER HEELS in love with this guy thats 24 and he tells me that he is MADLY in love with me but....my ENTIRE family is against him he is my brothers wifes brother and omg he is amazing...he has a gf that is a couple months ...

He's been in juvi, but we really care about each other!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hi, well I dont really know what to do. My boyfriend is what you would call a "juvinille delinquent" I guess. But i love him soo much! My parents dont approve because now he is in juvi. We've had sex alot and I really care about him. I know he would ...

In love with my cousin: Love or Lust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - i am deeply in love with cousin. i am 16 and he is 21. he also is in love with me. however our family does not yet know about that. i believe that we are one of the most perfect couple as we barely have fights. in fact our likings is so similar that ...

My sister hooked us up, why won't he call now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hey guys just wondering if anyone can shed some light on this situation as i am going crazy thinking about it... right so my older sister is in a theatre production and asked me and my cuzine to come and watch it and we did... now there was this ...

Pathetic cheater (posters own title)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - Hello Ladies, I guess I am looking for your advise. Would you want to know? I caught my sister inlaws husband cheating. I have to work with him in a family business. He is a senior member of his church and the person he is cheating with was once the...

Caught between my father and my boyfriend who are both strong willed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I and my boyfriend seeing eachother from last 3 years. i am 25 and he is 26. my parents wanted me to marry now as its my right age to get married. so i told them about my boyfriend, who is from culture. as i am north indian and he is a south indian, ...

My girlfriend's kids were fine ... until I saw an old picture of her ex and now I feel cheated!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - Im 29 and shes 27, her kids are 2 and 5. We've been going out for about a year, just recently i saw some old pics of her kids, herself and her ex, they were never married... I saw some pics of them playing in the park and christining ... ...

I don't understand why he would cheat on his new girlfriend with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hi I was in a relationship for 6 years with the father of my 2 year old girl. We split up last July through his choice. He believed he didn't love me because he kept looking for something else in other women, he kissed two girls during the last ...

I'm worried about my guy and my sister!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

27 September 2010 (?) - i m in problem ,totally confused,i love some one(rahul) by heart eariler we were good friends and that boy used to like my sister but she rejected his proposal first,and know when i and rahul are together she wants rahul back,but rahul says that he ...

How to be honest with my homegurl without hurting her feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I have a homegurl who I call my sister. I knew her for years but we are so different, from the way we dress, to the guys we meet and date. I'm pregnant now and she claims to be the god mother and suppose to be the host of my babyshower. She hasn't ...

Are her parents holding us back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - I have fallen in love and started a relationship with a girl 12 years my junior. i'm 31 and she is 19. We get on so well, we can talk to each other about anything, we share similar interests, we enjoy each others company. we both feel the same about ...

Divorced or bereaved dad - or is it the same thing? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - As a divorced dad - now with a new lady partner (NB: I live alone) - seeing my children home (they are 50 miles away) - and saying goodbye to my partner hurts me so much I do not know what to do for the best. I feel that I am living a real be...

My family adopted an 11 year old boy who is attracted to me and won't leave me alone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - hi everyone, I'm feeling really awkward right now, and it's been going on for quite some time. My family adopted an eleven year old boy (who resembles Dominic Scott Kay to me) and he's just gotten into 6th grade. He's sweet and smart, and definitely ...