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writes:i no this sounds weird but i would love to become a pornography actress and im choosing my opitions as i type this but i dont no how to tell my mum and dad with out them putting me in a bording school or in a high up castle with a dragon for a gaurd!! how can i tell them???
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2007): So you want to enter the porn industry. Well one thing you could do to test the waters is to pick a guy or two you dont know have have them over for sex. Infact have someone film it. See how that fits. If you like it pick someone you really dont like and have him sleep with you. If you dont feel like you want to vomit at that point well who knows you may enjoy it.
personally if you want sex just get a group of guys that you know and when ever you want them or one of them just drag one home and have fun. But porn is a nice way of saying prostitute. And your health is at risk.
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reader, Beautiful_Disgrace666 +, writes (2 March 2007):
Beautiful_Disgrace666 is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey well fanx u all very much and ive been thinkin alot n im ganna do something more usefull wid mi life like become a tattooest or hel wid animals or do something different
fanx u all soo much
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2007): I actually do porn.Just because you do porn doesn't mean that you've been abused or that you will be abused. I am happy, I am clean I have a boyfriend. However, you are relly young and shouldnt think about such things. Even tho not everyone is messed up and abused, some girls really are. there are drugs everywhere in this career and lots of guys who are assholes and will treat you bad. i really think you should finish school n stuff before you think about doing porn. all tho it looks really easy, its not. theres a lot of emotional pain that happens to tons of girls. i am alright because i see the porn industry for what it really is. pretty much a whole business for horny guys. and we women need to stay educated and stable to be on top of the industry.you have to be 18 anyway. have fun right now stay in school. all tho porn looks like fun, its not always fun and games. it can be really hard if your not ready for it. ive seen lots of girls go down bad paths due to this place. dont be one of them! leave that to the professionals lol.
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reader, fallenman +, writes (25 February 2007):
 Most porn even soft porn leaves horrific psychological scares that will stay with you all your life. It is a painful disgusting and degrading job.
If you have got your ideas from pron mags then understand that they do not project real life, they wouldn't sell if they did.
Porn destroys relationships and encourages aggressive acts towards women, it is a trade of heartache and pain. The real money is in the promotion and publication of porn, not the actors / victims themselves.
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reader, lucy +, writes (25 February 2007):
firstly you are only 15..its illegal to be having sex at your age let alone considering a career in pornography! in my opinion porn is degrading towards women. Women are intellegent, independent, free thinking beings, and should be treated with respect. Think about doing something meaningful with your life that will make a difference in the community or something that will gain you respect. and i think it would be wise not to tell your parents at this time, as its possibly just a phase and once you are older you will see that there are alot more options out there career wise. xxx
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (25 February 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
I am QUITE familiar with the sex industry, I have dabbled around it and around the people who work in it. It's a really, really, really harsh world.
However, I do think 'rhythmandblues' tore into you a little bit, I don't think you need serious help. However, for such a young girl, I really think that you should do some growing up and SERIOUS thinking before you try to become a porn star. First off, it's very, VERY illegal until you're 18. So don't even bother for a long, long time.
Secondly, the porn industry can really be a dirty, filthy, disgusting place. There really are some freaks and weirdos who can and will hurt you emotionally, and maybe even physically.
If you are really set on this, there are safe ways to be a pornography actress, but you need to be OLD ENOUGH and SMART ENOUGH to be able to do it. Get educated!! Go to college, get a REGULAR job, learn about people and about yourself. Before you get into something like that, you need to be VERY comfortable with yourself, know who you are and you need a lot of inner power and strength. The porn industry is for WOMEN not for girls. They're the ones who end up really screwed up, taken advantage of, drugged up and any number of other cruel fates.
Don't even GET into the porn industry until you're well into your 20's. It'll give you a lot of time to really think out your decision. For the time being, you're so young and I really think you can find better things to concentrate on. Friends, school, family.
Work on finding out who YOU are, YOUR inner strength and most importantly YOUR MIND. Get a college degree before you think about become a porn star. A porn star with a college degree is a pretty big threat to the industry! And, by then you might have changed your mind about what you want to do in your life.
Take it from a girl who spends most of her days with porn actresses, strippers and escorts. It's a painful and sometimes CRUEL AND HORRIBLE life for someone who isn't COMPLETELY ready for it. The ones who are the happiest and make the most money are the ones who went to school, went to college, have degrees and took time to discover THEMSELVES.
That's all I've got for you, love.
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2007): What in the world are you thinking? You are under the age of 15 and a child and your aspiration is to have sex with strange men for money while being filmed?
You need some serious help, where did you get this idea of how to live? Do you have any morals or religous beliefs?
What do you think the people who gave birth to you and love you and whose job it is to protect you from harm and see that you grow up to be happy would do when you unload this bomb on them?
You have no idea what the porn industry is all about. You will meet some sordid people who will use and abuse you and you may even end up homeless or worse dead on the street from the weirdos that you will come into contact with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2007): I'm not sure what the pornography laws are like in Britain, but here in the US you need to be at least 18. I'm guessing that you need to be 18 in Britain too. Since you're only 13-15, I don't think there's any need for you to tell your parents this dream of yours yet. Chances are they will be unsupportive and yes they can take action to prevent you from doing so.Once you become a legal adult the world is your oyster. You can do with your life whatever you choose. At that point, you can tell them without worry that you want to be a porn star and they can't legally stop you.Of course they're going to be upset, any parent probably would be. I would explain to them that you've thought about it carefully (as I hope you have) and you truly feel that this would be the career that makes you happiest. Over time hopefully they'll come around and support you, but until you actually CAN be a porn star, I'd keep it to yourself.
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