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Archived questions from: February, 2007 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My mum doesn't like our age gap but I want to spend the rest of my life with this man!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6493 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I'm in a bit of a pickle! I'm 21 and my fiance is 35. My mum dosent like it because of the age difference. What can i do or say to help her change her mind? I love him and plan on spending the rest of my life with him. I've been with him since i ...

Is it possible to become addicted to Drama?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I think I'm addicted to being obsessed and unhappy. Everything in my life has to become a big issue and I can't seem to stop it now. Even minor things seem to become huge with me, I don't know whether it's habit or the adrenaline rush of drama in my ...

Is there life after death? Is there hell and heaven? Is there reincarnation? Do we wake-up, and find out we're all aliens?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - hey this is a very wide question but hopefully itll mean i get more peoples opinions on it!! what you think happens when people die, is there life after death? my dad died recently and i cant help thinking whats happened to him so i'd like to know...

My Mom Guilt Trips Me For Staying With My BF Over The Weekends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - My mother is driving me crazy. I have a boyfriend of 2 yrs but I still live at home. My boyfriend lives 2 hrs drive away from me and I get to see him only during the weekends. He has a 6 yrs old daughter which only come stays with him every second ...

Im confused, is he saying we can have kids or not!!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6507 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I am in love with a man 16 years older. We've been living in for 3 years now.When we first got together, he said he wanted to get married and have children but every time i tell him i'm ready to start a family he thinks of some reason to put it ...

Shes asked for a divorce, But also needs money, I want her back, dont know what to do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Separated,no children,12 yr friendship,10 yr relationship,4 yr in marriage. We were best friends, we studied together for sometime. My W confides in friends, Mother and diary but never me. I was insecure,jealous,overpro...

He was my one true sweetheart but that was over 10 years ago! We are still in contact but hes married, I love him more now than ever, what should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi,I HAD to talk to someone about this because I am so confused and devastated. I was only 16 but found the love of my life and he had said I too was his first true love and I never stopped loving him. The only reason we broke up was because his mom ...

How has she persuaded him to abandon his son??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - What kind of woman can make a man turn his back on his children and all his responsibilities? I am talking about my ex here. He has been with his new woman now for about 3 years and ever since it's as though he has no responsibilites or care for...

Do you think it's normal that my girlfriends mum agreed to us having sex when she was under age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Do you think it's normal that my girlfriends mum agreed to us having sex when she was under age? My girlfriend asked her mum if she could get the pill a month before she was sixteen and her mum said 'Okay' and was not shocked. My gf claims her mu...

My girlfriends relationship with her mum really annoys me, its so childish!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I really hate my girlfriend and her mums relationship with one another. They are far too close and irritating. Whenever Im round my gfs house I get uncomftable when her mum comes in because they are giggling and jokey and try and embarass me. ...

He still has pictures of his ex girlfriend up and he won't take them down even although they bother me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - my boyfriend has pictures of his ex girlfriend in his home, both with him and her and her with his kids. i have mentioned on 2 occasions that it bothers me but he said they are just pictures and his kids are in them so he's leaving them up....

Been with him for 4 years but the chemistry has gone. I feel as if I'm out with my mate or brother.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi I've been with my current partner for just over 4 years. I was married previously and I knew him as a friend when I was married. We got together not long after the split from my husband and we seemed to have loads in common. Our combined kid...

Im engaged to the woman of my dreams yet have issues with her past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6507 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Im engaged to the woman of my dreams yet have issues with her past. We've been together for 18mos. We're both early 30's so obviously there are going to be people before us, but I have a feeling that if I asked for her number I would probably ...

I want to look after my mum but can't stop thinking how horrible she was to me as a child.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi all, I really need some help, I had a terrible relationship with my mother when I was growing up. She constantly put me down and was often violent to me, she locked me under the stairs, but not my brothers. I suffered with asma and eczma real...

Do I need my parent's consent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - hi i am 15 currently going to be 16 in a few days i live in the united kingdom and wanted to know.. if i can stay at my boyfriends house without concent of my mum....

What type of special gift can I get my new little sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - I no this isnt the type of question on here but im stuck. im 22 and want 2 no what i can get my new baby sister as a special present that she can keep 4 the rest of her life? And e help would be great coz i want it 2 b special but not mind-blowingly ...

Just wondering if anyone have a different definition of "fiance" other than those who got engaged.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6508 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - This past weekend, I spend my weekend at my boyfriend's. I had dinner with his family (parents, siblings, cousins). My bf's parents start introducing me to others as my bf's fiance. Me and my boyfriend is really close and we are seriously looking ...

I love my wife but she is ALWAYS telling me how to drive from the passenger seat!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - I have 1 of 100s of other problems with my wife, for which i need some urgent help. On this specific problem, I would explain as below- when i am driving, she continuously gives instructions, like where to park, how to park, (as a matter of fact, i ...

Help! I've just found out my boyfriend is using me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - help i just found out my boyfriend is using me, he lives with his parents and i met him online he had me send him stuff all the time for him and his son thousands of dollars said he needed money needed toys for his son, he was doing without food. ...

My boyfriend took his sister's side over mine and it really hurt me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Hi, I hope someone can help. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and over the time had a few probs with his sister. They are very close. Anyway every time she gets drunk she becomes all needy, turns her back to me, and makes comments that make ...

I lost my husband in December and don't know whether to get involved with an old flame? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - In December, my husband whom I love very much, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly... We lived in another state, and I've since relocated back to my home town, where I'm staying with my parents for a couple more weeks before I move into my new h...

Should I tell her how I feel about her before it's too late?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6508 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - I have a question I'm in need of advice. I have a friend who I have liked for many years but never told her. The reason why I never told her was because she was always in a relationship with this guy who has no backbone. The back drop to my question ...

I'm still very good friends with my ex but am with someone else who I'm terrified hurts me again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6508 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - i need some help, and have two questions. 1. about 4 months ago i split up with my boyfriend of 15 months but told him that i still loved him and wanted to go out with him again at some point in the future, which i genuinely did - i even spent a ...

How can I tell my parents I want to be a pornography actress without them blowing a fuse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - i no this sounds weird but i would love to become a pornography actress and im choosing my opitions as i type this but i dont no how to tell my mum and dad with out them putting me in a bording school or in a high up castle with a dragon for a ...

I'm worried he leans on me too much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6509 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - I and my boyfriend seem to be having the same argument over and over. I'm still young, but I've had enough relationships to realise that this one means a great deal to me, and I am determined to make it work. My boyfriend has been through a lot over ...

Should I tell my parents that my sister's having a party while they're away even although they've told her no?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

25 February 2007 (M) - I found out that my sister might be having a party. Now I don't now all the details (where, how many are going etc.) but me and my parents are out that weekend and there are guys older than me, who might be going. My parents say she can't have a ...

We live with his mother and she's driving me craaaaaazy!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - Ok my husband and i have lived in his mothers house for about 7 months and i have hated it sence we have moved in here. his mother is ocd and she is really getting on my nerves she is always telling me to tell her and anyone what i think about ...

What do you do when your husband does not see the bigger picture?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - whre do i go from here , im with my husband 13 years and since having twins 16 months ago life has become hard work ,im not complaining but i miss 1on 1 with my husband talking and just holding each other he thinks im just nagging .. i am only 27 ...

I really like this man but I need support just now more than a man. How can I go there and NOT look attractive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - I have been separated from my husband for a year and we are filing for divorce this month. It was terrible, traumatic, both of us did terrible things to each other and I have had post traumatic stress problems for this whole year. So much so, in ...

I'm 16 and want to move in with my boyfriend but my mum won't let me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - I'm 16 and want to move out with my boyfriend he has his own place, but my mum wont let me move out. If i go is there anything legal she can do about it if i just go? I really don't no what to do. Please help!...

Life is getting me down just now what with exams and my love life, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - dear cupid i dont knnow what to do anymore im so stressed out with revsion and exams at school and to top it all of i just a lost a real nice guy, basically theres this really cute guy who i met via a friend and we been chatting and stuff and he...

We have been together 10 years and have children together but he won't marry me and I'm so upset about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - We have been together nearly 10 years, have had our ups and downs, a few kids but he refuses to get married. He knows it means a lot to me. I don't even want a big do. Just him and me, to commit to each other. The years have just flown by, ...

My partner had an affair, we have 3 kids together and I just can't get over it, I feel his mom planned it all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend had an affair a year ago..We have just started our 9th yr together and have 3 beautiful children.To say i was shocked and devestated would be an understatement. The woman he was with was an ex..she stayed best buds with his mom. I never ...

Should I give her an ultimatum or just stick it out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (M) - Hi Im a single guy and would like some advice. On 04/12/06 I started chatting with a girl nearby in a chat room. Anyway we hit it off instantly and after a couple of weeks she asked to meet me. However I still haven’t met here. Every time we ...

My girlfriend tells me she's 16, her mates tell me she's only 14, I'm 24. She never wants to see me and always has excuses, her mates tell me she's cheating on me, I don't know what to believe! Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (M) - I'm 24 Years old i'm dateing a 16 year old girlfriend who i never see. the problem, i never see my new girlfriend but i have a big heart to dump her for not seeing me. i kind of blame myself for us not seeing each over. v-day i lost the car ...

My male cousin tries to get as physically close to me as possible. Is this intentional?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (M) - I am 25 and share a deep emotional connection with one of my male cousins, that i didn't ever before in my life. However, when we go out on bike and i am sitting on his back, he tries to get his as* close to my pen*s as much as he can and this i can ...

My mom is always so nasty to me, I hate her she's a bitch! I don't know what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

23 February 2007 (F) - Someone please help me...please I really need some help...my mother is seriously pissing me off more than lately. I always go to my room and never want to talk to her just to avoid her bitching and complaining. Sometimes I want to fight her or jus...

My Mom has threatened to send me away if I skip any more school. I did it again and I'm scared! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

23 February 2007 (F) - Please help me! I'm only 16 and my parents might send me to a home! I can't stand my mom...she drives me nuts and I can't even stand to be AROUND her! She just annoys the hell out of me and now she wants to send me to a home because she "can...

Is Mom's answer to my question, right or is she just keeping my hopes up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

23 February 2007 (M) - A while ago I asked my mum "how do you know if you have found the right person?" (in other words someone you have fallen in love with and want to spend the rest of your life with them) and she said you just know it's right. Is she right or is she j...

Do you think it would be okay if I asked my boyfriend to stay the night? But not to sleep with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

23 February 2007 (F) - hi me and my bf are both 16 and are relationship is going very well. we have both been going out with each other for about 2 months. (so far all we have done is kiss (not with tougues yet). we go round each others houses a lot. he's coming roun...

My mum is stressing me out, I can't even LOOK at a boy on TV let alone date one but she'll throw a fit!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - what to do? i've just turned 16, and my mum is really obsessed with school, and when i even mention a boy off the tele she has a stress, mainly because she left school to be with my dad and apparently it ruined her life, but i can't even look ...

Any advice on how to do cleaning, spa and weight????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - I am a female when I was 18 I was a size 8 and 7 years on I am a size 12 I got married last year and I should of lost weight in January beginning of 2006. my mum sister nagged me to lose weight I was oh I will do it when I'm ready. Now beginning of ...

I dont get on with my sis as she can be a bit self centred, How can I get along with her better ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - How can I get along with my sister when I don't even like her? I am the youngest daughter, my 2 sisters are at least 9 years older than me. I don't get along with the oldest very well, and i can't trust her with personal problems because ...

My guy is in the army and his mum hates me and keeps making up stories about me to him! How can I win here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - hay guys! ive been going out with this lovely guy for 1 yr! hes perfect for me! now hes just gone away with the army! missing him but everythings fine with us its just his mum! she hates me... she keeps lieing to him and telling him ppl have told ...

My mum and I aren't very close, how do I tell her I have a boyfriend? I'm really scared to tell her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6513 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - hey there, i have a boyfriend and have been going out with him for a few months now. my mum and i arn't very close and i feel i have to live up to my older sisters reputation. how do i tell her that i have a boyfriend? im not very good at talking to ...

Will my gynecologist know I'm not a virgin? I don't want my mom to know! Is there doctor/patient confidentiality between us at my age??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

21 February 2007 (F) - I am 17 and I have scheduled my first appointment with a gynecologist because of my menstural cramps. I am worried, though, because I have recently lost my virginity, and I am sure the doctor will know. Mostly, I'm concerned that my mother will ...

I think my ex has a brother I was never told about. I want to know for my son's sake. I don't want to upset anyone, so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

21 February 2007 (F) - I was looking into my ex husband's family tree for my son. I found a photograph of a teenage boy with the exact same surname as my ex husband and looking like him exactly. The looks are very distinctive and singular. My son thought it was h...

My son goes gambling during his school lunch break! He became livid when I tried to talk about it. Is professional help the best solution?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

21 February 2007 (M) - At school recently one of my 16-year-old son's teachers phoned up saying she'd seen him go to gambling arcades during lunchbreak, frequently. She's already had to bring him back to school 3 times this week. I got a phone call off her this mo...

The boy I'm dating has a child, I am really fond of the guy but if my mom finds out he has a child she'll throw a fit!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

21 February 2007 (F) - I am dating this guy who has a child. I am beginning to like him very much. My mom knows I am dating him but she does not know he has a child. I am just seeking advice if it is proper to date a guy who has a child and what would my mom say when she ...

Why do things seem to be too big to others, that seem to be quite normal and not a big deal for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

21 February 2007 (M) - Why do things seem to be too big to others, that seem to be quite normal and not a big deal for me. Infact i am looking forward for those things when others feel dreadful and nervous about it. As an example, when i was going for a job out of my ...